1. I'm against cheating.
2. I don't want to be rebound guy.
3. I had a girlfriend with an over-religious family. I don't mind religious, but I close-minded people are annoying.
4. Too independant. I don't mind you doing your own stuff. I'd like a heads-up if you plan to do something though.
5. I don't care who is winning the next American idol/x-factor/whatever. You don't stop a man from watching a hockey game. (Since there's a lockout this year, you can watch it..Although, I won't be around).
On OP* Seriously? You wouldn't date a girl because she likes Justi Bieber? How...14 year old of you...
But seriously, music tastes are fun, but it shouldn't be an absolute deal-breaker.
OT: I really odn't have a lot. Dont' cheat on me and don't be an ass, other than that i'm very flexible, submissive, agreeable and gamer girl. I am pretty clingy and childish, but other than that...I kinda love everyone :S
Quick note before I start, the girl I'm in a relationship with now is bi-sexual, as am I so it kinda makes things fun. We are also BDSM players and swingers.
But here are deal breakers
1: Being closed minded to anything, try it once or at least give a better reason than "no I haven't tried to, no I don't like it" (One big thing is foods, I come from a family where we literally would eat just about anything that was good to eat reguardless of how it looked)
2: Expecting me to pay for everything. Now I do beleive a guy should pay for special occasions, fancy dinners and what not. But if we're swining by taco bell at 2 am cause the stash I bought is gone then she better pay up.
3: Not having a sense of humor. That's just horrible, if I can't make a Jew joke, or some racist coment without her getting overly offended then I don't want he around.
4: My son doesn't like her. I have a 4 year old, if we're out doing something with my son, and she can't get along with I'm.. then we're gonna have a bad time..
5: Dog hater, I have a husky and also help rescue huskies from bad houses in the area (over the last year I've had about 8 come through)
6: Someone who mocks religion, I'm all about being open minded, so someone who can't let people belive what they want I don't want them around.
4: My son doesn't like her. I have a 4 year old, if we're out doing something with my son, and she can't get along with I'm.. then we're gonna have a bad time..
That can be a tough one, as sometimes it can take kids that young a long time to warm up to someone a parent ends up spending time with, for no reason more then "it's not mum" or because they don't want to share you.
I don't speak for your child of course, but I have had this happen in one relationship to me before and I tried my hardest to be a good father figure over that year. He never met his dad, so maybe that's a factor, but I was always trying my best. I never raised my voice to him because I felt his mother was the more appropriate one to do that sort of stuff etc since I was new to his life, he was 3 going on 4 when I met the kid.
That can be a tough one, as sometimes it can take kids that young a long time to warm up to someone a parent ends up spending time with, for no reason more then "it's not mum" or because they don't want to share you.
I don't speak for your child of course, but I have had this happen in one relationship to me before and I tried my hardest to be a good father figure over that year. He never met his dad, so maybe that's a factor, but I was always trying my best. I never raised my voice to him because I felt his mother was the more appropriate one to do that sort of stuff etc since I was new to his life, he was 3 going on 4 when I met the kid.
yea, I'm talking about the people that are like "so you have a kid.. great..." those people just don't seem to enjoy it as much as I do.. even if they have their own kid.
That can be a tough one, as sometimes it can take kids that young a long time to warm up to someone a parent ends up spending time with, for no reason more then "it's not mum" or because they don't want to share you.
I don't speak for your child of course, but I have had this happen in one relationship to me before and I tried my hardest to be a good father figure over that year. He never met his dad, so maybe that's a factor, but I was always trying my best. I never raised my voice to him because I felt his mother was the more appropriate one to do that sort of stuff etc since I was new to his life, he was 3 going on 4 when I met the kid.
yea, I'm talking about the people that are like "so you have a kid.. great..." those people just don't seem to enjoy it as much as I do.. even if they have their own kid.
True enough, the lady I'm with right now loves my son, the lady I was with before her wasn't to thrilled about it when I had him. Even though she really liked me and I liked her I told her we can't continue if she doesn't like the fact I have a son, so we split
High five sir! You'll never see my two, but kudos on your good work! It's a mans dog, and doesn't take shit from anyone. It's no wonder so many people can't handle them.
No real deal breakers in a relationship for me, I wouldn't get into a relationship with a person that would tick my rage boxes. Some minor niggles would be if they where messy or didn't respect my property, "cheating" doesn't bother me I prefer casual sexual relationships in the first place. I am not disapproving of drugs or drink but if they get me involved with the law, either they come looking for them or asking me questions they better have a good reason for that.
1. Being boring... This is just me as of late. I want to find a girl that's all artsy, deep, brooding and what not. Someone that kinda has their own thing going that I can stand in awe of.
2. Lying... Just, just no. I've been cheated on, it sucked, and I don't know how serious I am about this being a deal breaker but... Good lord, how am I ever expected to trust another human being again?
1: No cheating. It should be rather obvious, but I take an even more negative view than most. Call me old-fashion, but I believe that you should stay with the one you marry for you whole life unless they do something, and while I am not above forgiving cheating if it happens once, I dont want it to be a biweekly thing.
2: No Drugs. Weed, Smokes, all of them. The occasional beer is fine, but you shouldnt be falling over drunk, and you shouldnt see 2 identical mes standing side by side.
God help you if you say you want the war on drugs ended. I am ok with decriminalizing to an extent, but It should all stay illegal. I DONT CARE!!!! if its not as bad as beer or cigarettes. I DONT CARE!!!! if we can tax it. We have enough drugs legal already. We dont need more. If anything, we should be taking the fight to the drug lords in Mexico instead of trying to stop EVERYTHING on this side of the border. Dont want to do it. Then I got 6 words for you: Let me push the F$%^ing Button!
3: If you came expecting sex outside of marriage, you may as well turn around now and leave, because it aint going to happen. As far as I am concerned, sex is something that is only done between married individauls and nothing else will make me change my mind.
4: They cant be overly religious to the point of denouncing science and the like. However, they also can not say that those who are religious are idiots. I come from a very religious family, and while I am not as religious as they are, I am still pretty spirtiual.
5: Sorry, you want to be around me, you are going to have to get used to guns, because I am going to have at least 2 real guns and many "airsoft" model guns to my name.
6: There are afew things you never speak ill of. You dont talk about about my parents. You dont curse the United States (or else you get chased by one angry patriot). In a similar vein, you do not speak ill of the South, and its an even worse idea to speak ill of the Midwest. If you say anything negative about the fact that I drive a pickup truck, you should leave...NOW. You know, the basics.
7: I can take you have different political opinions than me, but there are afew that need to be relatively similiar. On the same note, No bashing of any political party[footnote]Although, calling bull on certain policies is fine as long as it doesnt conflict with the aforementioned "We must agree on afew things." standard[/footnote]. I'm am a very proud Republican, and while I call bull on many things they do (thier emphasis on religion and opposition to gay marriage cheif among them), if you are going to call Republicans "evil" based on afew nuts, you might as well leave. In exchange, I will not talk bad about whatever political party you are a member of, whatever that may be.
And of Course, My girlfriend passes all 7 requirements to a T.
I just feel bad.... especially for any rational person he may come across.
Really doesn't help the southern Democratic hating white christian with a gun in a pickup truck stereotype does he? It also seems like he's still trying to figure out that spell checker. Considering I support legalizing marijuana, am an anti-theist, support strict gun laws, am very critical about the United Stats especially the South, think most republican are batshit crazy or suffering from some mental disability, am pro-choice, support birth control with healthcare, and wouldn't be caught dead in a pickup truck, I think if we ever met his head might explode.
Unless of course this is satire than well done good sir.
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