For me, there are only two real big deal breakers.
The first is purposeful ignorance. As in, people who believe what they want to and shut out other opinions and facts. My last boyfriend and I broke up because of our stands on refugee policy in Australia. Which is ridiculous because it had no effect on us personally, I was just appalled that anyone could be so ignorant and proud of it.
The second, violence and bullying. I don't care if it was just one time and will never happen again, if you hit your girlfriend you're out, straight away. And if you show the same kind of aggressive behaviour outside of the relationship, thats almost as bad.
The first is purposeful ignorance. As in, people who believe what they want to and shut out other opinions and facts. My last boyfriend and I broke up because of our stands on refugee policy in Australia. Which is ridiculous because it had no effect on us personally, I was just appalled that anyone could be so ignorant and proud of it.
The second, violence and bullying. I don't care if it was just one time and will never happen again, if you hit your girlfriend you're out, straight away. And if you show the same kind of aggressive behaviour outside of the relationship, thats almost as bad.