Whaaaaat?zelda2fanboy said:I'm just speaking from the perspective from someone who actually has had a friend girl, in addition to (fingers crossed) a girlfriend. She once told me she wanted someone she could call at all hours of the night when she had insomnia and I straight up told her "I'm not making myself that available to someone who I'm never going to have sex with." I've applied that line of thinking to guys, too. It's a simple statement of fact. Over the past few weeks she's gotten busy and I've mentioned a few times this other fantastic girl I've started dating, and suddenly the friend girl isn't that interested in me anymore. And it doesn't matter because I've met another awesome person anyways. I didn't put all my emotional and free time eggs in one basket, waste my time barking up the wrong tree, nor did I end on bad terms with the friend girl.
That's kind of... mental.
When I went a bit loopy and didn't sleep for like 5 days straight I'd ring my best friend up at 10am every day to talk, but I guess she should have told me off because we weren't doing the nasty.
Being friends is about making yourself available. I once walked miles in a heatwave to take my friend to a doctors appointment she was scared about, and me and her were sure never gonna introduce our cats to each other (insert `if you know what I mean` picture here).
You do kind of make it sound like people you aren't going to be doinking aren't worth your time.