carlsberg export said:
The main guitarist and singer asked me what music do I like?
I replied that i'm into everything but currently I was listening to the strokes, and just the way the guy's face twisted in disgust at that made me think 'ah to hell with this'
Quick joke for ya:
Q: How many guitarists does it take to change a lightbulb?
A: Three. One to do the actual work and two to stand off to the side with their arms crossed and say "Pfff! I can do THAT!"
Yeah...I hear you. I was the singer/guitarist in a band that played our local scene in the late 90's and early oughts. Our band dynamic was good and we had day jobs. So we just enjoyed playing. But I couldn't stand debasing myself for the club owners. Each one of them was the Little Lord of his own kingdom. We finally hung it up when some asshole told us we should become an 80's metal cover band because "that's where the money is".
His club went belly up shortly thereafter, along with our whole local scene.
But I still enjoyed playing, so I started a little e-session musician business and just do a lot of freelance desktop recording nowadays.
Point is, if you still enjoy making music, there are plenty other ways to get out there without dealing with that grind.
Sounds like you're pretty soured on it, though. Can't say I don't blame you.
But it's a shame. The world needs good musicians.