Blablahb said:
Natasha_LB said:
Yeah right, it'll make things worse.... because granting people who have been discriminated against a tiny bit of the privilege that others have enjoyed for years, would be silly: Whereas if the majority group have the privilege (Both in the past and now), then that's fine is it?
Do two wrongs make a right?
Two wrongs do certainly not make a right, however some some wrongs have existed for far longer than others. Minority groups deserve a leg up, because of how much we have been (And still are) pushed down. I'm all for eliminating discrimination, but while negative discrimination still exists, then positive discrimination is not a bad thing. Positive discrimination is a poor attempt at solving the problem, a mere bandage on a wound that needs stitching, but don't take the bandage off, just get the god damn stitches!! Because right now, that bandage is the only thing stopping the wound from bleeding out (A bad metaphor I know, as the bandage would need to be removed before the stitches could be placed, but I'm sure you understand my point - negative discrimination must be dealt with before positive discrimination)
As for "making a right", you don't seem at all interested in that, you just seem to want to ensure that minorities never have any advantage, no matter how small, over you. Interesting how someone who is in a position of privilege wants to stop other from gaining even footing... What are you worried about? Are you scared that without some of your pre-existing and unearned advantages that you might not be able to maintain your position in society? Worried that some of us minorities might actually be better than you, and if the oppression was removed some of us might actually surpass you? (Just to be clear, I'm not suggesting that I'm personally better than you - neither of us know enough about the other to make such a judgement yet - but it's inevitable that one of the people you're oppressing will be better than you in every possible way)
Blablahb said:
Natasha_LB said:
That hardly counts, no one forced you to ride a bike on a Sunday, don't get me wrong: It's still fucked up, but you knew what to do in order to avoid it. I on the other hand have to put up with shit like this every signal day, whenever I leave my house.
I'm pretty sure that you A are vastly exagerating, and B could avoid whatever negative contacts you've had, if you tried according to your own ideas of avoiding.
I'm pretty sure if a race war had broken out in the UK, the media would've picked up about it by now, so I'm not going to believe you.
Neither am I going to get into your lame attempts at calling me a racist because you disagree with me, but can't refute what I say because you know I'm right.
A race war has not broken out in the UK, at least not to my knowledge, and I have never claimed that I have suffered any form of racial discrimination: It would be odd if I have as I am white, and was born in this country. I recognize that in that regard I am very lucky, and that I have privilege because of that. I can never understand fully what it is like to be discriminated for racial reasons, however I do know what it is like to be oppressed.
I simply said that I am a member of a minority group. A group that sadly still faces high levels of discrimination, and revives very little press coverage about it. I am scared to leave my house alone, or even to step outside for a smoke alone, because of things that have happened to me in the past. I am scared to contact the police when things go badly, because not once have they ever helped, and on several occasions have only discriminated against me further.
You think I can avoid the discrimination I face? You're having a laugh, I can't even leave the house alone, let alone get a job. I go everywhere with my partner, and If I can't go with her, then my friends will go out for me to buy me food. I do what work I can from home, but it's not much of an income: I live in the poorest area of the UK. Avoiding riding a bike is simple, being hungry for days because there is no one who can hook me up with food, and I'm too scared to go out for it alone it a little different, so don't even dare to try and compare our experiences.
And I have never said that you are a racist, not once. Please try to quote where I said that? Really, try it! All I have said is that you are part of a majority that oppresses a minority, sometimes purposefully, sometimes unknowingly, and in your case through ignorance. I truly believe that you do not realize what you do, or that realize how bad things still are for some people. That's why I asked you to check your privilege. Did you do it?
You have to realize that simply by being alive, the majority help contribute to discrimination unless they actively fight it. Denying that it exists as you have done is even worse. You are an oppressor, denying it only makes you worse.
One more time: CHECK YOUR PRIVILEGE!!!
Oh, and you're last comment, I refute completely what you say, and not only do I think your views are pretty fucking stupid, I have also provided several strong arguments that show that. You are an oppressor, and I'm starting to wonder if you're doing that through ignorance, or if you know exactly what you're doing, and you keep on doing it because you want to remain in your position at the top.