It?s not about just being an arrogant jerk, it?s about confidence. And most arrogant jerks have boundless confidence, which is why many women are attracted to them and can, perhaps, overlook their flaws. Although sometimes, it doesn?t matter how confident you are: if you?re an ugly fuck, then most girls won?t want to have sex with you. You?ve just got to be born with the right traits. It
can go the other way round too, contrary to popular belief. I guess the only exception is that a shy girl - or
most girls, for that matter - can still get laid if they're at least average-looking and maybe throw on some revealing clothing. But if you're an absolute *****, you'll either get called out as a "slut", or be getting laid by actual "jerks" like you, or shy and/or desperate losers without a backbone.
But I don?t get why you ?hate it?, though. Once you?ve "suckered" a girl into your ?jerk? persona,
then you can reveal more about yourself to them. If they actually still like you and you still exhibit some confidence, they?ll still want a relationship with you, on top of the sex.
As for my personal experience, I have an acquaintance who has no trouble getting laid. But he doesn?t brag about it. The reason that he?s able to pull women so easily is because he?s so confident, charismatic, and ballsy about the whole thing. I?ve seen him literally walk right up to a girl that he barely knows, put his arm around their shoulder, and casually and suavely say, ?Hey?do you wanna have sex with me?? And that was on a fucking
dare. I?ll honestly say that if I was gay or a woman, I?d fuck him. Also, he plays the drums. Girls
love drummers. Or so I?ve heard.
manic_depressive13 said:
SmashLovesTitanQuest said:
People forget women aren't logical too much. Hell, people aren't logical most of the time. But women? Especially them.
What the fuck is wrong with you people? This has to be the second time within a few days I've seen someone insisting women are less logical than men. It makes me want to shit in my pants.
Shit in your pants? That doesn't sound logical. We have proof, men of the world!
Just kidding. And I think he was too.