So, I'd like to have a talk.
About boobs.
Women's boobs, specifically. Breasts. Whatever you'd like to call them.
A talk about them and why the hell women get so bent out of shape about them; and why they seem to be more off-limits than an other part of the body.
Before I begin though, I must let it be known what made me even want to have this talk. Earlier today I was sitting in class waiting for it to begin. I had been thinking about Sekirei (which I had just watched some of before class) and wanted to look something up, so I pulled out my phone. While I was on the Wiki page some woman who had apparently been looking over my shoulder (I probably should've called her out for being a nosy ass, but hindsight is 20/20), goes "Oh, you men and your obsession with breasts! You never think about anything else! And you never like the breasts women have either - you always think they need to be bigger! What, if they're not a C cup or better they're not good enough for you?"
I didn't say anything to her. This was the picture on the wiki page:
No I don't know what her prior history was, or she just had a bad day and was taking it out on a convent target, but I thought it was a little annoying. Thankfully the general din of the room was loud enough that it likely went unnoticed. Now this class's professor tends to be a few minutes late every day, so there was still some time left. A couple of football players were sitting a desk ahead and to my right reading a magazine. I don't know which one, but the page they seemed to be "stuck" on a page with a lot of rather....nice women in bikinis on a beach. The woman had noticed them by now and was went over to them. However, contrary to expectation, to she didn't get mad at them; she started pleasantly talking with them!
What the hell? Double standard much?
You'd think that would be the end of it. But I sat on this for a while (mainly because I have nothing else to do) and thought about how this seems to be a noticeable pattern.
Men are seemingly allowed to admire a woman's legs and hips as much as they want, but as soon as they move a little bit further north they become perverts or pigs. And though I will admit I have less experience with this than is likely good for me, it seems to work the same with women as well. You don't hear a peep if a woman wears a short skirt or tight legged pants, but there seems to a magical tightness/cleavage line for women that when crossed turns them from normal/acceptable/hot into whore/slut even from their friends.
And though it might just be anecdotal evidence, just looks at the Comments section for any news story involving women's breasts. Its a veritable god damn battlefield. I don't think I've ever seen or heard so much debate about a woman's ass before, or seen anywhere near the level of ire.
Its even affected media; just look at the redesigns of Lara Croft, or the recent "update" to many characters in Soul Calibur V.
Why are they such an issue? Why do they seem to be so exceptional and get so much more attention and ire? Alright, yeah, some guys like them. Including me. A lot. But some guys also like asses a lot. Or blondes. Or women with hips. Why don't they get any attention or ire? I don't think I've ever heard a case of a single guy being called a "pig" or a "pervert" because he really digs women with blonde hair or was looking at a woman with blonde hair.
So whats the deal here? Is there something I wasn't let in on?
Also, I think I would be totally letting you guys down if I didn't leave this here.
About boobs.
Women's boobs, specifically. Breasts. Whatever you'd like to call them.
A talk about them and why the hell women get so bent out of shape about them; and why they seem to be more off-limits than an other part of the body.
Before I begin though, I must let it be known what made me even want to have this talk. Earlier today I was sitting in class waiting for it to begin. I had been thinking about Sekirei (which I had just watched some of before class) and wanted to look something up, so I pulled out my phone. While I was on the Wiki page some woman who had apparently been looking over my shoulder (I probably should've called her out for being a nosy ass, but hindsight is 20/20), goes "Oh, you men and your obsession with breasts! You never think about anything else! And you never like the breasts women have either - you always think they need to be bigger! What, if they're not a C cup or better they're not good enough for you?"
I didn't say anything to her. This was the picture on the wiki page:
No I don't know what her prior history was, or she just had a bad day and was taking it out on a convent target, but I thought it was a little annoying. Thankfully the general din of the room was loud enough that it likely went unnoticed. Now this class's professor tends to be a few minutes late every day, so there was still some time left. A couple of football players were sitting a desk ahead and to my right reading a magazine. I don't know which one, but the page they seemed to be "stuck" on a page with a lot of rather....nice women in bikinis on a beach. The woman had noticed them by now and was went over to them. However, contrary to expectation, to she didn't get mad at them; she started pleasantly talking with them!
What the hell? Double standard much?
You'd think that would be the end of it. But I sat on this for a while (mainly because I have nothing else to do) and thought about how this seems to be a noticeable pattern.
Men are seemingly allowed to admire a woman's legs and hips as much as they want, but as soon as they move a little bit further north they become perverts or pigs. And though I will admit I have less experience with this than is likely good for me, it seems to work the same with women as well. You don't hear a peep if a woman wears a short skirt or tight legged pants, but there seems to a magical tightness/cleavage line for women that when crossed turns them from normal/acceptable/hot into whore/slut even from their friends.
And though it might just be anecdotal evidence, just looks at the Comments section for any news story involving women's breasts. Its a veritable god damn battlefield. I don't think I've ever seen or heard so much debate about a woman's ass before, or seen anywhere near the level of ire.
Its even affected media; just look at the redesigns of Lara Croft, or the recent "update" to many characters in Soul Calibur V.
Why are they such an issue? Why do they seem to be so exceptional and get so much more attention and ire? Alright, yeah, some guys like them. Including me. A lot. But some guys also like asses a lot. Or blondes. Or women with hips. Why don't they get any attention or ire? I don't think I've ever heard a case of a single guy being called a "pig" or a "pervert" because he really digs women with blonde hair or was looking at a woman with blonde hair.
So whats the deal here? Is there something I wasn't let in on?
Also, I think I would be totally letting you guys down if I didn't leave this here.