Tolerance vs. Acceptance (Also Vampires)

Recommended Videos

KissingSunlight

Molotov Cocktails, Anyone?
Jul 3, 2013
1,237
0
0
I want to share with you 2 links. First is an article from National Review about an university study titled: "Do We Always Practice What We Preach? Real Vampires' Fears of Coming Out of the Coffin to Social Workers and Helping Professionals"

http://www.nationalreview.com/article/421108/vampires-identify-study-discrimination

The second link is the reaction to the article.

http://www.reviewjournal.com/opinion/editorials/editorial-study-real-vampires-really-sucks

My opinion: I have read about people who claimed they were vampires. I first came across it on websites dedicated to Buffy the Vampire Slayer. (Willow & Tara Forever!) I dismissed them, at the time, as trolls or simply lonely, delusional people. Since then, I have seen occasional TV segments, usually from "serious" networks like Discovery & Learning Channels. I still think they are delusional, but I don't care as long as they don't hurt anybody. That has been my general philosophy for all minority groups looking for tolerance and equality. I may not completely understand or empathize with your group. However, that does not mean that you should be harassed or discriminated against.

Captcha: The Tribe Has Spoken
OK Captcha, you are freaking me out.
 

Euryalus

New member
Jun 30, 2012
4,429
0
0
I disagree, live and let live as a philosophy will certainly allow you to avoid the pitfalls of imposing wrongheaded or simply wrong laws, actions, or burdens on people it's a bare bones minimum attempt at any ethical system.

To want the good of another person and argue for it even if at the time they themselves can't see it isn't harrasment or discrimination. It certainly can lead to that if the person arguing for or against something loses sight of the fact that they want the good for that person, but it isn't harassment in and of itself. Disagreement and telling people there are should's in this world (You should have a rational grasp on reality, you should care that your actions have consequences, you should care that you live in a community and not a country of me, etc...) doesn't automatically mean fuck you. The actual spark is that of caring about someone's well being even if it's mitigated by character flaws that just make you condemning everything worse.
 

KissingSunlight

Molotov Cocktails, Anyone?
Jul 3, 2013
1,237
0
0
T0ad 0f Truth said:
I disagree, live and let live as a philosophy will certainly allow you to avoid the pitfalls of imposing wrongheaded or simply wrong laws, actions, or burdens on people it's a bare bones minimum attempt at any ethical system.

To want the good of another person and argue for it even if at the time they themselves can't see it isn't harrasment or discrimination. It certainly can lead to that if the person arguing for or against something loses sight of the fact that they want the good for that person, but it isn't harassment in and of itself. Disagreement and telling people there are should's in this world (You should have a rational grasp on reality, you should care that your actions have consequences, you should care that you live in a community and not a country of me, etc...) doesn't automatically mean fuck you. The actual spark is that of caring about someone's well being even if it's mitigated by character flaws that just make you condemning everything worse.
I would normally say couple days after posting the OP, "I would like to thank everybody who have posted so far." Since I can count everyone who have posted with one finger, it would come off as sarcastic if I did that. Maybe I should have had a really heated, irrational opinion about this subject. I could have linked people who think that they are vampires to other groups like transgender and religious people. Alas, I didn't. So, I would like to thank you, Toad Of Truth, for responding.

Would not having laws that discriminate against other people a good thing? If you break down the mentality of such laws, it comes down to "I am afraid of what is unfamiliar to me. So, it must be something we shouldn't allow in society."

What you seem to be advocating is pro-scolding. I don't agree with you are doing. So, I must shame you into conforming to my beliefs. That never works out well. It usually results with the people you are correcting responding negatively to your tactics. Also, people who engages in scolding tactics start to believe that they are "On the right side of history" or "God is on their side". So, they start believing in such rationale as "There are no such things as bad tactics. Just bad targets."

I think it is better to let people do what they want to do. Unless they are harming other people. Doing thing or saying things that you disagree with is not a bad thing. We should not expect people to behave and think the same way.
 

Major_Tom

Anticitizen
Jun 29, 2008
799
0
0
So if I accept that they are real vampires, does that mean I'm allowed to ram a wooden stake through their hearts?
 

Zontar

Mad Max 2019
Feb 18, 2013
4,931
0
0
Major_Tom said:
So if I accept that they are real vampires, does that mean I'm allowed to ram a wooden stake through their hearts?
No, because that would be a Van Helsing hate crime.
 

crimson5pheonix

It took 6 months to read my title.
Legacy
Jun 6, 2008
36,822
4,055
118
Zontar said:
Major_Tom said:
So if I accept that they are real vampires, does that mean I'm allowed to ram a wooden stake through their hearts?
No, because that would be a Van Helsing hate crime.
What about taking off their heads and stuffing their mouths full of holy wafers?
 

Mazinger-Z

New member
Aug 3, 2011
76
0
0
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clinical_vampirism

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clinical_lycanthropy

We used to treat these as mental illnesses...
 

Redryhno

New member
Jul 25, 2011
3,077
0
0
crimson5pheonix said:
Zontar said:
Major_Tom said:
So if I accept that they are real vampires, does that mean I'm allowed to ram a wooden stake through their hearts?
No, because that would be a Van Helsing hate crime.
What about taking off their heads and stuffing their mouths full of holy wafers?
Nope, because then that would be a return to the times when they were oppressed and held down by straight cis(*hurk*) white dudes, don't you see how PROBLEMATIC that would be?
 

Drathnoxis

I love the smell of card games in the morning
Legacy
Sep 23, 2010
6,498
2,460
118
Just off-screen
Country
Canada
Gender
Male
I find 'real' vampires to be kind of fascinating. My cousin met one at a party one time and she linked me to his website. I can't remember what the url was but it was really intriguing. It's just bizarre for someone to believe themselves a vampire, but without all of the supernatural mythology surrounding vampirism. It's just a zooking strange thing to believe and tell other people. I bet all the really real vampires look at all these non-undead posers and just shake their heads.

KissingSunlight said:
I would normally say couple days after posting the OP, "I would like to thank everybody who have posted so far." Since I can count everyone who have posted with one finger, it would come off as sarcastic if I did that. Maybe I should have had a really heated, irrational opinion about this subject. I could have linked people who think that they are vampires to other groups like transgender and religious people. Alas, I didn't. So, I would like to thank you, Toad Of Truth, for responding.
The site isn't nearly as active [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.875069-The-Escapist-is-dying-but-not-because-of-Gamergate-Statistics] as it used to be. I feel like most of the remaining lifeblood has drained into Game Industry, leaving Gaming and Off-Topic to wither. Time was it was nearly impossible to get in on the first page of any topic due to the activity of the site. Now it takes several days for most topics to make it to two pages, if they ever do.
 

KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime

Lolita Style, The Best Style!
Jan 12, 2010
2,151
0
0
The thing with "real" vampires is the same as with most otherkin identity. Most of the people who actually believe in it, are those who believe in a more metaphysical, and/or spiritual manner. A major issue with this is that vampires in popular culture come and go rather frequently as a fad, which brings a lot of people who aren't serious about this into the fold. A lot of different types of otherkin have this problem, but it's most common with "real" vampires, because of how vampires play in popular culture.

The real issue with otherkin, including "real" vampires, is what it does to the transgender community. Otherkin are often used as a tool against trans folk, as a method of spreading transphobia. Using otherkin it's easy to attack transgender people, make particularlt nasty jokes at our expense, and just generally delegitimize the identity of trans people.
 

Euryalus

New member
Jun 30, 2012
4,429
0
0
KissingSunlight said:
Would not having laws that discriminate against other people a good thing? If you break down the mentality of such laws, it comes down to "I am afraid of what is unfamiliar to me. So, it must be something we shouldn't allow in society."

What you seem to be advocating is pro-scold
Yeah I expected this to be a bigger topic honestly, but to address the point the part of your post I quoted, you absolutely can't frame it that way. I reject the relativism underlying it and presenting itself as a truer morality.

It's says on the one hand that people have their beliefs, and right or wrong about those beliefs, they're entitled to them, as well as their views, behaviors, and understandings of reality, so long as they don't interfere with other members in society's ability to pursue their own interests, ideas, conceptions and intellectual pursuits. It sees society as nothing more than an arena in which self interest as defined in a very specific hedonistic way is sought after...

"Indeed from an Aristotelian point of view a modern liberal political society can appear only as a collection of citizens of nowhere who have banded together for their common protection...

What this brings out is that modern politics cannot be a matter of genuine moral consensus. And it is not. Modern politics is civil war carried on by other means."

-Alasdair McIntyre
Ethics in this kind of society is governed by rules that support this underlying presupposition. You have your Kantian duties, your Lockean rights, and your Bentham-ian understanding of utility as defined by a global level of pleasure.

All of these ethical systems you would almost certainly be familiar with even if you don't know them by name. They're your inalienable rights of life, liberty, and property, your concepts of "Right is universal and rooted in the nature of the action itself not in the circumstances or results" and your "The ends justify the means as established by the amount, intensity, and duration of pleasure produced in the population."

These enlightenment rule based ethical systems are all very self contained and internally consistent, but all accept a pre-rational premise as their starting point.

No convincing argument is given for why my actions should be universal, focused on the maximization of pleasure, or confined by the need to not step on any natural rights. You either accept the premises given already and act consistently from there or you choose and assert a different premise making any sort of rational ethical conversation between people with different prerational premises impossible.

There's nothing to talk about. You either accept what's valued by me or you don't. People see that and you start to see the relativism of morality seep into the daily conversation.

When I say wishing the a good for a group, I don't mean MY understanding of good. I don't mean MY prerational but consistent premises. I mean to say there are some premises that are not merely valued, but valuable.

I fundamentally reject the idea of a relativistic live and let live philosophy as being the truth. There is good and there is bad, there is right and there is wrong... or there isn't.

To continue pretending that Lockean natural rights have any real rational power behind them defending their existence, and then to use that concept to defend differing interpretations of good as being equally valid is to ignore the problem and cobble together several conflicting ethical theories in an ad hoc and clearly bad way (if there are standards)

And If I'm right in my assessment, then to value those things and to want them for others needs to be spoken. All of it, and with a mind to a rationality behind each "should" that doesn't terminate in a "because."

That objectivity may not actually exist and values truly are fundamentally subjective... which means 1.) I'm wrong, but also that relativism of society is the natural state of things. What isn't the natural state of things is the understanding of that relativistic conflict of ideas as having any SHOULD that holds it together. If ethics are subjective, if they genuinely and truly exist not as a quality of the object being examined, but as a value that exists in the observer then it's not a question of what's valuable. There is no valuable, there is only valued, and you telling me to value appreciation of difference of opinion over appreciation of biological or scientific truth has no weight and cannot have any weight behind it.

If I'm scolding you for your behavior or your philosophy or beliefs do not mistake me. I am not scolding you for breaking any sort of Hobbesian subjective social contract, I'm scolding you for not adhering to an objective standard.

You have to reject that objective standard either by saying it's not a correct assessment of the objectivity of it (To which I will probably react quite negatively to any attempt to salvage the enlightenment project as a feasible alternative), or you have to reject objectivity itself which leaves you just screaming at me about forcing my values on others while doing the same to me by saying I should value respect for other values.

It's a contradiction according to your own standards.

So no, again to answer your question. To argue for standards of behavior is not the same as harassment unless you define harassment to be any criticism of behavior that doesn't meet your subjective minimum standard of not hurting someone... in which case then yes, technically I would support it.
 

Strazdas

Robots will replace your job
May 28, 2011
8,405
0
0
So this is about the people who believe they are vampires? I treat them the same as all "otherkin" people, which is to say that as long as they aren't harming anyone they can pretend to be what they want. ill treat them the same i treat all people. What they shouldn't expect is for me to treat them as some kind of "special" people that i must address with their pronouns and shit. If you want that you have to take all the baggage with it, and the baggage is that it is a (mostly harmless) mental illness.
 

Hoplon

Jabbering Fool
Mar 31, 2010
1,839
0
0
inu-kun said:
Mazinger-Z said:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clinical_vampirism

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clinical_lycanthropy

We used to treat these as mental illnesses...
Agreed, what the fuck is wrong with people today.
Today? what makes you think this hasn't been going on for millennia? there are more people now, and the internet makes them more visible, but it's really not a recent thing.
 

KissingSunlight

Molotov Cocktails, Anyone?
Jul 3, 2013
1,237
0
0
T0ad 0f Truth said:
You are obviously taking an academic philosophical approach to this question. I find your approach to this acceptable in colleges and universities. I prefer philosophies that are grounded in street-level, real world solutions. I would argue that academic approaches to real world problems have been making them worse. Look no further than people who are trying to apply gender & race studies to real world problems. They are essentially saying that, unless you are a victim or some kind of special snowflake, you should have no rights. I mean look no further than the OP. Academics are trying to include vampires as the latest special snowflake who should have double standards catering to them.

I appreciate what you are saying. I agree with you up to a point. There should be rules and standards applying equally to everyone. If someone is doing something that you don't agree with, but only effecting themselves. You should tolerate that. Tolerating doesn't mean you are accepting what they are doing. Of course, if what they are doing are effecting other people and things in a negative way. We do have an obligation to speak up and do something about it.
 

FalloutJack

Bah weep grah nah neep ninny bom
Nov 20, 2008
15,485
0
0
Real-life vampires are not like Dracula (or Alucard), Kain, Blade, or any others found in media. The fact is that they are kinda' Blessed With Suck. They don't have super powers, they DO hate light and need a blood top-off to overcome a deficiency, and to make matters worse...purple-colored bowel movements. I feel bad for them. I really do.
 

Mazinger-Z

New member
Aug 3, 2011
76
0
0
Hoplon said:
inu-kun said:
Mazinger-Z said:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clinical_vampirism

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clinical_lycanthropy

We used to treat these as mental illnesses...
Agreed, what the fuck is wrong with people today.
Today? what makes you think this hasn't been going on for millennia? there are more people now, and the internet makes them more visible, but it's really not a recent thing.
I think s/he means with regards to treating this as a mental illness instead of "Oh, you're not crazy, you're just fang-kin."
 

JustAnotherAardvark

New member
Feb 19, 2015
126
0
0
MarsAtlas said:
I have no stake
Phrasing!

But seriously, if someone wants to think they're a vampire, as long as they don't try to impress that belief on me or force me to go along with it (e.g. "You have to hire me, but I can only work the night shift." "We have no night shift." "Well, you need to get one!"), it's none of my beeswax.
 

Lord Garnaat

New member
Apr 10, 2012
412
0
0
T0ad 0f Truth said:
KissingSunlight said:
Would not having laws that discriminate against other people a good thing? If you break down the mentality of such laws, it comes down to "I am afraid of what is unfamiliar to me. So, it must be something we shouldn't allow in society."

What you seem to be advocating is pro-scold
Yeah I expected this to be a bigger topic honestly, but to address the point the part of your post I quoted, you absolutely can't frame it that way. I reject the relativism underlying it and presenting itself as a truer morality.

It's says on the one hand that people have their beliefs, and right or wrong about those beliefs, they're entitled to them, as well as their views, behaviors, and understandings of reality, so long as they don't interfere with other members in society's ability to pursue their own interests, ideas, conceptions and intellectual pursuits. It sees society as nothing more than an arena in which self interest as defined in a very specific hedonistic way is sought after...

"Indeed from an Aristotelian point of view a modern liberal political society can appear only as a collection of citizens of nowhere who have banded together for their common protection...

What this brings out is that modern politics cannot be a matter of genuine moral consensus. And it is not. Modern politics is civil war carried on by other means."

-Alasdair McIntyre
Ethics in this kind of society is governed by rules that support this underlying presupposition. You have your Kantian duties, your Lockean rights, and your Bentham-ian understanding of utility as defined by a global level of pleasure.

All of these ethical systems you would almost certainly be familiar with even if you don't know them by name. They're your inalienable rights of life, liberty, and property, your concepts of "Right is universal and rooted in the nature of the action itself not in the circumstances or results" and your "The ends justify the means as established by the amount, intensity, and duration of pleasure produced in the population."

These enlightenment rule based ethical systems are all very self contained and internally consistent, but all accept a pre-rational premise as their starting point.

No convincing argument is given for why my actions should be universal, focused on the maximization of pleasure, or confined by the need to not step on any natural rights. You either accept the premises given already and act consistently from there or you choose and assert a different premise making any sort of rational ethical conversation between people with different prerational premises impossible.

There's nothing to talk about. You either accept what's valued by me or you don't. People see that and you start to see the relativism of morality seep into the daily conversation.

When I say wishing the a good for a group, I don't mean MY understanding of good. I don't mean MY prerational but consistent premises. I mean to say there are some premises that are not merely valued, but valuable.

I fundamentally reject the idea of a relativistic live and let live philosophy as being the truth. There is good and there is bad, there is right and there is wrong... or there isn't.

To continue pretending that Lockean natural rights have any real rational power behind them defending their existence, and then to use that concept to defend differing interpretations of good as being equally valid is to ignore the problem and cobble together several conflicting ethical theories in an ad hoc and clearly bad way (if there are standards)

And If I'm right in my assessment, then to value those things and to want them for others needs to be spoken. All of it, and with a mind to a rationality behind each "should" that doesn't terminate in a "because."

That objectivity may not actually exist and values truly are fundamentally subjective... which means 1.) I'm wrong, but also that relativism of society is the natural state of things. What isn't the natural state of things is the understanding of that relativistic conflict of ideas as having any SHOULD that holds it together. If ethics are subjective, if they genuinely and truly exist not as a quality of the object being examined, but as a value that exists in the observer then it's not a question of what's valuable. There is no valuable, there is only valued, and you telling me to value appreciation of difference of opinion over appreciation of biological or scientific truth has no weight and cannot have any weight behind it.

If I'm scolding you for your behavior or your philosophy or beliefs do not mistake me. I am not scolding you for breaking any sort of Hobbesian subjective social contract, I'm scolding you for not adhering to an objective standard.

You have to reject that objective standard either by saying it's not a correct assessment of the objectivity of it (To which I will probably react quite negatively to any attempt to salvage the enlightenment project as a feasible alternative), or you have to reject objectivity itself which leaves you just screaming at me about forcing my values on others while doing the same to me by saying I should value respect for other values.

It's a contradiction according to your own standards.

So no, again to answer your question. To argue for standards of behavior is not the same as harassment unless you define harassment to be any criticism of behavior that doesn't meet your subjective minimum standard of not hurting someone... in which case then yes, technically I would support it.
You are at least within my top five of the best amphibians I've encountered, after reading this post. Good show.

The problem that I have with the "live and let live" philosophy is that it rejects claims to objective limits on behavior while simultaneously creating an objective limit on behavior. If you say "Everyone should be allowed to do as they please" but also add the caveat of "Unless it harms people," you are opening yourself up to the obvious question of why. What is it about harming someone else that changes it? A moment ago you were claiming that right and wrong were subjective, so what if I believe that hurting other people is right? What suddenly gives you the authority to stop me from doing that? Did you not just claim that no such authority exists?

It's a fundamentally impractical position. For all that nihilists talk about there being no objective standard or truth (which is itself asserting an objective truth), that doesn't stop them from constantly making claims as to how things ought to be, which requires one to acknowledge that something is inherently more desirable than another thing. A breeding ground of hypocrisy.

This is to say nothing of the fact that it also relies on proving "harm" in order to justify anything, which is a word that could literally mean anything. Unless, of course, we are asserted a factual, objective standard of what constitutes harmful and what doesn't, which once against contradicts the principle we are trying to apply in the first place.

I see little value in so-called "tolerance." Either something is true or it isn't, and either something is more right and good than not or it isn't. These "vampires" are either ill people in need of help or imbeciles trying to draw attention to themselves in a typically pathetic, self-absorbed obsession on being unique and special. Toothless and half-formed theorizing won't change that or make it right to assert otherwise.
 

EternallyBored

Terminally Apathetic
Jun 17, 2013
1,434
0
0
Mazinger-Z said:
Hoplon said:
inu-kun said:
Mazinger-Z said:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clinical_vampirism

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clinical_lycanthropy

We used to treat these as mental illnesses...
Agreed, what the fuck is wrong with people today.
Today? what makes you think this hasn't been going on for millennia? there are more people now, and the internet makes them more visible, but it's really not a recent thing.
I think s/he means with regards to treating this as a mental illness instead of "Oh, you're not crazy, you're just fang-kin."
It's still treated as a mental illness, but since Western governments don't want to pay for asylums anymore we kind of have to leave them alone unless their delusion is harmful to themselves or others, we can't ethically force treatment on people for having a delusion. We also had the issue of asylums being used to lock up undesirable people (transgenders, homosexuals, and foreigners) for very shaky reasons, so I doubt we will see them coming back anytime soon.

With the vampire types, while it is still generally considered a delusion, most of the functional types couch their vampire beliefs in spiritual and metaphysical terms, they don't say they are physical vampires, to them it is a spiritual thing, so you run into spiritual and religious freedom issues. The types of people with those conditions that you actually treat would be those that can't function in society.

Both conditions are still treated as mental disorders, if a person seeks out treatment they will be provided with therapy and even medication if necessary, but if they don't want treatment we run into the same issue with paranoid schizophrenics that think airplane contrails are mind control drugs, if they aren't harming anyone and they don't want treatment, we can't ethically force them into treatment without running into a lot of issues. Mentally ill people still have rights, back when we locked anyone strange in an asylum we tended to end up with facilities that looked more like prisons than mental health centers, as treatment is expensive, and nobody wants to foot the bill for something that is requires years of therapy often with little result. These conditions generally don't go away if they are linked to disorders like schizophrenia, and even medication is just a bandage, often only lessening erratic behavior and not actually eliminating delusions.