I'm all for social freedoms... anyone who has seen me ranting and raving on things like internet privacy rights, government infringements on civil liberties, or any of the myriad of issues out there can attest to that.
That being said... this isn't one of those times. School isn't PUBLIC. It's a specifically tailored environment. Schools by design are supposed to foster an atmosphere conducive to learning. Vulgar/provocative clothing, wild hair, and whatever other unorthodox methods one might have of self-expression are FINE by me. Hell, if you want to tattoo 'Fuck You' on your forehead and walk around like that all day... you be my guest. But it doesn't belong in a school. These aren't rules 'oppressing the young' or 'infringing on civil rights'... these are rules designed to keep the school environment from becoming just another circus act. You can ***** and moan and complain about it all you like, but the sad fact of the matter is that the TRAGEDY here is that we EVER allowed such nonsense into our places of education. And if you can't enforce some kind of minimalistic boundary with CHILDREN... then what the hell hope is there for rest of this screwed up country?
Or does nobody else see the decline of common decency, discretion, and professionalism in young Americans as a problem anymore? Are we all just so accustomed to the idea that nobody is expected act like an adult now that we've decided to go along with it?
I'm not calling for uniforms and hair-style regulations, here, people. This is about setting BOUNDARIES to ensure a respectable, serious environment for learning. If you're going to pierce every inch of your body... then at least be courteous enough not to go around school looking like a pincushion. Most of the damn things can come out... and when you get them STUFFED IN THERE, remember that you're making the CONSCIOUS DECISION to inconvenience yourself later. The whole world doesn't bend to our wills... and the sooner we start teaching our children that they can't just walk around telling reality to fuck off and NOT get their ass kicked back by the cohesive forces which hold society together, the better.
If this kid is the real deal, he doesn't need YOUR sympathy or the sympathy of the news. He's already got his identity, and he'll get strong by bucking the system all the way to wherever he ends up in life. But if he's like 90% of the sniveling, obnoxious little shits I knew in High School, he'll put his hair down during the day... get an education... and learn how to express himself when and where it's appropriate.
Or maybe the whole country will go to hell and we'll be smoldering piles of radioactive ash come this time next year.
That sure would make this kind of conversation seem hopelessly shortsighted. Not that any of us would be around to appreciate the fact.