The Felicia Day/Destructoid situation

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Heliote

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everythingbeeps said:
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everythingbeeps said:
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Felicia Day has yet to make any kind of decent contribution to gaming. She's done some voice-overs and otherwise have yet to do anything to earn the attention and pay she's gotten. She's been riding the "hurr durr girl that acknowledges the existence of gamer geeks, must adore!" train pretty much from the beginning.

The reason pointing out that she's nothing but a glorified booth babe isn't sexist is simple: She is nothing but a glorified booth babe. Insane feminists have somehow managed to make it a bad thing to point out that some women just coast along on their tits and giggles, like Felicia Day.

Yeah sure, that's a question or accusation that is fairly unique to women but guess what? That's because women are the only ones who do get to do it! Men actually have to work for their positions and there's nothing sexist in demanding that women have to do the same.
^^^ Another person who has no idea who Felicia Day is.

There's a wider world out there son. Go experience it. She's done a ton of shit.
Nothing that matters. Felicia Day is a two-bit crap actress that is hyped across all game media for no good reason. Glorified booth babe and not even good at that.

Ohhhh, I got it. You asked her on a date and she shot you down. That's the only thing that could justify that amount of venom.
Using an ad hominem as a counterargument to someone who's defending a guy who made a personal attack. Isn't that like the definition of hypocrisy? Don't do that. It makes you look bad.

Instead, point out how disgustingly misogynistic it is to call someone a glorified booth babe, meaning that they exist solely for men to look at. Then point out her VO work and social contributions to the gaming community in her web series work. Then finish with: Just because Ryan Perez doesn't personally like her doesn't give him the right to publicly(and it was publicly. He made it public the moment he directly tweeted to Felicia Day) lambast her with no consequences.

But don't just sling mud. It makes you just as bad as the guy your arguing was in the wrong.
I'm not engaging in a serious debate here. I can abuse whatever bullshit debate vocabulary terms you see fit to mention.
You can abuse any fallacy you'd like at any time you'd like, but it won't reflect well on you. It would be one thing if you weren't seriously engaging in the argument, and were just making jokes, but nothing you've said has been particularly funny or incisive. Someone hates Felicia Day, so she must have turned him down for a date? Doesn't work as humor, since it's an easy, cliched place to go; and doesn't make sense, unless we assume all of Day's detractors are spurned lovers. So you're either making jokes no one's laughing at, arguing badly, or just breaking the forum's rules by trolling. No matter what, you don't look very good at the moment.
 

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SmashLovesTitanQuest said:
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Actually, I've had the pleasure of working with a number of people from Destructoid over the years, and they're actually really great. Hard working, conscientious, and professional. At least the ones I know. So I don't think it's fair to paint Dtoid as some morass of amoral behavior, even if you don't personally enjoy their editorial style. (I don't, personally, but it's a matter of taste.)
For all I know they might all be bloody Mother Theresas reincarnated behind the scenes. I just don't enjoy their content and (this is what's actually relevant to this thread) a lot of their writers are known for being rather flame happy, both on the site and on their twitter accounts. Example: Jim Sterling.

I just find the double standard amusing. Insulting random people on Twitter? Fucking a-ok. Insulting readers? Encouraged. Insulting some e-celeb? Fine, actually, it's just an ece- OH WAIT SHE'S FEMALE, FIRED.
I can't agree with you that it's a double standard in this case. Perez' question carries undercurrents of sexism because it implies that he thinks any woman who works on the public/promotional side of the games industry is nothing more than a pretty face and an empty smile handing out cheap swag to drooling men and boys. It doesn't question the quality of any specific part of Day's work in the manner of a professional critic. Instead, it completely discounts Day as a professional actor and writer because she is a woman whose work promotes games.

It was clumsy and ill-advised, but instead of trying to save the situation with a mild apology and a more pertinent question, Perez made it worse with a string of public insults directed at anyone who criticized his remarks. That's thoroughly unprofessional, and that's where the problem for Destructoid ultimately lies.
 

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Because wanting an apology is obviously the same thing as being offended.
Yes.

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You keep bringing up Sterling for no real reason. He's obviously worth something to Dtoid, Perez obviously isn't. Not too hard to comprehend.

Not sure where the 'feminazi' comment came from, but considering the tone of his show ("I'm god's gift to earth!") I'm inclined to believe he wasn't being entirely serious.
Look it up.

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Last time I checked neither Dtoid or the Escapist ever ran an article titled "Is This (female gaming figure) Nothing More Than a Glorified Booth Babe?"
Missing the point entirely.
 

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She's an actress and a game enthusiast. What did he expect her to contribute to the medium besides either her voice or her affection for the medium?
 

Denamic

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Just like games, she provides entertainment.
If not directly through voice-acting, live-action videos, or song, then indirectly, like with this thread.
 

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Personal opinions aside, let me own him with logic;

If she brings nothing to gaming, why are you wasting your time questioning her?



Felicia day is an actress and has acted in Internet serials, the majority being of Video Game topic.

Despite this, I don't consider her connected to video games. In fact I consider no-one to be. They're people. They do what ever they want. In this case this dude I never have heardof decides to voice an unprovoked vocal attack on someone. He's done what he wants and now suffers the wrath of being rude.
 

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You know people, its this simple:

A lynch mob is still a lynch mob even if said mob is made up of angels (and this mob certainly wasn't).

The White Knighting/harassment that went on is fucking despicable. Yes, Perez is an idiot. I think he's learned his lesson though.

Also, insulting someone of the opposite gender is sexist now? Wow.
 

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Rack said:
Baron von Blitztank said:
So who is Felicia Day? What does she do that's related to the gaming industry? and Why should I care?
I can't be arsed reading 11 pages of posts so I'm gonna need someone to bring me up to speed in preferably 65 words or less.
She writes The Guild and The Guild is brilliant.
Ok and what's The Guild?
 

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Heliote said:
everythingbeeps said:
wintercoat said:
everythingbeeps said:
Deviate said:
everythingbeeps said:
Deviate said:
Felicia Day has yet to make any kind of decent contribution to gaming. She's done some voice-overs and otherwise have yet to do anything to earn the attention and pay she's gotten. She's been riding the "hurr durr girl that acknowledges the existence of gamer geeks, must adore!" train pretty much from the beginning.

The reason pointing out that she's nothing but a glorified booth babe isn't sexist is simple: She is nothing but a glorified booth babe. Insane feminists have somehow managed to make it a bad thing to point out that some women just coast along on their tits and giggles, like Felicia Day.

Yeah sure, that's a question or accusation that is fairly unique to women but guess what? That's because women are the only ones who do get to do it! Men actually have to work for their positions and there's nothing sexist in demanding that women have to do the same.
^^^ Another person who has no idea who Felicia Day is.

There's a wider world out there son. Go experience it. She's done a ton of shit.
Nothing that matters. Felicia Day is a two-bit crap actress that is hyped across all game media for no good reason. Glorified booth babe and not even good at that.

Ohhhh, I got it. You asked her on a date and she shot you down. That's the only thing that could justify that amount of venom.
Using an ad hominem as a counterargument to someone who's defending a guy who made a personal attack. Isn't that like the definition of hypocrisy? Don't do that. It makes you look bad.

Instead, point out how disgustingly misogynistic it is to call someone a glorified booth babe, meaning that they exist solely for men to look at. Then point out her VO work and social contributions to the gaming community in her web series work. Then finish with: Just because Ryan Perez doesn't personally like her doesn't give him the right to publicly(and it was publicly. He made it public the moment he directly tweeted to Felicia Day) lambast her with no consequences.

But don't just sling mud. It makes you just as bad as the guy your arguing was in the wrong.
I'm not engaging in a serious debate here. I can abuse whatever bullshit debate vocabulary terms you see fit to mention.
You can abuse any fallacy you'd like at any time you'd like, but it won't reflect well on you. It would be one thing if you weren't seriously engaging in the argument, and were just making jokes, but nothing you've said has been particularly funny or incisive. Someone hates Felicia Day, so she must have turned him down for a date? Doesn't work as humor, since it's an easy, cliched place to go; and doesn't make sense, unless we assume all of Day's detractors are spurned lovers. So you're either making jokes no one's laughing at, arguing badly, or just breaking the forum's rules by trolling. No matter what, you don't look very good at the moment.
And what is this thing you're doing? What critical function of debate are you serving? You say nobody's laughing, but you know what else nobody is doing? Bitching about me not following proper debate etiquette. No, that's just you.
 

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Wait a sec, they fired a guy for asking a question? Has the whole world been P-whipped?

Being a prick or not, he asked a simple question, and because he asked it towards a women everyone got sensitive and Perez became the villain.

I'm sorry, this isn't like when that one sexist and racist DJ called a bunch of women from women's basketball "nappy headed hoes,' this is completely different.

He asked a questions that is honestly on a lot of peoples minds towards a lot of women in gaming. The fact is the industry wants more women involved, but name me a female personality in gaming that isn't "cute" at least and I'll show you the only reason they have their jobs. So the industry is sexist to begin with and firing a man that asked such a simple question is OUTRAGES!

OUT-FUCKING-RAGES!!
"JUSTIFY YOUR EXISTENCE TO ME YOU WORTHLESS BOOTH-BABE!" doesn't carry any sort of sexist undertones to it?
Umm, I've read his question he said:

"could you be considered nothing more than a glorified booth babe? You don't seem to add anything creative to the medium."

What you did there was blantantly place additional words into a person's mouth to villify them.

Do you not see how FUCKING wrong that is?

Don't comment back! I'm not interested in arguing with someone that can't even read a simple twitter message correctly..>>
Nobody asks a question like that expecting an answer. It's rhetorical, a concept you don't seem to understand. The only reason he posted that was to either piss of Felicia Day or to rile up fanboys. He did both, but he also pissed off a lot more people than just fanboys.

Some of the white-knighting has gotten out of hand, but the guy deserves to be fired if he can't understand the consequences of his actions and/or do a little freaking research.
 

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If you're going to insult someone publicly on the internet, you're going to have to face the consequences regardless of the politics/pseudo-politics.

It's like if you pretty much on the street and shout at a woman "What do you bring to society you slag!". You're going to anger a lot of people. And if your boss watches you do that, they aren't going to be impressed.

I'm sick of people claiming that the internet =/= real life. The difference is the majority are anonymous. But there are figures who are not anonymous, the people involved.
 

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Baron von Blitztank said:
Rack said:
Baron von Blitztank said:
So who is Felicia Day? What does she do that's related to the gaming industry? and Why should I care?
I can't be arsed reading 11 pages of posts so I'm gonna need someone to bring me up to speed in preferably 65 words or less.
She writes The Guild and The Guild is brilliant.
Ok and what's The Guild?
A comedy web-series about an MMO guild.
 

everythingbeeps

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Rack said:
Baron von Blitztank said:
Rack said:
Baron von Blitztank said:
So who is Felicia Day? What does she do that's related to the gaming industry? and Why should I care?
I can't be arsed reading 11 pages of posts so I'm gonna need someone to bring me up to speed in preferably 65 words or less.
She writes The Guild and The Guild is brilliant.
Ok and what's The Guild?
A comedy web-series about an MMO guild.
It's also a comic now.
 

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Here's what Felicia Day has added to the creative aspect of gaming: She's a talented voice actress who works primarily in a medium that, a few short years ago, had some of the worst voice acting imaginable. She's also a very good writer (The Guild speaks for that), and she is known for being a gamer and taking the medium seriously. She has also (through The Guild) sung a few game-themed songs (Now I'm the One That's Cool, Game On, etc.).

Whether or not you like her acting or any of her work is besides the point: anecdotal evidence is not sufficient when you all you are asking is what she PRODUCES. She produces quite a lot, and most if not all of it is creatively focused.

As for the sexism aspect...yes, it is sexist. No, he is not overtly insulting ALL WOMENS ERRYWUR (which seems to be some peoples criterion for 'sexist'), but there is more than one way to be sexist. Gendered insults, even if only directed at a single individual, are still sexist. Calling an actress and games-spokesperson a 'booth-babe' (who exist only for sex appeal and marketing) is very much a gendered insult --Wil Wheaton exists in a very similar capacity to Felicia in the gaming world, but I really doubt anyone would accuse him of only existing for sex appeal.
 

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To me, it appears the situation turned sexist when he decided to compare her to a "glorified booth babe".. Had he stopped before before that line, he would have just had a bad foot in the mount taste for the week and mostly nothing else worse for wear.

But by crossing that line, he turned a generally harmless rant into the shit storm we have now.
 

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Why exactly is she obligated to contribute to the video game industry? Sure, she bases a large part of her success on nerd appeal, but I've never thought of her as a "contributor" to videogaming. I watch her web show on Youtube and it's only occasionally video game related, but it's still entertaining.

If she's doing her own thing, but people ask her to show up on occasion to public events like E3 or whatever, I really don't see the problem.

(also, she's a decent voice actor for games, so there's something I guess)
 

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secretsantaone said:
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So a person sees a thumbnail for a video in which a fairly attractive woman is being spanked while wearing a skimpy, fantasy inspired dress. Are they going to watch it because they want to see more of the girl, or because they hope to be amused by commentary on online sexual roleplay?
Yep, that's pretty much it. Online sexplay in itself is a pretty funny (also creepy) concept.I know your trying to only prove a point, but you call this fairly tame, albeit cute get-up as skimpy comes off as puritanical. As too why they choose this subject matter is because: they had a joke and the great means to convey it. Also, because the avatar of the characters really don't get any screen time and this a decent way to show them off.

You are focusing on a questionable amount of sex appeal and ignoring the context of the video which clearly aims for humor rather than arousal.

You are actually the first and likely only person that has brought this video up as proof-positive of Day's sex appeal connection to her popularity. She is attractive but her charm and sense of humor do all of the heavy lifting when it comes to her popularity. Her personality carried her much further then let's say, Jessica Chobot whose pretty hot, but fails to endear herself beyond her sex appeal.