I just want to say thanks for everyone who is taking this seriously, it means a lot. Sometimes I just get caught up in this "despair". When I'm at school though, I never act this way. It's kinda "bipolar" (for a lack of better words) really.
Probably the best solution, but you best hope it doesn't hurt when you pee the following morning.Aardvark said:Lower your standards. Remember, there is always someone as desperate as you are ugly. And vice versa.
I will start off by saying I never thought it was, that post was directed towards Acrisius, whom I quoted.Brimtastic said:Please, that's not what I'm trying to do at all. It's not about just getting into their pants. It's knowing that the MOST I can ever be to somebody is a "friend". And I don't care what you say, a friend is not just a relationship without the physical part. I don't know many people who are awake at night thinking about their friends or feel like the world just died when their friends leaves them...
See, I never understood the whole "standards" argument. I don't go around looking for the hottest chick and start hitting on them. In fact, its much more "random" then that. A "switch" kinda clicks in my head and I just start finding that specific girl I've been talking to for a while extremely interesting and I want to know more about them and eventually date them.orangebandguy said:Probably the best solution, but you best hope it doesn't hurt when you pee the following morning.Aardvark said:Lower your standards. Remember, there is always someone as desperate as you are ugly. And vice versa.
Holy crap, that shows desperation. Ironically, that attitude is less likely to get you laid just because it shows some really unattractive qualities. Also fun fact, confidence is WAY more important than looks, for guys at least.orangebandguy said:Probably the best solution, but you best hope it doesn't hurt when you pee the following morning.Aardvark said:Lower your standards. Remember, there is always someone as desperate as you are ugly. And vice versa.
It wouldn't be a problem if he had the bouncy trampoline...AkJay said:[http://img685.imageshack.us/i/3231572315b943c8049co.png/] [http://g.imageshack.us/img685/3231572315b943c8049co.png/1/]
unfortunately I don't think "being myself" is good enough. I guess my years of experience can back me up on this one.President Moocow said:Making so much effort to "be nice" doesn't work for so many reasons that I don't even need to explain that, but here's a thought that's much easier and isn't faking sincerity: What if you were to stop all that bullshit for a second and just be yourself? Did you ever try that?
I am fat/ungly and relucsive yet somehow managed to get a GF, why? because I live and let live and semi happy go lucky and thoroughly pessimistic about life love and money, frist you have to put up withyouerselfs to know yourself so you can be youerself so others can put up with you.....only then will you will be showered with love...or rotten tomatoes...well....least I have enough funky tomato juice to deal with being hit by skunks.....Brimtastic said:First off, I want to apologize for wasting your time if none of this makes sense to you, the reader. I don't post much stuff. I just need to get some opinions and I find it quite difficult to articulate how I feel about this subject to friends or family. Your comments are always greatly appreciated.
Anyway, to tell you a little about myself, I am a pretty fat and ugly senior in high school. I have never had a girlfriend nor does it look that likely that I will in some time. In most other aspects of my life I feel confident in my capability. Just not this one.
I never really attempted to get a girlfriend until a year ago. Where I met a girl and I actually thought it was possible that she liked me and all that jazz (I even wrote her poems, yes it is stupid/creepy now that I look back on it, though she did like them). Only to find out she only thought of me as a "nice, funny guy"...
Now days, I am bitter towards the success of my friends and their relationships with their girlfriends. I feel cynical and cold. I have come to realization that no matter what I do/say I will always be the "fat funny guy". I find no point in "being nice" to these girls, for I will be the same thing to them no matter how I act. Right now I feel like this life I'm living in is just a joke and I'm the only one laughing...I don't want to laugh anymore.
Then I apologize, that wasn't my intention.Acrisius said:Your comment actually hurt my feelings!
Well I can certainly say that you're better off being true to yourself than faking sincerity and going out of your way to be someone you're not.Brimtastic said:unfortunately I don't think "being myself" is good enough. I guess my years of experience can back me up on this one.President Moocow said:Making so much effort to "be nice" doesn't work for so many reasons that I don't even need to explain that, but here's a thought that's much easier and isn't faking sincerity: What if you were to stop all that bullshit for a second and just be yourself? Did you ever try that?
I don't think you read everything I said but that's okay.Mazty said:Loose weight. You seem to have no confidence and being fat won't help, so do something about it. You can't complain about a problem when you're not helping yourself.