Jiraiya72 said:
A friend and I were having a discussion. He mentioned he doesn't think mentally challenged people should procreate. I'm not sure what side of the fence I fall on. I can understand they're human too but also that having more challenged children wouldn't be helping anyone. What do you think?
Here's something to think about; why
exactly do you think your friend, or yourself for that matter, feel this way? Is it because from your perspective they are a burdon on society? Or they just don't lead as full or rich lives (from your perspective) as yourself or others?
It's really damn easy to point at Nazi Germany and make comparisons with a discussion like this (and I'm betting after 5 pages, more than one person has made that obvious comparison), but I'm not. It's the sad truth that many people feel this way. They have been burdened or experience a burden on occation in their day to day lives.
There is a guy that rides the bus I used to from time to time. He holds a radio up to his ear, even though it's not on. The guy is cross eyed, his limbs contort in odd ways, and I suspect that radio is a prop issued to him by a social worker to help normalize his odd behavior. This guy (lets call him Gary)- Gary rides the bus all on his own with no help from anyone. I don't know where he goes, what he does, but Gary can at least get around. He is functional, though obviously mentally handicapped. If he had the opportunity to settle down with someone and be happy with another person, why not give him the opportunity to reproduce?
Lets up the scale from Gary. Seymour, our next example, is extremely mentally disabled. So much so, he cannot get through his day to day life without the help of another. It is HIGHLY unlikely procreation is in his favor as Seymour cannot so much as tie his own shoes. He cannot feed himself, preform simple tasks, or (and this is just an educated guess based on the prior) clean himself. I base this example off of a mentally disabled Seymour off of a guy that volunteered at the hospital I worked at. Rather, the service that tended to his care volunteered him, to help him learn conditioning through tasks (mail delivery) wherein he was shadowed by a "normal" person to help.
It is near totally unlikely Seymour will ever meet a woman that will allow him to "mate" his him. Even if She were as disabled as him, there's a strong chance they'd need real help. Nature has sort of stopped Seymour from mating right there. But lets say, for the sake of the topic that Seymour found a woman that is as interested in him as he is her. Who are we to say no? Many would call this progress. Why stop progress? (unless, and I'm not trying to be crude, it were savage sex, wherein a child would likely be unable to be cared for by the two.) In cases of severe mental disability, there's someone to help via some care service. This service already makes sex with disabled persons extremely unlikely.
Lets go a step further from Seymour and Gary. Someone with simply LOW IQ. We're talking short bus, but functional in society. Low grades even when applying themselves. This person sadly will never amount to anything. This could be for any number of reasons, but for sake of topic length, the result is that "Timmy" is a mentally challenged doof. He gets confused very easily, anything beyond simple math is impossible, his memory is laughable. He is the weakest link in functional society. He is dumb. It is possible that Timmy is so dumb, he's mentally challenged. A night shift janitorial job is the best he'll ever amount to. Should he be denied? He might just be dumb. But he's so dumb, he's a burden.
Now something more extreme. The Human intellectual average isn't very high. There are extremely smart people, semi-smart, average, sub average, and gibbering buffoons. From the Extremely smart peoples perspective, of which there are very very few of these people in the world, you the average person are on the same level of mental incapacity as you are looking at the mentally disabled. In theory, of course. Your actions to these smart people are face palmingly stupid. Why do it this way when, if you actually put some thought into it, THAT way would be so much better?! Well it's because you're not that smart. You are many, and a burden to these extremely smart small percentage of people. Maybe if only THEY were allowed to breed, there'd be more smart people. You are a burden to the potential of humanity.
I've sort of carried on a little. But in short, these people are only mentally disabled from where you stand. From where smarter more educated and world traveled people stand, you are probably just as dumb, just as burdening to humanity, and just as unworthy as breeding as you feel the mentally challenged.