I don't mind the trying-hard label. Since when is it not cool to try hard at something? Since when is being casually uninterestead and too cool to put actual effort a good thing?
It's way more engaging and meaningful to put effort in something than to just mess around without much investment. Sure, the latter may be more "fun" but there's things out there superior to mere fun.
It's way more engaging and meaningful to put effort in something than to just mess around without much investment. Sure, the latter may be more "fun" but there's things out there superior to mere fun.