How exactly does this exonerate the IDF?
It doesn't. The IDF has gone too far, but one can understand why they are just kinda done with it at this point.
So you're just assuming those civilians were all secretly combatants, without a shred of evidence, so that the force massacring them cannot be held culpable. Gotcha.
Never said all or even most, but consider the solder on the ground, if you see a woman running towards you with something, do you wait to see if its a grenade or take the shot. This is more to just put you in the mind of troops on the ground. Its why uniforms are so important, so there is a distinction and when you have a force that is perfectly willing to blend into civilians then more civilians are going to die.
Then you haven't been paying attention, because I've repeatedly criticised Hamas on this board. Now get back on topic: the IDF has caused the overwhelming majority of death and devastation in this war, so our focus is there.
Of course I'm not really paying attention to the politics board, its where you go to be annoyed in general. I doubt you will convince me and I doubt I will convince you. I would expect the IDF to have caused much more devastation, they have a much greater capacity for it and after October 7th they seem like they are just done with the whole thing.
You say this, and yet you don't believe it. When the IDF explicitly targets them-- such as bombing safe zones they themselves set up, or indiscriminately gunning down civilians in the streets-- you make excuses and assumptions to excuse them.
If they are targeting civilians then they should be punished. But when one force uses guerilla tactics, the line between civilian and insurgent becomes blurry.