I don't really care about it one way or the other. Although I start to find it slightly disgusting if I think about it too in depth (Hmm there's probably some innuendo in there somewhere XD)
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There can be 2 kinds of sex to my mind. There's 'lovemaking', which would factor in a greater deal of intimacy and emotional bonding between the pair involved. There's then 'fucking' which is sex without any real attachment and is thus quick and easy fun between people who don't necessarily care for one another. Both have their places. In my experience, the former is more satisfying, particularly since it'll likely be long term stuff with all the effort already done.
I probably should have mentioned that I'm open-minded about sex you wanna go have a threesome go for itthenumberthirteen said:
In one situation, it can be a heated, exciting release of emotion and frustration, and in the other it can be the ultimate act of intimacy between lovers. Either is fine, depending on what you're looking for. Regardless of what right-wing religious fuckwits will tell you, sex (and using contraceptive measures to eliminate unwanted pregnancies) is natural, and it's perfectly normal. In fact, not having sex (or at least masturbating) is unhealthy- apart from a stress reliever and something to help balance out your hormones, ejaculation of any kind helps to reduce the risk of testicular cancer in men (by reducing pelvic blockage and making sure everything works, etc. Sort of like when you try to use a car after leaving it in a garage for thirty years, you may have problems if you're not used to it and try to go at it one day).
Also, it sells.
Also, it sells.
My views on sex is simply as either a pass time thing wich 2 (or more) do or as a deeply emotional and intense love making when 2 people truly love each other (this time there cant be more than 2 for obvious reasons).
Any 2 persons can do the first option. Can be anything from friends to total strangers being drunk or something that would be translated into something like sex buddies. Pure and simple lust with no need for love feelings
The second 1 is the romantic relationship consumation. Its not needed to keep a relationship together always. Sex isnt what drives every human being after all.
Those are my 2 views on sex and how i see it. Any 2 persons can have sex even though some variations are disgusting in some peoples eyes (read gay sex)
Any 2 persons can do the first option. Can be anything from friends to total strangers being drunk or something that would be translated into something like sex buddies. Pure and simple lust with no need for love feelings
The second 1 is the romantic relationship consumation. Its not needed to keep a relationship together always. Sex isnt what drives every human being after all.
Those are my 2 views on sex and how i see it. Any 2 persons can have sex even though some variations are disgusting in some peoples eyes (read gay sex)
Lol 69 comments when I saw this thread in latest posts. So of course I had a look.
But anyway as I'm 15 I know my opinion is highly valued on this or any other subject. So imo sex can be recreational, horrible, and an act of love.
EDIT: I should just go to bed....
But anyway as I'm 15 I know my opinion is highly valued on this or any other subject. So imo sex can be recreational, horrible, and an act of love.
EDIT: I should just go to bed....
I learned about sex when I was about 5 and woke up early one morning and was flipping through the channels and found out that we apparently had a free porn channel that ran from sometime late at night and into the early morning. My parents caught me watching and there was some explaining.
As for my views...Well, I think that ideally sex should be with someone you care about and love. Realistically, it's something that just comes natural to us. It's fun, relieves stress, and just plain feels good.
As for my views...Well, I think that ideally sex should be with someone you care about and love. Realistically, it's something that just comes natural to us. It's fun, relieves stress, and just plain feels good.
I think it should be kept as a physical expression of the love you feel for someone. Anything else and I think it cheapens the act.
Mainly I learned the mechanics of sex from my parents, who made sure I knew what went where and how to be safe, and the emotions of sex from literature and the media. I know it sounds like a ridiculous old-fashioned view, and I've been called out on it before (amusingly usually by girls, traditionally the more emotional about this), but I do honestly believe you shouldn't take the romance out of sex.
I think in a more practical standpoint it needs to be discussed more; teenagers will be curious, and especially with the rise of the internet and the ease with which you can find this stuff out for yourself, there needs to be a cultural maturing about sex and sexual discussion. It isn't enough anymore to just not talk to children because if you don't they'll find out untruths from the internet/pornography. It isn't correct to say that talking to children about sex leads to them doing it more, that's actually a sign that whatever you were saying to them was entirely the wrong thing.
From my experience (and I fully acknowledge that I could be the exception) my parents' intial introduction to sex was to describe it as something that was only done between people who loved each other, and that was all I knew about it for quite some time, so when it came down to discussing the mechanics my viewpoint was already 'so I know you only do this with someone you love, so how do you actually do it?' If instead of only describing the physical basis of sex with teenagers you made an attempt to make them understand the emotional side you might find it helped them more.
But those are the thoughts of an old romantic, so feel free to ignore them.
Mainly I learned the mechanics of sex from my parents, who made sure I knew what went where and how to be safe, and the emotions of sex from literature and the media. I know it sounds like a ridiculous old-fashioned view, and I've been called out on it before (amusingly usually by girls, traditionally the more emotional about this), but I do honestly believe you shouldn't take the romance out of sex.
I think in a more practical standpoint it needs to be discussed more; teenagers will be curious, and especially with the rise of the internet and the ease with which you can find this stuff out for yourself, there needs to be a cultural maturing about sex and sexual discussion. It isn't enough anymore to just not talk to children because if you don't they'll find out untruths from the internet/pornography. It isn't correct to say that talking to children about sex leads to them doing it more, that's actually a sign that whatever you were saying to them was entirely the wrong thing.
From my experience (and I fully acknowledge that I could be the exception) my parents' intial introduction to sex was to describe it as something that was only done between people who loved each other, and that was all I knew about it for quite some time, so when it came down to discussing the mechanics my viewpoint was already 'so I know you only do this with someone you love, so how do you actually do it?' If instead of only describing the physical basis of sex with teenagers you made an attempt to make them understand the emotional side you might find it helped them more.
But those are the thoughts of an old romantic, so feel free to ignore them.
Sex is what happens when a Mummy and Daddy love each other very much. They hug in a special way and it summons a stork who drops a baby. Or at least, that's what I was told.
It definitely isn't a fun process, which is guaranteed to reduce my unfit body to a sweaty mess before flinging cash at the prostitute and rolling over to sleep...
It definitely isn't a fun process, which is guaranteed to reduce my unfit body to a sweaty mess before flinging cash at the prostitute and rolling over to sleep...
Scout camp and our portable TV
There is no better life lesson than watching porn on a shitty screen with three older guys telling you whats what.....man that sounds ten times more sinister than it actually is
There is no better life lesson than watching porn on a shitty screen with three older guys telling you whats what.....man that sounds ten times more sinister than it actually is
Sex has whatever meaning you put on it-Fundamentally its just mating. What it means depends more on the relationship between the people involved than the actual physical act.
I would say that you could divide sex up into two main categories- casual and romantic. Both have their place and I personally think that there is nothing wrong with casual sex as long as people are willing to accept the consequences of their actions. Sex is a private thing and its up to each individual to decide what they are comfortable with.
I have developed these views through my own life experiences.
I would say that you could divide sex up into two main categories- casual and romantic. Both have their place and I personally think that there is nothing wrong with casual sex as long as people are willing to accept the consequences of their actions. Sex is a private thing and its up to each individual to decide what they are comfortable with.
I have developed these views through my own life experiences.
It's a cooperation and a bond of love between two people who love eachother.
Everything else goes under the category "Fu*****"
Everything else goes under the category "Fu*****"
For me sex is like money, I love it and want it but never seem to have it 
And as for those people who think sex is evil: keep that belief to yourself and for the love of christ don't try to foist that bullshit on others.
And as for those people who think sex is evil: keep that belief to yourself and for the love of christ don't try to foist that bullshit on others.
Sex is a completely natural and pleasurable thing to do. As long as it is consented between two people that has the cognitive awareness to do as they please, I don't personally give a fuck what they do. And fuck anyone whom would try to dictate another human beings bedroom activities.
Personally, I am waiting. But that's only my choice, no one elses.
Personally, I am waiting. But that's only my choice, no one elses.
sex is a method in which a man empties his nuts into a willing female (hopefully causing some kind of pleasurable action toward said female).
I learned this through... well empting my nuts into willing females.
Some had an interaction of emotion while others were simply the action described above.
Don't make try to make it have a deeper meaning then this because normally in *(our age group) this is all the action really means.
*(our age group) refers to the 18 to 35 demographic.
I learned this through... well empting my nuts into willing females.
Some had an interaction of emotion while others were simply the action described above.
Don't make try to make it have a deeper meaning then this because normally in *(our age group) this is all the action really means.
*(our age group) refers to the 18 to 35 demographic.
Well, having been labeled with erotophobia, I absolutely hate it, and everything to do with it. These beliefs came from myself.