I thought I was the only one that loved RPGs, but never finished them! We should form a support group.
At any rate, I eventually came up with a solution--I now pretend that I'm actually in the RPG game world and I focus heavily on the main quest. I no longer try to do every quest, explore every nook and cranny of every area or look in every barrel, closet, etc. I think to myself, "if this were my real life, would I really go around doing all this stuff?" I work in Manhattan and I walk from Grand Central Station to my office in Times Square, but along the way, do I talk to everyone I see, go in every store/bar, or look in every trash can? Of course not. I've come to the conclusion that, for me, RPGs are all about immersion and if I'm trying to do everything and look everywhere, it loses its realness and breaks the immersion. The game becomes a huge task list, instead of a living breathing world.
With this mindset, I'm happy to say that I actually completed the last two RPGs I played (Mass Effect and The Witcher) with no gaps or intervening weeks off playing other games. This is very rare for me.
At any rate, I eventually came up with a solution--I now pretend that I'm actually in the RPG game world and I focus heavily on the main quest. I no longer try to do every quest, explore every nook and cranny of every area or look in every barrel, closet, etc. I think to myself, "if this were my real life, would I really go around doing all this stuff?" I work in Manhattan and I walk from Grand Central Station to my office in Times Square, but along the way, do I talk to everyone I see, go in every store/bar, or look in every trash can? Of course not. I've come to the conclusion that, for me, RPGs are all about immersion and if I'm trying to do everything and look everywhere, it loses its realness and breaks the immersion. The game becomes a huge task list, instead of a living breathing world.
With this mindset, I'm happy to say that I actually completed the last two RPGs I played (Mass Effect and The Witcher) with no gaps or intervening weeks off playing other games. This is very rare for me.