Kameburger said:
I beg your pardon but would ask that you read what someone says thoroughly before you respond.
I would ask you to not assume I didn't because of convenience.
The rubuttles to your comments are in my previous post.
Then they are shit rebuttals.
Feminism is a nebulous concept, and like it or not there are "feminists" who have ideas that do more harm then good.
That's nice, but doesn't really address anything I said. Maybe instead of getting pissy at me for not reading your posts, try actually reading mine.
So, I'll try and do the opposite of just saying "my rebuttal is in the previous post." I'll spell it out, as that might actually be useful.
Yes, there are feminists who are harmful, stupid, wrong, or bad. That wasn't my issue. My issue, which was actually spelled out previously, was that you have no reason to tie this to feminists or feminism in any way, as there are plenty of non-feminists and even "anti-feminists" who take issue with things along the line of this petition, including violence against women and violence against sex workers.
This is why I brought up the Gamergate comparison. I could say your issues are because you're a Gamergate supporter, lumping you into a category I actually doubt you'd agree with. This is what you're doing. You're lumping this petition in with feminists, with no proof that there is any relationship beyond taking issue with the same idea. By that logic, you're a Men's Rights Advocate. Hell, you complained about the concept of being called a misogynist for disagreeing with the petition, but by your own logic of categorisation, it'd only be fair to lump you with with people who hate women.
And before you get upset at that, I'm not saying you are a misogynist. I'm saying that fair's fair.
Your point was if I'm not mistaken that there were people who attacked this decision to the point where they were defending sexual violence or rationalizing it.
My point was actually that precluding these people as the actual issue is foolish at best and dishonest at worst, and that the issue of "yay rape" was never on the table in the first place. That I pointed out these people was secondary to my point, more a point of clarification that you "cherry picked." Hello, irony.
However I find your post insulting.
You don't take the time to read or understand what I wrote, but you find it insulting. You know, you chastised people for doing this exact same thing in one of your posts on Gamergate, and it's kind of hypocritical to do so and then turn around and be insulted without reason.
You've attempted to mischaracterize my arguments by cherry picking them and using them out of context.
Context is still there for anyone to read. They can click on the handy-dandy link that is created whenever I quote you. What I did, instead, was shorten it to the relevant points I was addressing. Hell, I didn't even do that, since I referenced things you didn't say in the portions I quoted (and I'm still doing that). It's dishonest to accuse me of cherry picking because I didn't do a line-by-line rebuttal or include your entire text when tackling only portions.
And worst of all you've done this completely unprovoked.
Kind of like how you got offended unprovoked. How is this not "do as I say, not as I do?
I didn't ask you. No never asked you to critique my reasoning and incidently I never attacked you.
You posted on a forum accessible to any registered viewer and viewable by anyone with internet access. Most of all, you did it on a site that encouraged discussion value. Not only do you not seem to understand me, you don't seem to understand the very media which you used to express your opinion. I am entitled to respond to your argument, with or without your permission, so long as I'm not violating the rules of the board. If you think I am, mark me rather than complaining about irrelevant crap like this.
Also, no. You never attacked me. Nor have I attacked you, unless it is your stance that all criticism is inherently an attack.
But you've called my reasoning lazy without refuting it, and you've accused me of making false equivalences and you didn't even point out what those were.
Actually, I called your reasoning lazy and have refuted it twice now, both in the post where I called it lazy and this one, one that should be redundant. Either you're not reading my posts or you're being dishonest, and neither is particularly a point in your favour right now. I didn't explain the false equivalence claim, which perhaps I should have. However, since you're pulling the "I'm done here" card, I don't see as there's any practical purpose anymore.
What are you trying to achieve here by saying these things to me?
Which part? The part where I "refuted" the laziness claim and you ignored it, or the part where I noted false equivalence? The former was actually to get you to understand what was wrong with asserting this was feminism, and the latter was to point out your use of false equivalence. The former is more important, however (hence why my post was weighted heavily to it), and I dedicated a fair amount of time and number of words to explaining it. In fact, I dedicated over 400 words to it now, which is basically a small article. Kind of a shame, since A. you probably won't read it and B. I had to repeat myself so much to that end.
Also you do this a lot. This isn't the first time you've used rather insulting comments with little substance at me for no reason. If you have a problem with me, then pm me. Otherwise please don't responsd. I'm done.
Any "problem" with you appears to be a wholesale construction of your own design. I have no problem with you, but that does not immunise you from criticism. And if you cannot handle criticism on points where you have made incorrect assertions, perhaps public forums aren't appropriate for you. You are simply wrong to tie this to feminism, your counterpoint about people being pro sexual violence was wrong and disingenuous, and your claims that I have attacked or insulted you are ridiculous. It's unfortunate that i seems you're copping out, rather than dealing with these things, but do not try and play this up as an attack or an insult or me not reading you when you clearly couldn't be bothered to do the same to me. Twice.
If you're done, that's a shame. But mostly because you took umbrage rather than confront clear issues in your own thinking.