From the explanation my parents gave me I'd say you'll have your boyfriends hand in such a strong vice grip he won't have much choice in the crying matter.Phasmal said:I kinda have to be there, so why shouldn't he suffer with me?
Boyfriend does want to be there, but if and when that happens he'll be by my head thank you very much.
Though I do often joke that he better damn well cry if I pop out a kid for him (boyfriend does not cry. Sad films- nothing, pictures of sad animals- nothing, suffering- nothing, funerals- nothing).
Besides, it'd be pretty boring otherwise, it can take a looong time. Don't really wanna go through that on my own.