So there's this girl...
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Just remember to be yourself. No decent relationship can ever be formed unless you can and are able to be yourself. Thats the most important thing. If shes into you, great. If not, it wasnt meant to be..
Also, if you DO get to the part where you start having conversation, its very critical to get HER talking, and do alot of LISTENING. People like to talk about themselves, and they tend to endear themselves more toward people who give them that opportunity.
Also, if you DO get to the part where you start having conversation, its very critical to get HER talking, and do alot of LISTENING. People like to talk about themselves, and they tend to endear themselves more toward people who give them that opportunity.
I've never been able to work this situation.
I read somewhere that a girl has already decided in the first 8 seconds of meeting you whether or not she is interested.
You've probably wasted that 8 seconds, and speaking from the experience of screwing things up majorly, I suggest don't bother.
And don't let anyone bullshit you into being yourself. We all act differently depending on who we are around. Just make sure you are comfortable with the changes you make.
I read somewhere that a girl has already decided in the first 8 seconds of meeting you whether or not she is interested.
You've probably wasted that 8 seconds, and speaking from the experience of screwing things up majorly, I suggest don't bother.
And don't let anyone bullshit you into being yourself. We all act differently depending on who we are around. Just make sure you are comfortable with the changes you make.
Judging by your description of the girl and yourself it doesn't sound like you've got much of a chance to be honest.
If your going to go for a chat up line go funny ... Something like "your not the brightest colour in the box but your my fav colour" or if you feeling bold "I have a small dick but a fast arse", there risky though.
If shes a geek, learn to solve a rubix cube and solve it in front of her, don't make it blatantly obvious your trying to impress her 'cos your not really aiming for that, solving a rubix cube is a great ice breaker, I haven't picked up a girl yet but loads of conversations are started 'cos of it and people remember me for it
If shes not a geek don't try it, just go say "hi" then wing it, most people are far to nice to say something like "get away from me", so if she doesn't want to speak you will probably get a "I'm really busy" or "I have to go".
There not so bad, either you get brushed off or score, will you risk it for a biscuit?
If shes a geek, learn to solve a rubix cube and solve it in front of her, don't make it blatantly obvious your trying to impress her 'cos your not really aiming for that, solving a rubix cube is a great ice breaker, I haven't picked up a girl yet but loads of conversations are started 'cos of it and people remember me for it
If shes not a geek don't try it, just go say "hi" then wing it, most people are far to nice to say something like "get away from me", so if she doesn't want to speak you will probably get a "I'm really busy" or "I have to go".
There not so bad, either you get brushed off or score, will you risk it for a biscuit?
WHO DARES, WINS
silhouette pic of my last trophy, she is not naked.
she's 4 inches taller than me, we had a crazy three year marriage. crazy in the good way.
how to KEEP a girl, I couldn't help you. but to GET one? just do it, dude. it's not like you're trying to have KIDS with her, are you. give it your best effort the way you know how.
listen to the song: Tell Her About It by Billy Joel.
try, and if it doesn't work, try with the next one.
good luck to you, you are embarking on a lifelong adventure. Do not give up, the only one who would lose is you.
say this, word for word: "you're pretty." "if I give you my number, will you text me?"
remember to be polite and ask for permission as things go forward. she should eventually tell you "you don't have to ask anymore"
lol ever play that dating sim? sim girl? great game.
and no, i'm not old. i'm 27. billy joel is just good music, is all. lol
silhouette pic of my last trophy, she is not naked.
she's 4 inches taller than me, we had a crazy three year marriage. crazy in the good way.
how to KEEP a girl, I couldn't help you. but to GET one? just do it, dude. it's not like you're trying to have KIDS with her, are you. give it your best effort the way you know how.
listen to the song: Tell Her About It by Billy Joel.
try, and if it doesn't work, try with the next one.
good luck to you, you are embarking on a lifelong adventure. Do not give up, the only one who would lose is you.
say this, word for word: "you're pretty." "if I give you my number, will you text me?"
remember to be polite and ask for permission as things go forward. she should eventually tell you "you don't have to ask anymore"
lol ever play that dating sim? sim girl? great game.
and no, i'm not old. i'm 27. billy joel is just good music, is all. lol
in closing: David DeAngelo. look it up.
Really? I've found the latter works better for me.Arawn.Chernobog said:
OT: I'd say just say hi. Get to know her (if you don't already). If things seem reasonable, go for it and see what happens. If there is no reason why you should be together (lack of common interest for example) then just don't mess with it. But there is no reason to rush this unless you plan on dying soon and want to get laid in a hurry. In which case, just tell her you're dying and she might take a pity date.
Archangel357 said:
Archangel357 said:
Not really... as yahtzee pointed out, we arent all sweaty manchildren. I have a girlfriend and she is rather hot
. Mind you im not really a hardcore gamer. I havent even switched on my PS3 in the past week or so.
Best advice on any relationship thread. You know who the OP probably is? A teenager who loves tech and video games. If he was himself, he'd be lucky to get a girl that didn't weigh twice as much as him.Flying Dagger said:
We all make changes and sacrifices to try to find love and companionship. Would you rather "be yourself" sitting alone in your room browsing the internet or change some of your thinking so you can find an intelligent, attractive (I hate when people bullshit and say looks have nothing to do with it) girl to be with for a while?
Looks aren't everything. If she's unapproachable because you have nothing to talk about with her, then you're looking at the prospects of a pretty empty relationship.
If you have spent time with her and not asked her out, and she has not asked you out during your time together, then you are probably in her friend zone. Trust me, breaking out of the friend zone can be torture, even when it is (rarely) successful. Might be best just to ask her out flat, and if she gives you the 'I think of us as friends/you are not my type/I have a boyfriend' template rejections, tell her "Your loss " and find someone who has more interest in the things that you do.
Women do seem to decide between dating material and friend material in the first few minutes after they first meet you. Learn early how to handle about 99 rejections from 99 different women before getting a single yes with a single woman. Remember it is their loss when they reject you. Plenty of fish in the sea, you need to be a fisherman man.
Women do seem to decide between dating material and friend material in the first few minutes after they first meet you. Learn early how to handle about 99 rejections from 99 different women before getting a single yes with a single woman. Remember it is their loss when they reject you. Plenty of fish in the sea, you need to be a fisherman man.
I think you are taking it too far. I was thinking more of a lot of small compromises. Let's say you are living with a girl (obviously this isn't too related to OPs problem, but I think it should be said nonetheless) for a while and she wants you to get rid of all of them because they are an eye sore. Wish I could explain my point better...Archangel357 said:
I was about to right most of this. Should probably follow my own advice some time...dark_taint92 said:Couple of rule's when talking to hernarwhalman218 said:
1) don't be an ass hat
2) be yourself even if it conflicts with rule 1
3) try and sound confident girls like confident but don't be too confident they don't like that
4)be nice compliment her once in a while don't over do it that's creepy
5)avoid geeky and nerdy subjects unless she's into that sort of stuff like anime, manga, video games, comics. you know the regular geek stuff
6) don't be touchy feely that creeps girls out alot it's how I got my restraining order