My absolute go-to-war-over-it phrase is, 'someone else always has it worse than you.'
Oh, fair enough then, I'll stop being upset over losing a leg then, because someone else on the planet has lost two. What's that? Terminal cancer? Oh well, mustn't grumble; some people have HIV.
I appreciate what people are trying to accomplish with the phrase, but I have a real problem with the idea that people should just not get upset; that they should just grin their way through everything. Getting upset is healthy, it helps you come to terms with loss and move on.
Oh, fair enough then, I'll stop being upset over losing a leg then, because someone else on the planet has lost two. What's that? Terminal cancer? Oh well, mustn't grumble; some people have HIV.
I appreciate what people are trying to accomplish with the phrase, but I have a real problem with the idea that people should just not get upset; that they should just grin their way through everything. Getting upset is healthy, it helps you come to terms with loss and move on.