PhiMed said:
Assuming your version of events that occurred before you were born is accurate (not a safe assumption, due to you being unable to "process data" at the time), your parents' experience is atypical. The vast majority of people who have miscarriages give at least two shits. All emotions are "in the mind". That doesn't make them inherently invalid.
Honestly, I've met a good number of people over the course of my life in multiple countries and from what I can tell, the trauma involved in any sort of miscarriage or still-birth is based on both the amount of time the baby has had to develop, and the environment in which the parents live. If the parents are from a suburban town and don't really have anything else to worry about, it
might hit them hard. People like my parents went through a lot in their life, and the premature death of an unborn child just didn't phase them.
And I appreciate you trying to demean me through sarcasm, but I've had a lot of time to talk to both parents about this, so I think I have a pretty firm grasp of what their opinion of the situation is.
You are arguing a school of thought (the name of which escapes me) that suggests that someone who has completed their maturation is more valuable than someone who has not. Under this school of thought, if a car is about to strike two people, one of whom is a 25 year-old man with a graduate degree and one of whom is a 2 year-old, assuming you only have time to save one, it is more ethical to save the 25 year-old. The reasoning is that the 25 year-old is "complete", and therefore more valuable to society.
Also, by this reasoning, infanticide is a much less serious crime than homicide, because infants are incapable of reason. Taken to extremes, advocates of this school of thought would say that euthanasia by request of a conscious Nobel laureate is a worse crime than drowning a newborn.
Most people don't feel this way. I don't care to argue ethics right now, but I will say that I am thankful that most people do not ascribe to this school of thought. Most parents (at least the good ones) would find any economic hardship difficult to resolve with this mindset.
Oh goody, ethics. You're talking to the wrong person here if you want an ethical debate.
As far as I know, there are no ethical "schools of thought" that outright declare "that someone who has completed their maturation is more valuable than someone who has not", but it falls under utilitarianism. Basically utilitarianism focuses on the consequences of actions, and not the motives, and I personally think this is a great way to look at this scenario.
Sure a baby is cute, but consider saving the baby vs saving the 25 year old.
Kill the baby:
Rid the world of yet another sap on humanity contributing to over-population.
Kill the 25 year old:
Rid the world of someone who has (in most cases) just started contributing to society.
No matter what other factors might be involved, felicific calculus produces a much lower utility for killing a baby than killing an already established, potentially well-learned human being.
It's unfortunate that you aren't comfortable with my big words. I'm not sorry, but it's unfortunate. Semen still isn't a fetus, and your analogy is still weird.
No, you just use big words for the sake of using big words while actually clarifying nothing what-so-ever in an attempt to confuse the reader and seem smarter than you actually are... and that... slightly perturbs me. I wouldn't say it makes me uncomfortable.
And I dare you to quote me saying semen is a fetus. All I insinuated through that analogy is that their survival co-exists on the same ethical plane for me.