Lara Crigger said:
Let me put this to rest right here and now: Nothing nefarious is going on behind the scenes here. Love FAQ wasn't "cancelled", and no one on the editorial team is hiding any "failures" from you the readers. It really is as I said in the column: I decided that now was the right time to move on. Plain and simple. I will miss writing it, to be sure, but no goodbye is completely painless.
As an aside: 10-20 letters a week for a specialty advice column isn't exactly small potatoes, at least from the management side of things.
I'm sorry that you even had to weigh back in with this kind of thing. As a community, sometimes we're prone to emotionally acting our our own little confirmation biases -- "This was not my favorite, so obviously (in a roundabout way) that's the reason it's going," kind of stuff.
And on the numbers thing... it's as though people don't realize that a lot of that depends on
people writing in with their deep, dark secrets and pains. A lot of people won't risk it, especially if they feel others might recognize the question (and hey, let's face it, paranoia lives in all of us, right?).
One might also consider that one article may have provided help to
several people with the same problem, meaning they no longer needed to write in. While we find it tempting (as simple creatures) to let one number tell the whole story, it just plain doesn't.
This column provided something of a very different flavor from the other content, and that's never a bad thing. Of course we all know that people (especially Internet People) are far more likely to voice an objection than an agreement, so that skews the perception. And I know I was usually among those voices that could be considered "dissenting"...
...but, for me, that's only because the column raised many things
worth discussing. And hell, it's the internet, not a shrink's office -- it's all just thought experiment and conjecture. More importantly, it can start
conversations. About things other than which new game sucks the most, or what you'd do if the last item you used in a game was now your breakfast every morning, or something.
If you're leaving to pursue something new, I hope that it goes well. If you're leaving to focus on something that's already going, I hope it all works out. If you're leaving because your interests have changed, I hope you find enjoyment. Thank you for sharing with us.