Slight personal dilemma....

[ae86gamer]

So as some people on here may know (that is, my Twitter followers)

I didn't know this. But then again I don't backtrack on Twitter.

You missed the convo we had on twitter and msn. And I missed you

Anywho, I say that you just talk to them, just you and your parents, no one else. Try and have a civilized talk, and try to avoid yelling of any kind. Tell them who you are. Hope that helped

 

[Cpt_Oblivious]

So as some people on here may know (that is, my Twitter followers)

I didn't know this. But then again I don't backtrack on Twitter.

You missed the convo we had on twitter and msn. And I missed you

You joined? Oh no! I feel even worse that I won't be on mucg tonight and tomorrow night.

 

[AngloDoom]

Don't go out of your way to say it to them, but don't hide it either. Act how you want, it might even be a phase still. If not, go out with whatever gender you feel like and don't hide it from your parents. If you act normal about it then it'll make it a little harder for them to act strangely about it. If you burst into the room while they are having a pleasant conversation about the weather and hit them around the face with "I ARE BISEXUAL!" then they're bound to be shocked and less receptive.

I don't know your parents, however, so act how you think is best. This is just my opinion.

 

[johnman]

They will probly not mind you being Bi, especailly if they are decent parents. They will probly be happier that your Bi rather than gay, since they will see that a traditional married couple is not an impossibilty, thats if they are proper bible thumping christians. (ment in the best possible way)

 

[Scobie]

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[goatzilla8463]

It's your choice. Whatever.

If your parents don't like it, tell them to go get screwed... hard.

I have no problem with friends being bi and no one should have problems with you. Like I said, it's your choice and people should learn to respect.

 

[Danzaivar]

Just tell them. Women being bi-sexual is a lot more accepted then men being bi-sexual, I find. Much more frequent too.

 

[Scobie]

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[Soxafloppin]

Im pretty sure they will still love ya!

 

[loffenx]

I'd tell, over the years you might end up with a messy web of semi-lies and unspoken truths, and then it will probably be even worse telling them.

Most people I know have been surprised with the level of acceptance shown by their parents in similair situations

 

[Kinguendo]

So as some people on here may know (that is, my Twitter followers)

I didn't know this. But then again I don't backtrack on Twitter.

Anyway, I'd sit down and discuss it with them over a cup of tea. Better that than, as New Troll said, turn up with a same sex partner at Christmas or something.

Duuuuuuude, I always remember when you talk about tea... maybe thats why it always seems like you talk about tea to me, but I gotta say... brilliant! XD

EDIT: Just some appreciation heading your way there, just ate a twister so I got alot of sugar going round the system.

 

[mshcherbatskaya]

My family are fundamentalist Christians, though not stereotypically so. There was a lot of anxiety and awkwardness on their part when I came out. They were upset by the prospect of me going to hell, that I would never be happy and have a normal life, etc. etc. They got over it, some parents never do. I am pro-coming out. I think it will be better for you in the long run, better for everyone really.

You might have a bit of extra trouble, being bi. They might think that, because you are capable of having "normal" relationships, you should just ignore any non-hetero feelings. You and I both know it doesn't work like that, but they might not.

 

[Fairee]

So as some people on here may know (that is, my Twitter followers)

I didn't know this. But then again I don't backtrack on Twitter.

Anyway, I'd sit down and discuss it with them over a cup of tea. Better that than, as New Troll said, turn up with a same sex partner at Christmas or something.

Duuuuuuude, I always remember when you talk about tea... maybe thats why it always seems like you talk about tea to me, but I gotta say... brilliant! XD

EDIT: Just some appreciation heading your way there, just ate a twister so I got alot of sugar going round the system.

Thank you so much for that really helpful comment...... ¬_¬

(Yeah, before anyone says it, I know I also derail topics/make inappropriate comments. But this was meant to be a serious thread seeking real advice.....)

 

[Cpt_Oblivious]

So as some people on here may know (that is, my Twitter followers)

I didn't know this. But then again I don't backtrack on Twitter.

Anyway, I'd sit down and discuss it with them over a cup of tea. Better that than, as New Troll said, turn up with a same sex partner at Christmas or something.

Duuuuuuude, I always remember when you talk about tea... maybe thats why it always seems like you talk about tea to me, but I gotta say... brilliant! XD

EDIT: Just some appreciation heading your way there, just ate a twister so I got alot of sugar going round the system.

You want some?

 

[Kinguendo]

So as some people on here may know (that is, my Twitter followers)

I didn't know this. But then again I don't backtrack on Twitter.

Anyway, I'd sit down and discuss it with them over a cup of tea. Better that than, as New Troll said, turn up with a same sex partner at Christmas or something.

Duuuuuuude, I always remember when you talk about tea... maybe thats why it always seems like you talk about tea to me, but I gotta say... brilliant! XD

EDIT: Just some appreciation heading your way there, just ate a twister so I got alot of sugar going round the system.

You want some?

Cheers, bra'(as Jesus would say)!