I'm not at all surprised at the tons of hating on the "girly-boys" here, but it still bothers me. I've met women who look like men, men who look like women, and people whose gender I still am not sure about because it's really awkward to ask. Are you guys saying that there is no room in gaming for these kinds of people to be badass, or that the people that prefer an androgynous look to LOOK AT MY HUGE MUSCLES are somehow Doing It Wrong?
I think Japan has hit on an interesting point in their treatment of game characters. Not all of us can be Mr. Big Angry Muscleman with Balls of Steel (especially those of us who are female), and people who are looking for an immersive story/narrative experience rather than just a "blow stuff up" gameplay experience may very well identify better with a schoolkid (Persona), a frightened ten-year-old (FF XIII), or a Joe Schmo who likes to practice kendo in his spare time (Chrono Trigger, and I'm aware that Crono isn't androgynous).
It may be more realistic in the "who would we send if..." sense, that a huge bulky space marine in powerarmor is beating up aliens. But many times Japanese games give reasons why these skinny, androgynous, emotional people are the ones doing battle with the Forces of Evil -- a primary one is, "Because you're the only ones who know about it/can do anything/have the magical powers/etc." Don't send a space marine to do a Magically Bestowed Individual's job.
Also, don't lie -- most of everyone here probably resembles some JRPG character out there more than they resemble a 6'8", 300 lb space marine. I'm not saying you're all "girly-men," I'm saying that on average, not enough people are hardcore weightlifters and fanatical athletes to achieve that kind of physical power. You, whoever you may be, can probably identify better with the physical capability of someone who is more realistically sized for the average human. Maybe this doesn't appeal to a lot of people -- many people may want to be able to do things that huge muscle types can, and that's cool -- but I think it's neat that Jane Doe off the street can pick up a sword and learn to beat stuff up with it. That's the game saying, "Hey, you could do this, too!", and whether it is or isn't true, it's awesome to think about.
Females, androgynous characters, slender types, etc. should not go sit and cry in an emo corner. They should go kick ass and take names, too.