Relationships are tough.

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Silver_Runner

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I'm enjoying every minute of my relationship, the one thing I hate is I'm trying to resist that 'falling' for him. Love happens yeah I know! But, for a chick, it's brutal! This has actually been one of the few rock hard, no this is the only relationship that has been stable, and I've not had any back peddling. Though my problem runs on this, I'm a sensual person in general, in what I do I put every bit of passion into it, as when I am to kiss him sort of deal. My only miff with the relationship is being the fixated sexual fantasy, no matter how much it gives me thrills, I don't like being woken up saying he's turned on by thinking of me. I think it's the more calling and waking me up when I have to work that irritates me, otherwise I love every second of my relationship.
 

YouCallMeNighthawk

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My women does let me play my games when she is over :(

which means i have to actually pay attention to her ¬.¬

Lol only joking love the gal to bits :D
 

crazy-j

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Im single and thank god! There is nothing that terrifies me more than having a relationship.
 

Divine Miss Bee

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i love my boyfriend!! he rocks my world, he is the light of my life...and he just preordered mogworld for me, so there's the source of it right there. lol.

but i've had to go through so much crap with him to get to the point we're at now, happy and in love and stuff, that i hope i never take him for granted. relationships are HARD! they require a ton of work, but can be worth it if you find someone who works with you.
 

TheTim

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3 years with no fights or a single problem.

It almost seems too perfect >_>
 

J. Reed

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TheTim said:
3 years with no fights or a single problem.

It almost seems too perfect >_>
Hm... referring to me, maybe?

I'll just assume you are...

It's not like we haven't had disagreements or misunderstandings or been angry at one another. Because we have. But I love her. She's my best friend. I trust her and believe her at her word. And she's the same with me. It's this level of trust and understanding that resolves problems without threatening "us".

She's been upset with me and I with her multiple times, but never has anything come close to jeopardizing our relationship.
 
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Aylaine said:
CloggedDonkey said:
Aylaine said:
Taken, and loving it. My girlfriend and I completely understand each other for the most part, and I feel that half of relationship problems is one person not really understanding the other person to address problems/issues that come along as the relationship progresses. If you don't know how to handle something, you will make a mistake, which can lead to breaking up. :/
I'm a little confused here. Didn't you say you had a boyfriend before? I'm fine with whatever you tell me, I just am confused on, you know, how you swing.

Anyway, I have no problems, as I have never had a girlfriend, so I is lonely.
Pretty sure that wasn't me. I've had boyfriends before, but from the time I joined to about 2 days ago I was single. In terms of what way I swing, it's both ways. :)
This may sound odd, but that made me think of someone playing on a swing..while listening to swing music. Yea, I know.
 

BonsaiK

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Yes, I have noticed this thread. I have to go to work now, I'll trawl back through this and answer things when I get home... in the meantime if anyone wants to repost things, you know the link...

EDIT: Never mind couldn't be assed. You guys aren't really having problems anyway by the look of it. If you are, you know where to post.
 

Powereaver

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Relationships always have a rough side its just part of a normal relationship its never 100% perfect.. id like a relationship but i know it wont be easy nor always great but as long as the rocky patches are few and far between woohoo! :D
 

Sven und EIN HUND

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My longest relationship (about 6 months) last year, ended with the girl fucking one of her exes. I didn't find out until after we broke up, and when I did find out it didn't actually take much of a toll on me at all seeing as I was fully aware (at that stage) of how she was. The relationship was alright for the most part, apart from her tending to be quite manipulative, and oh god don't even get me started on her parents. Currently I'm single and happy to be; I only really have eyes for one girl whom with a relationship would be impossible as she's stuck on this manipulative abusive fuck who she can't get over. I'm not claiming superiority here but she reeeeaaaaally fucking deserves better.
 

iLikeHippos

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Single, and it really can't be helped very much.
Because any girl I find interesting got a 98% chance of already having a boyfriend, deuce or not.

I also fear of looking like a total deuce when interacting with other people, as they'll give me a discomforting look while responding "hi" to me.

Also, I don't find myself to be interesting enough for people to take notice of.
Thus, my stance will stay like this for a long time.


And now, just to renew my "matcho status" in a pathetic, 5 seconds attempt...

BOOBIES RULES! ROAWR!!!
 

splatterguy734

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I've never been in a relationship but from what i gather its like being in constant intellectual and emotional duel.
 

Psychophante

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I've been single since my fiance buggered off with my best mate. Actually inspired me to get up off my arse and start following my current career in computer games, which is working out rather well. Turned out for the best in the end, I'm happier now than I ever was with her.
 

Inco

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Single, and not bothered trying.

Pararaptor said:
[HEADING=1]FUCKING FRIEND-ZOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONE![/HEADING]

Sums up half of this site's relationship troubles, including my own.
True to that.
It's called being nice and intelligent. If i wanted to be in the other zone, i would have to be either a dick or a brawn. I would rather stay single.
 

Nickolai77

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With regards to relationships i'm single, and somewhere between apathetic and lazy about it. It's strange, i used to want and desire someone special when i was younger- and in a way i still want that, but i just don't worry about it anymore. I have a great family, a future, good friends, i'm able to express myself through creative writing and entertain myself with computor games and DVD's...and when i'm living at home i have the ps3 of course. Baisically my life is rather good, i don't feel i need anything else. I don't go around thinking "Oh i need a girlfriend so badly"- if i happen to get a girlfriend then fair enough, if i don't, fair enough again. I sometimes get feelings for girls i know...but usually i carn't be bothered acting on them. They're just feelings, they pass away. So long as i have good friends and a good family i'm happy, and if i'm happy what more do i need?
 

Macgyvercas

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Single and despising it. There's a girl that I like, but I'm 89% certain she doesn't like me back.

I'm depressed now. I think I'll go play Blood Omen: Legacy of Kain
 

metamorphisis

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AstylahAthrys said:
I got off a bad relationship about a year ago and I've been single since. He was extremely mentally abusive and it took me ages for me to get the will to end it myself. Now I'm scared to date because even though I logically know not all men are evil pricks, I never want to be treated like that again. So now I can't bring myself to date anyone, even this one guy I would really like to ask out because I don't want it all to go to hell like the last one did.
I remember that feeling, i was in the same situation about 8 months ago, it really sucks... but then i started going out with my current boyfriend and its really great... so give that other guy a chance!
 

twaddle

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for some strange reason my girl ahs loved me 4 3 years.. idk know why. well i love her there's that...
 

Bellvedere

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Relationships aren't that bad. Breaking up is tough. Relationships are great. It's so fantastic loving someone. But jealousy and untruthfulness, neglect. That's tough. But that's the boring part. That's when everyone gets obsessed with drama and conflict and lose sight of what's normal. My boyfriend broke up then I cried for two days straight and then I got bored and decided to play dragon age. It's weird being that upset. Also I forgot how awesome it was going out without a boyfriend.
 

captainwolfos

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Single. Sometimes I hate it, sometimes I laugh in people's faces about it.

But yeah. I do like this girl, who happens to be my best mate. And she knows and doesn't really care and/or mind, but it's still kinda awkward.