lacktheknack said:
Vivi22 said:
lacktheknack said:
The problem is simple: He made it about a school shooting that happened recently.
The game is very emotionally injurious to those directly affected by the massacre, as it's still fresh in their minds. There's a reason that we generally don't like people who "piggyback" on tragedy to make a statement. It's disrespectful and painful.
Sure, the message wouldn't have quite the same effect if he made it about a fictional school shooting, but that's just too damn bad. Cry me a river.
So school shootings are bad, but a person should ignore a perfectly good way to get a gun control message that might actually stick with some people out there because it might hurt the feelings of those affected by it? I'm sorry, but that strikes me as ridiculous. You're basically saying don't deliver a message that might actually get people talking about how change is needed because feelings. I have no issue with someone ruffling some feathers if it keeps the dialogue that needs to be happening happening. Because apparently a bunch of dead kids doesn't get the job done for more than a week or two.
You mistake the victims' reactions as mere feelings.
It's not.
It's like someone stabbing them with a knife. Repeatedly.
Unless you have sociopathic tendencies, I feel safe in saying that you've never lost someone in a traumatic/violent way if you maintain your mindset. As someone who has (overly extended Alzheimer's that left me unable to laugh at "Oh, I'm getting old and forgetful" jokes for years), I feel completely justified in dismissing your opinions as utterly biased and nonsensical.
"Feelings", indeed. How are we going to make the strides in mental well-being that we need to if we insist on allowing people to mentally assault each other with no basis? >:|
My granny had Alzheimers, and watching her slowly fall apart over the years was heartbreaking. I also got a real sour feeling for all those Alzheimer jokes that are actually really common when you start noticing them like that, but as hurt as I was, I never got to the point where I thought Alzheimer jokes shouldn't be made at all. I knew that they were not for me, and just ignored them, but that if I hadn't had that experience I would find it just as funny as everyone else.
Life leaves a bitter taste in our mouths. Everyone has their own triggers. If media had to skirt around every issue that could affect someone then we would be left with very little of anything.
If this game had just been another school shooter simulator then it wouldn't have got this publicity. It wouldn't have worked as a political message because no one would have heard of it, no one would have discussed it. Now it's message is being discussed , at the very least, on our internet forum, with a much more muted, respectful, and understanding tone than previous gun debates. (for now anyway) And if nothing else, that is something.
If the politicians and the parents of Sandy Hook don't want to put any store into the idea that a seemingly offensive, cheap videogame could actually have a message they need to hear, then that's on their heads, and it may be too difficult for the families and friends of Sandy Hook to play, but then they should be asked. "So what can we do about it?"
Arm teachers? The game shows us that may not work.
Pass stricter gun storage laws? It will help, but it won't stop the would-be murderer from still trying to do something stupid.
This is a real issue in America. If they don't want to play the game because it would be too painful I can respect that, but then it needs to be said that if the issues the game brings up aren't addressed, then this exact scenario will play out in real life again. And again. And again.
And which would be the better option?
There is a real problem in America with school shootings. Every time there is a shooting the absolute minimum is done to sate the public until another one happens. It isn't right, and it isn't being discussed. Here's a game that could change that, it probably won't, but at least the author can say he tried.
I said that Alzheimers jokes were too raw for me to get any enjoyment out of, they still are after several years, but if a comedian were to make an alzheimer joke that had the potential to prevent more people getting alzheimers, or understand the early warning signals, or petition the need for better treatment, I would be fully behind him all the way.