Keela said:
I did, but I'm still saying. I'm not religious, and I was still offended by the beginning of your argument. I don't totally side with all the others, I agree with Lormazd about the "two to tango" thing, but still. You just seemed all wound up and ready to argue when people started calling you out on it.
I'm usually ready to talk about something aggressively. I don't resort to ad hominem attacks or bullying to make my points, but I am blunt. Always have been.
I also think (this is going waaay back to the first page) that it was cruel of you to say that those against stem cell research are either biased or uninformed. It's not whether they percieve the whole situation, but the way in which they percieve it. They simply don't think the same way you do, that doesn't make them ignorant.
That's what bias is. This is not a situation of right and wrong, it's a situation of opinions. People who feel that babies have a soul at the point of conception are biased to believe that that life needs to be protected, and that is why they pull against stem cell research. My bias is that I believe the benefits outweigh the consequences, and that in most cases there
aren't tangible consequences. People take bias as a negative. It's not, it's a limitation that we all have in one way or another in regards to perception.
Hell, I agree with a couple of your points myself (i.e. the whole religion isn't inherently bad, but it can sometimes justify intolerance, etc.) . You just seem (don't hate me for this) to be in the mindset that there can only be one correct opinion per argument.
Again, it's not about right and wrong. My opinion is that my opinion is right. But it isn't
actually right. It just resonates more with me.
Just try to be a bit more approachable from the outset is all I'm asking; make sure to present your entire opinion before entering any arguments to avoid misunderstandings. I wanted to punch you in the dick from the outset of this thread; I only calmed my nerd rage when I read and considered the entire rest of the thread, which took a damn long time, and which most people wouldn't do. I'm just saying you can avoid those sorts of situations if you make sure your ideas and intentions are crystal-clear from the outset.
I certainly shot myself in the foot with my shorthand, but also keep in mind that this is something that annoys me too. I'm tired of medical advances being slowed or denied because of a special interest group's (in my opinion) arbitrary moral restrictions. Sometimes our biases take a peg out of the point or view we're trying to express, but on the flip side, half this thread wouldn't be here if I didn't make an (unintentionally) polarizing statement. I don't view disagreement as failure in general, and in this case I can't conclusively say that drawing ire was a mistake. It definitely annoyed some people and put me in a hole that I had to articulate myself out of, but it also drew the participants more into the discussion. So who can say? I'm more interested in a spirited discussion than I am maintaining a charmed reputation, so this kinda thing happens now and again.