Try to limit ad-libbing it as much as possible.
Saying "ummm" "y'know" "a-a-and" and all that nonsense doesn't help.
Saying "ummm" "y'know" "a-a-and" and all that nonsense doesn't help.
So i'm going to confess my feelings to my crush.
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There's never going to be a RIGHT time to do it. A lot of people build up an image in their head of what it'll be like, but most likely it'll be incredibly awkward.
A friend of mine swears by one method. If you've just said your goodby, wait a couple of seconds before shouting "wait, look I'm sorry, but I've never been good at this. I really like you, ect."
A friend of mine swears by one method. If you've just said your goodby, wait a couple of seconds before shouting "wait, look I'm sorry, but I've never been good at this. I really like you, ect."
You're right, getting friendzoned is pretty bad and the best advice I can give to the OP is that if he's going to do something he better does it right, has to be confident and in no situation, under any circumstances ever mention that he did this.Catalyst6 said:
Don't go over board, like "You're teh sunshine that lights my life". Taht might scare her away. But do tell her taht you like her, and that you would like to take her out for a date. Or a movie. Or dinner. Or something.
Okay, cool.
Just, you know, don't tell her you fucking love her or anything.
Also it might help not to get your hopes up. But don't go in expecting failure. You need to be confident but prepared.
And try not to faff about with it. Be direct. Tell her you think she's cute and ask her to go somewhere. Don't get all fucking bashful.
Just, you know, don't tell her you fucking love her or anything.
Also it might help not to get your hopes up. But don't go in expecting failure. You need to be confident but prepared.
And try not to faff about with it. Be direct. Tell her you think she's cute and ask her to go somewhere. Don't get all fucking bashful.
You're not going to get a good response from people over the internet who don't know your crush. At all. The most we know is that your crush has a vagina, and there's no such thing as a code of conduct on how to deal with all people who have that set of genitalia.
I've been through dozens of painful, confusing, and down right miserable excuses for relationships and attempted relationships. I do have a wife now though. So please understand that this is the voice of experience and not that I'm trying to bring you down.
You're screwed.
Chances are she already knows about your feelings and just tactfully hasn't brought it up because she doesn't feel the same. You are NEVER as good at hiding your feelings as you think you are.
Besides, once she views you as a friend then there's no going back. No matter how much she says she wishes she could find someone just like you, it will never actually be... you. Welcome to the hell that is being in love with a friend of yours.
You're screwed.
Chances are she already knows about your feelings and just tactfully hasn't brought it up because she doesn't feel the same. You are NEVER as good at hiding your feelings as you think you are.
Besides, once she views you as a friend then there's no going back. No matter how much she says she wishes she could find someone just like you, it will never actually be... you. Welcome to the hell that is being in love with a friend of yours.
You know when people say "You only regret things you haven't done rather than things you have"? Well, they tend to be people who haven't had their hearts crushed by a cute girl, I know that. ^_^
*Sighes, chokes back tear, reaches for whiskey bottle*
*Sighes, chokes back tear, reaches for whiskey bottle*
