The great sex and sexuality questionnaire! (Will probably get NSFW)

Pieturli

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I think this will be interesting. Possibly. Experiences on sex and sexuality almost always are.

So, answer me these questions five (I tried. I really tried to make it three, but I couldn't)

1) Gender

2) Sexual orientation

3) Fetishes

4) Freakiest thing you've ever done or had done to you

5) Where do you draw the line?


I'll get the ball rolling:

1) Male

2) Straight

3) I sort of do have a thing for threeways and candaulism, i.e. deriving pleasure from watching others get pleasure. Fun stuff. Dominations is fun as well, by which I mean when I do the dominating.

4)I haven't honestly done anything particularly freaky, except maybe in terms of places I've... "arrived" in or on. The domination I've done has been reasonably tame.

5) Im fairly open in all honesty. As long as no butt stuff is done to me, and none of the nastier bodily secretions are involved, Im pretty much fine with it. Obviously, no animals or dead people or anything like that either.

Thoughts and experiences on sex and sexuality are all welcome as well!


Lets hear it!
 

Avery

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1) Female

2) Omnisexual

3) Way too many to list

4) Giant dildo, butt. You figure out the rest.

5) I don't enjoy scat or piss.
 

Queen Michael

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1. Dude.
2. Straight as an arrow.
3. Mind control, and to a lesser extent being dominated in general.
4. Bondage.
5. Anything including using body fluids to do stuff. Also, I've developed a lube phobia recently.
 

Gormech

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1. Male
2. Straight
3. Light bondage, stealth-sex
4. Vore
5. Toilet play, musk
 

Bara_no_Hime

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1) Gender: Female

2) Sexual orientation: Bisexual

3) Fetishes: I enjoy Dom-ing occasionally. Also group sex (my personal record is a 5-way).

Edit: Okay, having read the rest of the thread and what is being considered a fetish, I need to add a couple here.

Anal sex. I really enjoy it.

Roleplaying. And no, I'm not talking about naughty pizza delivery person roleplaying. I'm a big fan of tabletop roleplaying, so I often enjoy in-character sex. For example, when I ran my semi-famous Mass Effect tabletop game, and my spouse (playing Shepard) decided to romance Tali... well, let's just say that there is still a framed photo of Tali hanging in our bedroom.

Fun fact: I got so good at imitating Tali's voice, I can stay in the accent while orgasming, a talent that proved useful.

4) Freakiest thing you've ever done or had done to you:
Depends on your definition of freaky. If you find group sex freaky, then the 5-way probably qualifies. If you find Domination and Submission freaky, then I have some tales involving whips, ropes, dildos, and nipple clamps that could probably raise some eyebrows. I've also been involved in sex so rough it broke the bed (the box-spring specifically - snapped one of the internal 2x4 supports in two places). Oh, and a guy once finger-frigged me in a movie theater (while a movie was playing, and there were plenty of other people there - I had to be very quiet). Take your pick.

Edit: I suppose you can add sex that included the phrase "keelah se'lai! Oh, Shepard, keelah se'lai!"

5) Where do you draw the line?
No breath-play or scat/golden play.
Edit: And apparently I need to add non-consent here? I kinda thought that was a given.

There are plenty of other things I'm not personally in to, but I'm generally willing to at least try them or do them for a partner on a case by case basis.
 

Pieturli

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I wasn't expecting so much adventurousness. God, my sex life has been more boring than I thought.


Keep em comin!
 

Tony2077

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Pieturli said:
I wasn't expecting so much adventurousness. God, my sex life has been more boring than I thought.


Keep em comin!
well i can beat that for boring i have none
 

NoX 9

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1) Gender:
Female

2) Sexual Orientation:
Homosexual

3) Fetishes:
I think I may be a bit too uh 'standard'. I think clothed and partially clothed people are far sexier than nude people though. It's more fun when my partner takes charge, I'm pretty shy and passive so nothing really happens if it's up to me. Also, some light sort of domination thing, but nothing serious. I don't want it getting scary!

4) Freakiest thing you've ever done or had done to you:
My GF at age 15 wiggled me out of my swimwear and started groping me when we were bathing alone at a lake one time. I'm paranoid as fuck so I stopped her pretty quickly. That is as 'freaky' as it gets, I feel rather outclassed X3.

5) Where do you draw the line?:
Anything that makes me feel uncomfortable, which is a bunch of things frankly. I'm not scared of a bit of sweat and some bodily fluids -those sort of belong and can be pretty sexy-, but anything messy, painful or involving food with sex is absolutely not for me! I don't really mind roleplaying, but I can never get into it. I guess I'm just a terrible actor.

Tony2077 said:
well i can beat that for boring i have none
If it's any comfort, for the past 3 years I'm in the same boat as you =3. Personally I don't mind, I am so painfully bad at relationships anyway. They never work out, and I suppose it must be me!
 

V da Mighty Taco

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Bara_no_Hime said:
1) Gender: Female

2) Sexual orientation: Bisexual

3) Fetishes: I enjoy Dom-ing occasionally. Also group sex (my personal record is a 5-way).

4) Freakiest thing you've ever done or had done to you:
Depends on your definition of freaky. If you find group sex freaky, then the 5-way probably qualifies. If you find Domination and Submission freaky, then I have some tales involving whips, ropes, dildos, and nipple clamps that could probably raise some eyebrows. I've also been involved in sex so rough it broke the bed (the box-spring specifically - snapped one of the internal 2x4 supports in two places). Oh, and a guy once finger-frigged me in a movie theater (while a movie was playing, and there were plenty of other people there - I had to be very quiet). Take your pick.

5) Where do you draw the line?
No breath-play or scat/golden play.

There are plenty of other things I'm not personally in to, but I'm generally willing to at least try them or do them for a partner on a case by case basis.
Sorry, but I have to ask - how in the world did that 5-way actually happen? Did somebody just stand up and say "Let's have a 5-way, guys" or did it just spontaneously happen? Also, was everyone there bi or did you have non-bi's joining in? If the latter, how did they handle having sex with people who weren't their preferred gender? Just so many questions...


NoX 9 said:
I think clothed and partially clothed people are far sexier than nude people though.
While I am a virgin mid-20's hetero male, I tend to find that I'm the same way in this regards - I generally find women wearing thongs, bikinis, or nothing at all way less sexy than one wearing a hoodie and jeans or something like that. I will admit to liking short-cut jeans, mini-skirts, and women in nothing but towels however, but in general women wearing as little as possible is a turn-off for me.
 

MrMixelPixel

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2. I dunno
3. I dunno
4. Haven't had sex
5. I have so many lines in regards to sex it's kind of sad.
 

Fsyco

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1. Male

2. Mostly straight.

3. I've got a foot fetish, I'm into dominating people, I've got a bit of a voyeuristic streak, and I've always wanted to try group sex.

4. My girlfriend used a strapon on me once. That was pretty fun. I've also tied her hands together a few times.

5. Non-sexual bodily fluids, crying, most animals, children, corpses, drawing blood, Johnathan Holmes.
 

NoX 9

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V da Mighty Taco said:
While I am a virgin mid-20's hetero male, I tend to find that I'm the same way in this regards - I generally find women wearing thongs, bikinis, or nothing at all way less sexy than one wearing a hoodie and jeans or something like that. I will admit to liking short-cut jeans, mini-skirts, and women in nothing but towels however, but in general women wearing as little as possible is a turn-off for me.
Our tastes must be similar, cause I'm completely with you. It's not as much the mystery as people just looking really very good in clothing that suits them. I absolutely despise thongs and similar underwear -not only are they uncomfortable as fuck to wear, but it looks terrible! I cannot comprehend the mind of the person that invented such clothing. Ohw, in high school there was this girl in my swimming class, and she could wear a towel like no other... Yea, I looked over at her in the wardrobe quite a few times during my first year, I admit X3.
 

Pieturli

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V da Mighty Taco said:
Bara_no_Hime said:
1) Gender: Female

2) Sexual orientation: Bisexual

3) Fetishes: I enjoy Dom-ing occasionally. Also group sex (my personal record is a 5-way).

4) Freakiest thing you've ever done or had done to you:
Depends on your definition of freaky. If you find group sex freaky, then the 5-way probably qualifies. If you find Domination and Submission freaky, then I have some tales involving whips, ropes, dildos, and nipple clamps that could probably raise some eyebrows. I've also been involved in sex so rough it broke the bed (the box-spring specifically - snapped one of the internal 2x4 supports in two places). Oh, and a guy once finger-frigged me in a movie theater (while a movie was playing, and there were plenty of other people there - I had to be very quiet). Take your pick.

5) Where do you draw the line?
No breath-play or scat/golden play.

There are plenty of other things I'm not personally in to, but I'm generally willing to at least try them or do them for a partner on a case by case basis.
Sorry, but I have to ask - how in the world did that 5-way actually happen? Did somebody just stand up and say "Let's have a 5-way, guys" or did it just spontaneously happen? Also, was everyone there bi or did you have non-bi's joining in? If the latter, how did they handle having sex with people who weren't their preferred gender? Just so many questions...


NoX 9 said:
I think clothed and partially clothed people are far sexier than nude people though.
While I am a virgin mid-20's hetero male, I tend to find that I'm the same way in this regards - I generally find women wearing thongs, bikinis, or nothing at all way less sexy than one wearing a hoodie and jeans or something like that. I will admit to liking short-cut jeans, mini-skirts, and women in nothing but towels however, but in general women wearing as little as possible is a turn-off for me.
I would imagine that the people who didn't want to have sex with said partners didn't have sex. I sure wouldn't bone a dude just because the situation happens to arise:D
 

Bestival

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1 Male.

2 Bisexual.

3 A lot, but the biggest would have to be public stuff.

4 Obviously, public stuff. I think the time when a friend and I jerked off together on a beach takes the cake. Don't worry, there were no kids around, we checked. It was really early, there was only like 5 people around.

5 Well, I'll try just about anything once. No poopy stuff though, piss is fine. I also really don't enjoy BDSM porn, so doubt I would enjoy that either.
 
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Gender: Male

Sexual Orientation: Straight

Fetishes: Big fan of mind control or possession. In terms of porn I also like anything that's dark or wrong, particularly on a anything that's a little psychologically twisted or involves any sort of supernatural stuff

Freakiest thing: Err... I'm kind of boring in terms of freaky stuff. I've had sex outdoors twice, once while cars driving by could have seen us if they were looking closely. My girlfriend and I have also occasionally tried to subtly play with each other while other people were around. Nothing to orgasm, more teasing each other than anything.

Not exactly freaky, but something interesting was taking turns playing ICO while the other person would do their best to make them lose by distracting

Where do you draw the Line: Scat, urine, gore, or somebody acting eerily childish are all things that are instant turn-offs for me. Other than that I'm pretty much open to trying anything, particularly if the other person's into it

Gormech said:
How do you do vore? I could have sworn it was entirely a fantasy thing
 

BoredRolePlayer

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Gender: Male

Orientation: Straight

Fetishes: None I can think of honestly :/, I'm not really creative.

Freakiest Thing you've ever done or had done to you: Anal was the "freakiest" thing I've done, which isn't saying much.

Draw the Line: Well I can safely say anything dealing with poo or pee XD.

So I don't have much in experience and it showed with my girlfriend who was more skilled in this stuff then me. This fact made it not fun for me at all. Mostly because I know I'm not doing nearly all the things she likes, but she never tells me what I did right or did wrong when I ask. It was always the "You're starting off, you will get there" which isn't fun for me because I like making other's have fun as well. Which stuck in the back of my mind and I'll I'm thinking is "So why even bother at this point?" I know it's a both way road, but I feel like it's a wall put up when I ask. And compound the fact that I'm shy by nature and don't really like being around people for a long time made it worse.

Long story short, because of a huge gap between what we know I grew to have no interest in sex.
 

spoonybard.hahs

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1. Male
2. Bisexual
3. BDSM. I'm submissive with males, dominate with females. I'd switch for the right partner(s) though.
4. Done to me: DP by two guys. Done to another: Fisted a woman while using a Hitatchi wand on her. Also, sex in numerous public areas, with lots of people around.
5. Scat/Water sports.
 

Agent357

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1. Gender: Male
2. Orientation: Straight
3. Fetishes: I like being dominated. Kinda. Basically just like having my woman on top, pin me down, etc. See 5.
4. Freaky Things: My one of my partners let me try anal once. That counts right? Also, that same partner wanted me to show her hentai, cause she'd never seen it before. That was interesting.
5. Lines Drawn: Anything that requires a safeword. Sorry, but if it's that level of dangerous, I'm probably too nervous to get it up anyways. If "stop" isn't straightforward enough, no thanks. Also, no bodily fluids that usually go in a toilet go on me.
 

Saltyk

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1) Male

2) Straight (Probably a zero on the sexuality scale)

3) Honestly, I'm pretty tame. I can't think of an actual fetish, like foot, gloves, or BSDM. Yes, I'm aware of plenty of fetishes (apparently there are people who find blood arousing), but I can't really think of anything. I just find the female body arousing, honestly.

4) Well, I've fingered a girl in a parking lot, but it was really late at night. Also, had a girl decide to give me a handjob in a restaurant parking lot in broad daylight. Not in the car, by the way. No, outside of it. And she really wanted me to cum, but frankly, I was so worried about some family coming out and seeing it that I couldn't get comfortable enough.

5) Well, other than adding to the chorus of no poop or otherwise, I'm not into anal. Pretty much the same reason.

Yeah, I'm kinda boring compared to others on this thread.
 

V da Mighty Taco

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NoX 9 said:
V da Mighty Taco said:
While I am a virgin mid-20's hetero male, I tend to find that I'm the same way in this regards - I generally find women wearing thongs, bikinis, or nothing at all way less sexy than one wearing a hoodie and jeans or something like that. I will admit to liking short-cut jeans, mini-skirts, and women in nothing but towels however, but in general women wearing as little as possible is a turn-off for me.
Our tastes must be similar, cause I'm completely with you. It's not as much the mystery as people just looking really very good in clothing that suits them. I absolutely despise thongs and similar underwear -not only are they uncomfortable as fuck to wear, but it looks terrible! I cannot comprehend the mind of the person that invented such clothing. Ohw, in high school there was this girl in my swimming class, and she could wear a towel like no other... Yea, I looked over at her in the wardrobe quite a few times during my first year, I admit X3.
I don't know why, but I can't shake this eerie feeling that somehow... someway.... you and I could go on about the wonders of towels and laid-back clothing for quite some time. I really wonder why that is?

/sarcasm :p

Also, the Captcha is "beach ball". Need I say more? XD

Pieturli said:
I would imagine that the people who didn't want to have sex with said partners didn't have sex. I sure wouldn't bone a dude just because the situation happens to arise:D
You're probably right. I just can't help but think of how the stereotypical straight guy gets uncomfortable at a 2-male 3-way and how that could apply to a larger group of various sexualities is all. Also, 5-ways aren't exactly commonplace, so getting one going is kinda mind-blowing.