Romantic Failure

[Miumaru]

Being romantic is not just what they show in movies. Being romantic is showing you care for...and KNOW your partner. Certainly a guy would do better with me taking me to say, Comic-con than a fancy restaurant. (Especcially since theres nothing I like in fancy places, yuck)

 

[BoxCutter]

Women are just like men when it comes to partners, what you assume would be the ideal man isn't necessarily what we look for. What generally matters (as a whole) is that the man is kind, considerate, of moderate intelligence (why would you want to be with someone you can't hold a conversation with?) and attractive to the individual. Everyone finds something different attractive in others, you don't have to be cookie cutter 'hot' to be happily in a relationship.

So yes, a man could be OMGHAWT but not what a woman wants in a man she wants to be with for the rest of her life.

I'll have to agree with most of your post here.

People are all different, there is no secret to women. They are humans who like and do not like different things. If you are anti social and are not very good at being "romantic" but you care about your significant other and show them that you do, I cannot imagine them not understanding that you are rather terrible at the social aspect of life (or even it they tried to help you through it a bit).

The question of probability is another issue. If you're a "failure" at a personal and/or social life the chances of you talking to any stranger are very slim, which makes the probability of even coming close to starting a relationship very slim. That being said, anything is possible and their is an ass of every seat.

 

[Mr Montmorency]

Are you fat, ugly, sweaty, or smelly? Cause women are shallow creatures.

Fuck, they probate people for the dumbest reasons...

 

[Woodsey]

I don't understand what you're talking about...?

 

[similar.squirrel]

Sure it is. Conversely, many idiots get into beautiful and fulfilling relationships. Gives some of us a guilt complex.

Look, it's all a matter of personal taste. I'm assuming you asked this because you're having problems in that area; maybe you should look at yourself and see if there's something you're missing that women aren't.
Wearing your underpants over your jeans or whatever.
I could be wrong. In that case, I apologize.

 

[Paragon Fury]

Wait, my underwear goes underneath?

/joke


But in all seriousness, no I was not asking because of myself. I know where I stand in the relationship/desirability scale, and accept my place there. No need to go rocking that particular boat.

It was just a theortical question.

 

[Haunted Serenity]

I had crap romantic life before i met my wife then it all fell into place. I don't know if that answers anything or maddens the un-helpful.

 

[Blow_Pop]

I AM romantic failure. Every woman I ask out has some excuse to not exist around me. "Oh, I don't watch movies." "I have to be out of town for..." "My parents don't let me do..." "Ha-ha! Oh, you're serious." And the only chick to give me a straight up answer is one of my friends. She said, "You just aren't my cup of tea."

Fine, I can deal with the last one. But chicks, don't lie. It makes us crazy. Mentally deranged. We think that there is something wring with us and we... well... we loose it. The only person to hit on me in High School was a gay man. That knocked me down a few notches on my self esteem. So at this point I have no self esteem. I've asked over 20 girls to lunch and EVER SINGLE ONE has something wildly more important to do. So, to anyone reading this that I just so happen to know, FUCK YOU!

Guys pull the same bullshit. I actually tell guys straight up no.

OT: It is entirely possible and probable. And most likely has to do with your personality or actions. Or looks. Us girls are stupid enough to care about them. But its the same with guys or girls it is entirely possible and probable. Just look at how badly I fail in relationships......