Agreed.ex275w said:I fail to see why saying video games are sexist against woman merits 6,000 dollars and 3 hours, when this problem is just the branch of the tree called "Writing in Video games." See my arguments are:
a) Most of the issues sexism, racism and stereotypes that video games have are in fighting games, you know, the games with the least writing besides sports and racing games.
b) Games with plenty of writing in them have better characters and better female ones. Dragon Age, Portal, Mass Effect are examples.
c) The problem is video game designers are lazy and don't take the risk to make a female or black characters since it is just as easy to make it Nathan Drake and possibly get more money from it.
d) There are no wrong tropes, just tropes that are used badly.
e) Women can like playing with pretty ladies, it's just that they may have different standards for what a pretty lady is from what games offer them.
I feel many gamers feel threatened by feminists ruining their enjoyment by changing things, or telling them they hate women when they don't necessarily do.
Hey a case of discrimination against women MEN have NOTHING to do with.Use_Imagination_here said:Yeah about that...
http://www.livescience.com/9038-attractive-women-hired.html
Then we can reach an understanding.Lieju said:So now you're saying that men do not care about what women look like?
Okay, let's say men will be sexually aroused by anything with breasts.
Fine. Doesn't have anything to do with the fact that it would be nice having wellrounded, diverse female characters.
BTW, I need to ask; do you know what 'objectification' means?
That's the problem, not that some people find them attractive.
Actually, I don't care. This discussion is going around in circles, so I'm rapidly losing interest. I'll admit you're right: men don't care what women look like, and if we start to worry about how women are protrayed in media it will just lead to a world where women are just forced to be hidden away and treated like objects. Of course, then you'd have the people who have a fetish for totally covered women, so I guess we'll be better off shipping all women to Mars.
Urm, blameless might be strong. Has it not been established that certain sites were spammed with this in an attempt to gain attention and stir up some contraversy?itsthesheppy said:Also, let's never forget she only asked for $6k, and the other 97-98% of what she's made was freely donated by people who want to support her. Not like you can blame her for that. Even if there was something to blame her for, which there is not.Sexual Harassment Panda said:You're giving her too much credit. She's not an important political figure, she makes youtube videos. She is just another opinionated person on the internet, really, she doesn't need to be silenced. Freedom of speech is really non-negotiable here.BNguyen said:there are times in our society where the continued allowance of free speech to just anyone and harm society and culture if not moderated, such as this woman's videos. She continues to talk of "bad character design or sexist character design" while mentioning nothing of why it is that way or that its by someone's RIGHT to FREE SPEECH to allow it to exist at all. She is condemning one form of free speech, in this case a man of group of males' right to create sexy female characters while promoting every female needs to be perfect and anything else is wrong because I don't see value in any character that doesn't meet my criteria.ACman said:Oh no she doesn't like the portrayal of women in videogames!!!!Maldeus said:Oh, yeah, while we're at it, her standards for what counts as a "good portrayal of women in gaming" appears to be totally non-existent. If there's a good example of a female character, she picks some random trait like "is violent" and uses that to condemn the character as being not good enough, even though being violent in bloody True Grit is not exactly a drawback.
WAAAAAHHH!
Look I don't particularly agree with her either but she has a right to say these things, - a right to make videos about it, and a right to start a kickstarter to fund those videos.
And people have a right to give to that kick starter and did in large numbers even before the sexism shit-storm.
All I've seen from you guys is a bunch attempts to invalidate those rights purely because you disagree with her. Either ignore her or actually engage with her on a mature level. If you can't do either of those things then you validate her point of view and make us gamer guys look worse.
150k does feel like an inordinate amount of pay-off for what is being produced, especially if you're like me and don't think there is much substance in anything she has done as of yet(not a big fan of the tone either, tbh...horses for courses)...I could see how that could rub someone the wrong way.
At the same time though...it's half of what Wayne Rooney makes in a frickin' week...it's a crazy world.
Off to see Prometheus, peace.
Uh...ok.DrVornoff said:Yes I have. Which is why I think you're overreacting.BNguyen said:so apparently you haven't seen even one of her videos
Like you.And yes, anyone who tries to promote their own brand of self-righteousness in order to limit the scope of others
In which video does she explicitly say that? Because all I got out of her arguments was, "This is getting really tiresome. Could we have some variety please?"She's basically telling people that any character format that includes even the smallest hint of sex appeal is wrong.
Ah, another sane person, thank you. Isn't it great being secure enough as a man that you don't feel threatened by things that have no impact on you?Sexual Harassment Panda said:You're giving her too much credit. She's not an important political figure, she makes youtube videos. She is just another opinionated person on the internet, really, she doesn't need to be silenced. Freedom of speech is really non-negotiable here.
Oh hey, you're back. Have you given any thought to my question? You know, who told you what feminism is about, because you obviously didn't do any homework yourself?Paradoxrifts said:I'm ashamed that I left Isaiah Mustafa off the list of sexually objectified male figures in popular media outside video games. A great example of a female sexual fantasy being re-appropriated and used to sell something to men and their female partners. Thanks for reminding me.
Also, the Old Spice commercial guy... You're among friends here, you can admit it: You want to fuck the guy just as much as we do.
itsthesheppy said:I went ahead and bolded for you the parts where you're doing that thing I said you were doing that you claim you're not doing.Machine Man 1992 said:Oh, so just because I have dick that automatically makes my suggestions invalid? The woman makes roughly 400% more money than she needs to make her little video series, I'm offering a means for which the extra 144K can be used to fix the problems she sees. I mean god forbid she displays some agency besides bitching about on the internet and waiting for someone else to fix these problems.itsthesheppy said:You, like many others, are falling into the trap of suggesting that you have better ideas for this woman about how she could be spending her time. That perhaps she should be working directly with game developers rather than being all uppity and making noise you would rather not have to hear. You may or may not be aware that you're doing it, but it's known in the feminist parlance as 'mansplaining'.Machine Man 1992 said:Well, if negative reinforcement doesn't work, how about positive reinforcement? Surely there are plenty of female game designers and producers out there, maybe instead of complaining, Anita could say, use the loads of money she has to finance a game? Just a thought.itsthesheppy said:Video series like the one there is so much resistance to are very much in line with what you are suggesting 'they' do. Raise their voices about the inequality.Machine Man 1992 said:Then make them listen! Tell developers you want more games with strong female protagonists! Tell them you want shirtless hunks to oogle! You have more power than you realize; if publishers realize they have an untapped market, they'll clamber over each other to tap that (see what I did there?).jmarquiso said:Except there are other channels to turn to. Games have less options.samus17 said:Complaining that videogames cater to men is like complaining that the Oxygen channel caters to women; there's going to be pandering and NO ONE SHOULD CARE
Oxygen came from women demanding it, and viacom realizing it had an untapped audience to sell advertising to. Games could have the larger market, too, if they just listen.
Mansplaining is when a guy tells a woman (or anyone else, I suppose) that he has a better idea about what she is trying to do, or say. Putting himself in the automatic position of authority and talking down to that individual, educating them about the err of their ways or the superior way of going about something. Even if the intent is altruistic (I have no reason to believe you have anything but the best intentions in mind), it is condescending.
There is a place in the world for commentary, negative and positive. Pointing out the negative aspects of a thing promotes a cultural conversation about it, and this is a conversation that we all should be having. It's a conversation people want to hear. She only asked for $6k to produce the series, and given what little I know about the costs involved in producing videos, it didn't seem entirely unreasonable. That she's had more than $150k donated is indicative of the fact that people want to hear what she has to say and it is not my place, or yours, to tell her what she should and should not do. That's up to her.
If you feel your idea is vastly superior to hers, and if you care enough about it, back up your own rhetoric and start a fund of your own, and then you can do whatever you like with it.
See, what you're doing is exactly what detractors of the feminists use to strawperson the movement: someone who happens to be a man makes a suggestion on how they could accomplish their goal, and people like you jump down their throats for "mansplaining".
Don't post shit on the internet and expect people to refrain from criticizing it.
There's a few critical points where you're not really getting it. First of all is the supposition that your suggestions are necessary or even wanted. Why exactly do you think you have a better idea than she does? Not that you respect her at all, of course, or her "little" video series, which you are so far above and wiser than, of course. She has nothing to teach you, no. Nothing she could want to say would be of any interested to you because, haha, silly girl, you get it already. You're thinking two, three steps ahead!
See, you're not a bad guy. You're just helping her. She needs your help; and not just yours, everyone's! $150k+ is a lot of money and we certainly expect that she will know what to do with it! So of course you and so many others jump in with your helpful solutions; utterly unsolicited, completely spontaneous, dripping with condescension.
Nobody said your dick makes you opinions invalid. What I'm saying is that because you are male, society has been telling us, largely through the bullhorn of pop culture but through other sources as well, that we are more capable. We are smarter, bigger, stronger, faster, more capable, more reliable, more emotionally secure. Better leaders, better critical thinkers, more solid decision-makers... than women. This has been hammered home throughout childhood, adolescence, and adulthood, bombarded from every angle. And the end result is, a woman asks for $6k to make a video series about a subject she is passionate for, recieves a lot more than that amount from her supporters and fans, and the legions of men all across the internet, among whom you are a card-carrying member, rise up in resistance because of course she can't be trusted with all that money, she's going to screw it all up and waste everyone's time!
And the best part is you are so fully indoctrinated to the idea of male primacy, as it is the very soup you and I both swim in, that at the very moment you are reading these words, they sound like absolute madness to you. And that's why we need videos like the one she's going to be producing. Lot's more. Because the "men are superior" message is still out there, in force, and it's deafening. Whatever noise can challenge it is sorely needed.
Just want to let you know I stopped reading right there. Sorry you went through all the effort to type that out but I'm not in the business of giving my time over to people who preface what they're saying with an insult. If you can't respect me enough to have a civil conversation, I shudder to think about how you treat the women you clearly have considerably less respect for.Calibanbutcher said:itsthesheppy said:I went ahead and bolded for you the parts where you're doing that thing I said you were doing that you claim you're not doing.Machine Man 1992 said:Oh, so just because I have dick that automatically makes my suggestions invalid? The woman makes roughly 400% more money than she needs to make her little video series, I'm offering a means for which the extra 144K can be used to fix the problems she sees. I mean god forbid she displays some agency besides bitching about on the internet and waiting for someone else to fix these problems.itsthesheppy said:You, like many others, are falling into the trap of suggesting that you have better ideas for this woman about how she could be spending her time. That perhaps she should be working directly with game developers rather than being all uppity and making noise you would rather not have to hear. You may or may not be aware that you're doing it, but it's known in the feminist parlance as 'mansplaining'.Machine Man 1992 said:Well, if negative reinforcement doesn't work, how about positive reinforcement? Surely there are plenty of female game designers and producers out there, maybe instead of complaining, Anita could say, use the loads of money she has to finance a game? Just a thought.itsthesheppy said:Video series like the one there is so much resistance to are very much in line with what you are suggesting 'they' do. Raise their voices about the inequality.Machine Man 1992 said:Then make them listen! Tell developers you want more games with strong female protagonists! Tell them you want shirtless hunks to oogle! You have more power than you realize; if publishers realize they have an untapped market, they'll clamber over each other to tap that (see what I did there?).jmarquiso said:Except there are other channels to turn to. Games have less options.samus17 said:Complaining that videogames cater to men is like complaining that the Oxygen channel caters to women; there's going to be pandering and NO ONE SHOULD CARE
Oxygen came from women demanding it, and viacom realizing it had an untapped audience to sell advertising to. Games could have the larger market, too, if they just listen.
Mansplaining is when a guy tells a woman (or anyone else, I suppose) that he has a better idea about what she is trying to do, or say. Putting himself in the automatic position of authority and talking down to that individual, educating them about the err of their ways or the superior way of going about something. Even if the intent is altruistic (I have no reason to believe you have anything but the best intentions in mind), it is condescending.
There is a place in the world for commentary, negative and positive. Pointing out the negative aspects of a thing promotes a cultural conversation about it, and this is a conversation that we all should be having. It's a conversation people want to hear. She only asked for $6k to produce the series, and given what little I know about the costs involved in producing videos, it didn't seem entirely unreasonable. That she's had more than $150k donated is indicative of the fact that people want to hear what she has to say and it is not my place, or yours, to tell her what she should and should not do. That's up to her.
If you feel your idea is vastly superior to hers, and if you care enough about it, back up your own rhetoric and start a fund of your own, and then you can do whatever you like with it.
See, what you're doing is exactly what detractors of the feminists use to strawperson the movement: someone who happens to be a man makes a suggestion on how they could accomplish their goal, and people like you jump down their throats for "mansplaining".
Don't post shit on the internet and expect people to refrain from criticizing it.
There's a few critical points where you're not really getting it. First of all is the supposition that your suggestions are necessary or even wanted. Why exactly do you think you have a better idea than she does? Not that you respect her at all, of course, or her "little" video series, which you are so far above and wiser than, of course. She has nothing to teach you, no. Nothing she could want to say would be of any interested to you because, haha, silly girl, you get it already. You're thinking two, three steps ahead!
See, you're not a bad guy. You're just helping her. She needs your help; and not just yours, everyone's! $150k+ is a lot of money and we certainly expect that she will know what to do with it! So of course you and so many others jump in with your helpful solutions; utterly unsolicited, completely spontaneous, dripping with condescension.
Nobody said your dick makes you opinions invalid. What I'm saying is that because you are male, society has been telling us, largely through the bullhorn of pop culture but through other sources as well, that we are more capable. We are smarter, bigger, stronger, faster, more capable, more reliable, more emotionally secure. Better leaders, better critical thinkers, more solid decision-makers... than women. This has been hammered home throughout childhood, adolescence, and adulthood, bombarded from every angle. And the end result is, a woman asks for $6k to make a video series about a subject she is passionate for, recieves a lot more than that amount from her supporters and fans, and the legions of men all across the internet, among whom you are a card-carrying member, rise up in resistance because of course she can't be trusted with all that money, she's going to screw it all up and waste everyone's time!
And the best part is you are so fully indoctrinated to the idea of male primacy, as it is the very soup you and I both swim in, that at the very moment you are reading these words, they sound like absolute madness to you. And that's why we need videos like the one she's going to be producing. Lot's more. Because the "men are superior" message is still out there, in force, and it's deafening. Whatever noise can challenge it is sorely needed.
Ahem:
You imbecile:
While I won't accuse you of such things, I want to make it clear that one could take away from what you say above to mean "It's not that she's a feminist, it's that she's uppity and saying things I don't like." Notably in the section I bolded above. To you, perhaps that sounds like a perfectly objective stance to take. And perhaps it is that you just don't like her style very much. That's all fine.Sexual Harassment Panda said:Urm, blameless might be strong. Has it not been established that certain sites were spammed with this in an attempt to gain attention and stir up some contraversy?itsthesheppy said:Also, let's never forget she only asked for $6k, and the other 97-98% of what she's made was freely donated by people who want to support her. Not like you can blame her for that. Even if there was something to blame her for, which there is not.Sexual Harassment Panda said:You're giving her too much credit. She's not an important political figure, she makes youtube videos. She is just another opinionated person on the internet, really, she doesn't need to be silenced. Freedom of speech is really non-negotiable here.BNguyen said:there are times in our society where the continued allowance of free speech to just anyone and harm society and culture if not moderated, such as this woman's videos. She continues to talk of "bad character design or sexist character design" while mentioning nothing of why it is that way or that its by someone's RIGHT to FREE SPEECH to allow it to exist at all. She is condemning one form of free speech, in this case a man of group of males' right to create sexy female characters while promoting every female needs to be perfect and anything else is wrong because I don't see value in any character that doesn't meet my criteria.ACman said:Oh no she doesn't like the portrayal of women in videogames!!!!Maldeus said:Oh, yeah, while we're at it, her standards for what counts as a "good portrayal of women in gaming" appears to be totally non-existent. If there's a good example of a female character, she picks some random trait like "is violent" and uses that to condemn the character as being not good enough, even though being violent in bloody True Grit is not exactly a drawback.
WAAAAAHHH!
Look I don't particularly agree with her either but she has a right to say these things, - a right to make videos about it, and a right to start a kickstarter to fund those videos.
And people have a right to give to that kick starter and did in large numbers even before the sexism shit-storm.
All I've seen from you guys is a bunch attempts to invalidate those rights purely because you disagree with her. Either ignore her or actually engage with her on a mature level. If you can't do either of those things then you validate her point of view and make us gamer guys look worse.
150k does feel like an inordinate amount of pay-off for what is being produced, especially if you're like me and don't think there is much substance in anything she has done as of yet(not a big fan of the tone either, tbh...horses for courses)...I could see how that could rub someone the wrong way.
At the same time though...it's half of what Wayne Rooney makes in a frickin' week...it's a crazy world.
Off to see Prometheus, peace.
I don't think the reason a lot of people don't like her is because she gots paid, and I don't think that most of the men criticising her are just jumping on a feminist because they must be silenced. I really doubt that it's because she's a feminist, it seems likely to me that it's because she has a generally shitty disposition...which she does.
She really could explore whatever issues she needs to without the bile, and without the judgemental and superior attitude. She could also stand to acknowledge when she's making guesses as to reasons and motivations, because it seems that she feels she knows everything there is to know.
Point being. I reckon a different approach(or woman at the helm) would have garnered a very different reaction. Think more Louis Theroux, rather than Michael Moore.
This is about the objectification of women in pop culture. It has nothing to do with what people do in the privacy in their own homes; nothing to limited in scope. It has to do with the depiction and perceptions of women in our popular media and, by extension, society as a whole.ex275w said:Can I ask everyone in this thread something:
Is there something inherently wrong with objectification? As long as its, umm... done in private or it doesn't cause you to treat the person you are objectifing as a lesser human being.
Sounds like a dumb question, but let's just say I don't do a lot of sexual objectification, so I don't know what exactly the concept entails.
This is a issue of culture of course, I was just asking what exactly objectification entailed, since I wasn't too sure what it meant.itsthesheppy said:This is about the objectification of women in pop culture. It has nothing to do with what people do in the privacy in their own homes; nothing to limited in scope. It has to do with the depiction and perceptions of women in our popular media and, by extension, society as a whole.ex275w said:Can I ask everyone in this thread something:
Is there something inherently wrong with objectification? As long as its, umm... done in private or it doesn't cause you to treat the person you are objectifing as a lesser human being.
Sounds like a dumb question, but let's just say I don't do a lot of sexual objectification, so I don't know what exactly the concept entails.
If you and a consenting partner want to go that route, power to you. I hope you have a great time. The problem arises when those attitudes are presented in the public sector as normal, as they are reflections of, and indeed reflect on, society in general.
Oh! simply put, it means to dehumanize someone by turning them into a thing rather than a fully actualized individual.ex275w said:This is a issue of culture of course, I was just asking what exactly objectification entailed, since I wasn't too sure what it meant.itsthesheppy said:This is about the objectification of women in pop culture. It has nothing to do with what people do in the privacy in their own homes; nothing to limited in scope. It has to do with the depiction and perceptions of women in our popular media and, by extension, society as a whole.ex275w said:Can I ask everyone in this thread something:
Is there something inherently wrong with objectification? As long as its, umm... done in private or it doesn't cause you to treat the person you are objectifing as a lesser human being.
Sounds like a dumb question, but let's just say I don't do a lot of sexual objectification, so I don't know what exactly the concept entails.
If you and a consenting partner want to go that route, power to you. I hope you have a great time. The problem arises when those attitudes are presented in the public sector as normal, as they are reflections of, and indeed reflect on, society in general.
Thank you. Thank you very much.Monxeroth said:"Society judges women based on their appearence rather than their ability"
A valid argument yes and realistic enough to be taken seriously, but there's always two sides to a coin.
If you really want to get to the root of the problem, ie, why women have their general value based on the exterior, is to ask the right question.
Is it ONLY because society and heterosexual white males judge them by their appearence
OR
could it be the fact that some women really don't help that problem at all by simply, oh i dunno
PRESENTING THEMSELVES AS IF THAT IS ALL THEY HAVE TO OFFER
seriously, i don't see this argument as valid if it comes from someone who only posts cleavage pictures of themselves on facebook and tweets about all the money they spend on cosmetic bullshit, then you are not entitled to have this argument with me.
If women would like to be judged by their abilities, then show it, make me believe you would actually want that rather than spending countless hours and resources on perfecting your appearence, thats not going to help at all, thats just making it worse for the kind of women who already have it bad and are actually suffering from this problem.
Too often do women expect to get handed everything and not be judged by their ability, because they think their appearence is enough.
So both parts imo have to do their parts in the sense that
Some women need to stop focusing on their appearence and using that as an excuse to
get what they want, and also stop presenting themselves as if the appearence was the most important thing to them.
While some men and society and general needs to stop making these retarded demands from women and portray them in one specific way in media and so on.
This is not a problem to solely blame on society and the heterosexual male
If the female character had all those things, yet still dressed like that, would it still be considered objectification?itsthesheppy said:Oh! simply put, it means to dehumanize someone by turning them into a thing rather than a fully actualized individual.ex275w said:This is a issue of culture of course, I was just asking what exactly objectification entailed, since I wasn't too sure what it meant.itsthesheppy said:This is about the objectification of women in pop culture. It has nothing to do with what people do in the privacy in their own homes; nothing to limited in scope. It has to do with the depiction and perceptions of women in our popular media and, by extension, society as a whole.ex275w said:Can I ask everyone in this thread something:
Is there something inherently wrong with objectification? As long as its, umm... done in private or it doesn't cause you to treat the person you are objectifing as a lesser human being.
Sounds like a dumb question, but let's just say I don't do a lot of sexual objectification, so I don't know what exactly the concept entails.
If you and a consenting partner want to go that route, power to you. I hope you have a great time. The problem arises when those attitudes are presented in the public sector as normal, as they are reflections of, and indeed reflect on, society in general.
An example of this would be a video game where the main character will have deep emotions, a complicated backstory, flaws and talents and friends and motivations all their own, but will interact with a (let's say female) character who walks around in a low-cut top, not saying much, with a weak backstory, not much personality, whose entire purpose in the story is to be either a victim or an object of desire.
That would be 'objectifying' that character. This tends to happen to female characters a lot in pop culture, so it's referred to as objectification of women. I might have mangled the definition a bit, but that's my take.
The devil is in the details, but I'll assume for the sake of your post that you mean "The female character is deep, fully actualized, displays agency, and has a fully rounded character, but also looks really sexy" then I will say no, it is not objectifying.MrMan999 said:If the female character had all those things, yet still dressed like that, would it still be considered objectification?itsthesheppy said:Oh! simply put, it means to dehumanize someone by turning them into a thing rather than a fully actualized individual.ex275w said:This is a issue of culture of course, I was just asking what exactly objectification entailed, since I wasn't too sure what it meant.itsthesheppy said:This is about the objectification of women in pop culture. It has nothing to do with what people do in the privacy in their own homes; nothing to limited in scope. It has to do with the depiction and perceptions of women in our popular media and, by extension, society as a whole.ex275w said:Can I ask everyone in this thread something:
Is there something inherently wrong with objectification? As long as its, umm... done in private or it doesn't cause you to treat the person you are objectifing as a lesser human being.
Sounds like a dumb question, but let's just say I don't do a lot of sexual objectification, so I don't know what exactly the concept entails.
If you and a consenting partner want to go that route, power to you. I hope you have a great time. The problem arises when those attitudes are presented in the public sector as normal, as they are reflections of, and indeed reflect on, society in general.
An example of this would be a video game where the main character will have deep emotions, a complicated backstory, flaws and talents and friends and motivations all their own, but will interact with a (let's say female) character who walks around in a low-cut top, not saying much, with a weak backstory, not much personality, whose entire purpose in the story is to be either a victim or an object of desire.
That would be 'objectifying' that character. This tends to happen to female characters a lot in pop culture, so it's referred to as objectification of women. I might have mangled the definition a bit, but that's my take.