weeeeeeeeell, i'd like to say i walk right up to her and tell her. i'd like to, but i cannot say i do that without lying. social interactions are terrifying enough without me making a huge leap like that. the only times i've ever told a girl, it was after weeks of planning and growing a pair. and then i felt stupid a few times, as a few weeks into the relationship she tells me she was waiting for me to do so, to which i respond "it's the twenty first fucking century. you could have said something."