I picked up my current girlfriend at an ice cream shop. We spent the next night together. That was two years ago. You just gotta have confidence and not be dejected when she says no. It happens. More girls are gonna say no than yes. I feel for all you guys who can't connect with women. My buddy is the same way. He is 24 and hasn't had a girlfriend in 8 years. But, he doesn't let it get him down, either. In the last year he has had sex with a hotel front desk clerk, a threesome with two strippers, the 2008 MuchMusic hottie next door, a bikini model that happened to be his boss's daughter, a little person (he still hears about that one), and a couple of medics. And, like my other buddy says, if you can't get a date, get a nurse. Guys, the really hot ones, never get approached by nice guys. So, sack up and go talk to that hottie. Be open, be honest, be yourself. I know, I am an average guy and I date hotties.