Tolerance vs. Acceptance (Also Vampires)

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EternallyBored said:
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Mazinger-Z said:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clinical_vampirism

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clinical_lycanthropy

We used to treat these as mental illnesses...
Agreed, what the fuck is wrong with people today.
Today? what makes you think this hasn't been going on for millennia? there are more people now, and the internet makes them more visible, but it's really not a recent thing.
I think s/he means with regards to treating this as a mental illness instead of "Oh, you're not crazy, you're just fang-kin."
It's still treated as a mental illness, but since Western governments don't want to pay for asylums anymore we kind of have to leave them alone unless their delusion is harmful to themselves or others, we can't ethically force treatment on people for having a delusion. We also had the issue of asylums being used to lock up undesirable people (transgenders, homosexuals, and foreigners) for very shaky reasons, so I doubt we will see them coming back anytime soon.

With the vampire types, while it is still generally considered a delusion, most of the functional types couch their vampire beliefs in spiritual and metaphysical terms, they don't say they are physical vampires, to them it is a spiritual thing, so you run into spiritual and religious freedom issues. The types of people with those conditions that you actually treat would be those that can't function in society.

Both conditions are still treated as mental disorders, if a person seeks out treatment they will be provided with therapy and even medication if necessary, but if they don't want treatment we run into the same issue with paranoid schizophrenics that think airplane contrails are mind control drugs, if they aren't harming anyone and they don't want treatment, we can't ethically force them into treatment without running into a lot of issues. Mentally ill people still have rights, back when we locked anyone strange in an asylum we tended to end up with facilities that looked more like prisons than mental health centers, as treatment is expensive, and nobody wants to foot the bill for something that is requires years of therapy often with little result. These conditions generally don't go away if they are linked to disorders like schizophrenia, and even medication is just a bandage, often only lessening erratic behavior and not actually eliminating delusions.
I'm not talking about denying mentally ill people rights or locking them up. There is a persistent Internet culture (Google otherkin) that feed the delusions of the mentally ill and enable them and call anyone attempting to get someone with said delusion to recognize it as an able is shitlord.
 

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Would not having laws that discriminate against other people a good thing? If you break down the mentality of such laws, it comes down to "I am afraid of what is unfamiliar to me. So, it must be something we shouldn't allow in society."

What you seem to be advocating is pro-scold
Yeah I expected this to be a bigger topic honestly, but to address the point the part of your post I quoted, you absolutely can't frame it that way. I reject the relativism underlying it and presenting itself as a truer morality.

It's says on the one hand that people have their beliefs, and right or wrong about those beliefs, they're entitled to them, as well as their views, behaviors, and understandings of reality, so long as they don't interfere with other members in society's ability to pursue their own interests, ideas, conceptions and intellectual pursuits. It sees society as nothing more than an arena in which self interest as defined in a very specific hedonistic way is sought after...

"Indeed from an Aristotelian point of view a modern liberal political society can appear only as a collection of citizens of nowhere who have banded together for their common protection...

What this brings out is that modern politics cannot be a matter of genuine moral consensus. And it is not. Modern politics is civil war carried on by other means."

-Alasdair McIntyre
Ethics in this kind of society is governed by rules that support this underlying presupposition. You have your Kantian duties, your Lockean rights, and your Bentham-ian understanding of utility as defined by a global level of pleasure.

All of these ethical systems you would almost certainly be familiar with even if you don't know them by name. They're your inalienable rights of life, liberty, and property, your concepts of "Right is universal and rooted in the nature of the action itself not in the circumstances or results" and your "The ends justify the means as established by the amount, intensity, and duration of pleasure produced in the population."

These enlightenment rule based ethical systems are all very self contained and internally consistent, but all accept a pre-rational premise as their starting point.

No convincing argument is given for why my actions should be universal, focused on the maximization of pleasure, or confined by the need to not step on any natural rights. You either accept the premises given already and act consistently from there or you choose and assert a different premise making any sort of rational ethical conversation between people with different prerational premises impossible.

There's nothing to talk about. You either accept what's valued by me or you don't. People see that and you start to see the relativism of morality seep into the daily conversation.

When I say wishing the a good for a group, I don't mean MY understanding of good. I don't mean MY prerational but consistent premises. I mean to say there are some premises that are not merely valued, but valuable.

I fundamentally reject the idea of a relativistic live and let live philosophy as being the truth. There is good and there is bad, there is right and there is wrong... or there isn't.

To continue pretending that Lockean natural rights have any real rational power behind them defending their existence, and then to use that concept to defend differing interpretations of good as being equally valid is to ignore the problem and cobble together several conflicting ethical theories in an ad hoc and clearly bad way (if there are standards)

And If I'm right in my assessment, then to value those things and to want them for others needs to be spoken. All of it, and with a mind to a rationality behind each "should" that doesn't terminate in a "because."

That objectivity may not actually exist and values truly are fundamentally subjective... which means 1.) I'm wrong, but also that relativism of society is the natural state of things. What isn't the natural state of things is the understanding of that relativistic conflict of ideas as having any SHOULD that holds it together. If ethics are subjective, if they genuinely and truly exist not as a quality of the object being examined, but as a value that exists in the observer then it's not a question of what's valuable. There is no valuable, there is only valued, and you telling me to value appreciation of difference of opinion over appreciation of biological or scientific truth has no weight and cannot have any weight behind it.

If I'm scolding you for your behavior or your philosophy or beliefs do not mistake me. I am not scolding you for breaking any sort of Hobbesian subjective social contract, I'm scolding you for not adhering to an objective standard.

You have to reject that objective standard either by saying it's not a correct assessment of the objectivity of it (To which I will probably react quite negatively to any attempt to salvage the enlightenment project as a feasible alternative), or you have to reject objectivity itself which leaves you just screaming at me about forcing my values on others while doing the same to me by saying I should value respect for other values.

It's a contradiction according to your own standards.

So no, again to answer your question. To argue for standards of behavior is not the same as harassment unless you define harassment to be any criticism of behavior that doesn't meet your subjective minimum standard of not hurting someone... in which case then yes, technically I would support it.
You are at least within my top five of the best amphibians I've encountered, after reading this post. Good show.

The problem that I have with the "live and let live" philosophy is that it rejects claims to objective limits on behavior while simultaneously creating an objective limit on behavior. If you say "Everyone should be allowed to do as they please" but also add the caveat of "Unless it harms people," you are opening yourself up to the obvious question of why. What is it about harming someone else that changes it? A moment ago you were claiming that right and wrong were subjective, so what if I believe that hurting other people is right? What suddenly gives you the authority to stop me from doing that? Did you not just claim that no such authority exists?

It's a fundamentally impractical position. For all that nihilists talk about there being no objective standard or truth (which is itself asserting an objective truth), that doesn't stop them from constantly making claims as to how things ought to be, which requires one to acknowledge that something is inherently more desirable than another thing. A breeding ground of hypocrisy.

This is to say nothing of the fact that it also relies on proving "harm" in order to justify anything, which is a word that could literally mean anything. Unless, of course, we are asserted a factual, objective standard of what constitutes harmful and what doesn't, which once against contradicts the principle we are trying to apply in the first place.

I see little value in so-called "tolerance." Either something is true or it isn't, and either something is more right and good than not or it isn't. These "vampires" are either ill people in need of help or imbeciles trying to draw attention to themselves in a typically pathetic, self-absorbed obsession on being unique and special. Toothless and half-formed theorizing won't change that or make it right to assert otherwise.
Objective truth is impossible to define meaningfully though. Because we have only subjective means of measurement, at best, somwthing deemed 'objective' is merely a widespread consensus of what is subjectively held to be true by a large number of people.

Is this reflective of some true underlying objective point? maybe. But it is fundamentally impossible to prove this without making arbitrary leaps in logic and arbitrary assumptions.

As for subjective vs objective morality, do what you want unless it harms others would arise naturally from subjective morality, if you consider one point:
To acknowledge subjectivity AND the existence of other people (eg. Other people are real, and not merely figments of a person's imagination) pretty much leads to this position by default.

If you presume others to exist, but morality to be subjective, it follows that your views are no more or less important than anyone else's. If your personal morals cause harm to others that they do not desire, then you are by definition placing your own moral standards above theirs.
You are violating their morals for the sake of theirs.

This doesn't make 'cause no harm to others' an objective truth, but rather a pragmatic one. Without it, a society consisting of members with entirely subjective morality would collapse.

Something doesn't have to be objectively true to be nessesary.

Anyway, I can just as well state (and it's true, as far as I'm concerned),that I do not like, nor trust anyone claiming objective morality exists.
More often than not these people's own moral standards are full of arbitrary elements, many of which are horrific, and repugnant to me. But above all, claiming things to be objectively true that have little meaningful basis to them just seems like asburd cognitive dissonance.

It's hard enough already to prove the objective truth of scientific theories. (doing so already pre-supposes the existence of a stable, objective reality, even though no person in existence has ever had anything but their subjective senses to work with, and has to assume and infer many things to claim objective reality actually exists)

To then start claiming something as arbitrary as moral standards have some underlying objective truth to them?
Eh. It's absurd. And seems like a kind of delusional thinking, honestly.
Especially so if you still claim there is something objective left after taking into account the purely pragmatic...

Not to mention, what results from people so utterly convinced of the objective truth of their own moral standards is often so disgustingly sick and twisted, that the results are horrifying, to say the least.

So someone has a bunch of delusional, unrealistic beliefs? So what?
If your insistence on 'showing them the error of their ways' basically amounts to a form of torture, (many treatments for 'mental health problems' we've had in the past are dubious as treatment, but make great torture techniques), then I'm sorry, but that's just pathetic.

Truth isn't that important, nor that obvious. What you percieve as true is likely just as delusional as the people you feel inclined to attack. Abusing people in the name of 'truth' is one of the most messed up things I can think of, really.
You don't know the truth. You're just arrogantly shouting at people for not having your exact worldview.

Of course, if you want to interpret my hostile response to your position as contradictory, and evidence that subjective morality is false, that can't be helped I guess.
Subjective doesn't actually mean all positions are equally valid though. It just means there likely isn't any one definitive answer.
Otherwise, you aren't so much arguing about subjective vs objective truth, as you are arguing about the validity of making logical inferences from any given premise. No fundamental premise can ever be proven true anyway, because then it isn't fundamental.

Ehhh. Objective... So much nonsense happens when people lose sight of the actual underpinnings of their reasoning, and delude themselves into thinking there is nothing whatsoever about their position that is arbitrary.
There always is. Mathematics has it's axioms. Science, some basic assumptions about the nature of reality. Other subjects build on all manner of more basic things, or innate (but somewhat arbitrary) traits of people or other living things.

Is it all arbitrary? In practice, hardly. Most of it isn't. But the absolute foundations always are. And what is built on arbitrary foundations is ultimately, still arhitrary no matter how well reasoned and logical all the stuff constructed on top is.

OK. Enough arguing a futile philosophical point for one day.
(yes. subjective perspectives are ultimately not entirely workable in practice. Because true subjectivity means it's impossible to make any kind of judgement about anything. Which is impractical. But practicality is not actually a reflection of whether something is true or not. We treat reality as objective not because we know it is, but because it's the only practical perspective to take for most situations.)
 

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I'm not talking about denying mentally ill people rights or locking them up. There is a persistent Internet culture (Google otherkin) that feed the delusions of the mentally ill and enable them and call anyone attempting to get someone with said delusion to recognize it as an able is shitlord.
I've known what otherkin are for a long time, I wrote a couple papers for my undergrad psychology classes about otherkin on the internet a decade ago in 2005, a lot of it is mentally ill or vulnerable people enabling other mentally ill people. This happens in clinical settings too, a popular story being a group of people in therapy who all believed they were Jesus were allowed to interact with each other, rather than the expected outcome of them all fighting over which one was really Jesus, they all ended up agreeing they were different versions of Jesus.

Otherkin groups online are a natural extension of this phenomena in real life, both smaller and far more innocuous than many real life groups that enable delusional behavior. We've had real life conspiracy conventions for over 30 years that attract hundreds or thousands of people who genuinely believe that the government is ruled by lizard people, or that they are regularly abducted by aliens, many of them suffering from severe delusions that are reinforced and validated by their peers. The internet just makes it easier to identify and point these groups out to mainstream society, otherkin are just another link in a long chain of people getting together to justify and propagate a shared delusion.
 

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crimson5pheonix said:
Zontar said:
Major_Tom said:
So if I accept that they are real vampires, does that mean I'm allowed to ram a wooden stake through their hearts?
No, because that would be a Van Helsing hate crime.
What about taking off their heads and stuffing their mouths full of holy wafers?
No, you're supposed to decapitate them, put their head on a pike, stuff the mouth with garlic, and leave it out for sunrise.
That's basic stuff man.
 

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Souplex said:
crimson5pheonix said:
Zontar said:
Major_Tom said:
So if I accept that they are real vampires, does that mean I'm allowed to ram a wooden stake through their hearts?
No, because that would be a Van Helsing hate crime.
What about taking off their heads and stuffing their mouths full of holy wafers?
No, you're supposed to decapitate them, put their head on a pike, stuff the mouth with garlic, and leave it out for sunrise.
That's basic stuff man.
What if I use Nilla wafers? That could repulse anything.
 

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(Note: I have not read the articles.)
I feel a little mixed about this. On one hand I tend to be fine with other sub groups that recieve a lot of hate, including furries. On the other hand there was a report in my neighborhood not too long ago about a guy who believed he was a vampire and lured some kids so he can drink their blood.
As long as they aren't doing anything crazy like that I don't see the harm. However, I don't think they'll ever be fully accepted. people will always discrimate for being different much less people who believe to be something that isn't actually real.
 

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crimson5pheonix said:
Souplex said:
crimson5pheonix said:
Zontar said:
Major_Tom said:
So if I accept that they are real vampires, does that mean I'm allowed to ram a wooden stake through their hearts?
No, because that would be a Van Helsing hate crime.
What about taking off their heads and stuffing their mouths full of holy wafers?
No, you're supposed to decapitate them, put their head on a pike, stuff the mouth with garlic, and leave it out for sunrise.
That's basic stuff man.
What if I use Nilla wafers? That could repulse anything.
Too delicious. I'd eat them all before you could finish.
 

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Souplex said:
crimson5pheonix said:
Souplex said:
crimson5pheonix said:
Zontar said:
Major_Tom said:
So if I accept that they are real vampires, does that mean I'm allowed to ram a wooden stake through their hearts?
No, because that would be a Van Helsing hate crime.
What about taking off their heads and stuffing their mouths full of holy wafers?
No, you're supposed to decapitate them, put their head on a pike, stuff the mouth with garlic, and leave it out for sunrise.
That's basic stuff man.
What if I use Nilla wafers? That could repulse anything.
Too delicious. I'd eat them all before you could finish.
I don't know if we can be friends anymore, Nilla wafers are disgusting.
 

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Like many others, as long as they're not doing anything illegal, they can believe they are the reincarnation of Vlad the Impaler for all I care.

Buuuuttttt, it brings up an interesting point. If a "Vampire" goes in for a job and claims that he MUST work the night shift, or is sent to prison and demands that he must be allowed to bring his coffin with him, how is that any different from a transgender person claiming that we must have a 3rd bathroom built for them, or that taxpayers must pay for their sex change operation?

I'm sure the immediate response would be "that's a false equivalence, because gender identity disorder is a real thing, while Vampires aren't!!". True, physiologically speaking, these people believing that they need blood to live or will burst into flames in sunlight is fake, but their belief that they are Vampires is a real diagnosed mental illness (clinical Vampirism, sometimes called 'Renfield's syndrome").

So, since those people truly believe they are Vampires, and they have a diagnosed psychological condition as to why they believe it, why should that be treated any differently than a person who is male but claims to be female (and vice versa)? And if we contend that they are the same, does that mean they are entitled to special treatment (perhaps even taxpayer funded) because of it?
 

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As ridiculous as it sounds, it's just another flavor of religion, and we seem to do more than simply accept those.
 

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I hate listening to people blather on about "tolerance" this and "acceptance" that, because so often, the people campaigning for these things don't carefully evaluate and accurately vocalize what they want.

I tolerate someone who farts in an elevator. To NOT tolerate it would be to slam them against a wall and force them to inhale their gas back into their body, or at the very least scream and cuss and shame them. "Tolerance" movements are largely unnecessary in civilized, 21st century nations. People are actually incredibly good at tolerating things they dislike, distrust - hell, even hate - nowadays.

"Acceptance" , on the other hand, means something different. They are similar, but are by no means synonyms. To accept something is to assent or believe in it, or at the very least give it favorable reception. To bring up a topic posted in this forum sometime recently, you can tolerate having a friend who admits to being racist - but you don't have to accept it.

My biggest issue with most of the social justice movements I'm hearing about nowadays is that so many people have staggering differences in what they want. The "Fat Acceptance" movement, for an example, want me to accept that obese people are beautiful, rather than tolerate them or anyone who holds the idea that loads of fleshy tissue is just as attractive as average or typical amounts of body fat. More frustrating, they often go so far as to accuse me of bigotry if I commit the egregious crime of not immediately surrendering my opinion and simply agreeing that they are right, I am wrong, and I should be ashamed of ever having thought differently.

After reading most of the posts in this thread, I'm incredibly happy to see that just about everyone here is intelligent enough to recognize the problems that come from spinning "tolerance" and "acceptance" to sully the clarity of agenda.
 

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MeatMachine said:
I tolerate someone who farts in an elevator. To NOT tolerate it would be to slam them against a wall and force them to inhale their gas back into their body, or at the very least scream and cuss and shame them.
Well, that's a pretty restricted definition, and sticking to it would confuse the debate significantly and for no good reason. As with almost all words, its application shifts depending on context.



MeatMachine said:
"Tolerance" movements are largely unnecessary in civilized, 21st century nations. People are actually incredibly good at tolerating things they dislike, distrust - hell, even hate - nowadays.
Given the incidence of hate crime, I'm not inclined to believe this.
 

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inu-kun said:
Mazinger-Z said:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clinical_vampirism

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clinical_lycanthropy

We used to treat these as mental illnesses...
Agreed, what the fuck is wrong with people today.
Not that I necessarily disagree that this whole "real vampire" thing is pretty ridiculous, but we shouldn't forget we also used to classify homosexuality as a mental illness. I'm not saying this particular case isn't (I'm hardly qualified to pass judgement on the matter), but it wouldn't be the first time we incorrectly labelled something as an illness.
 

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Like many others, as long as they're not doing anything illegal, they can believe they are the reincarnation of Vlad the Impaler for all I care.
Basically, the truth. Doesn't matter what people in the otherkin community think they are, so long as they're not using as an excuse to break the law. No problem there.

Ihateregistering1 said:
Buuuuttttt, it brings up an interesting point. If a "Vampire" goes in for a job and claims that he MUST work the night shift, or is sent to prison and demands that he must be allowed to bring his coffin with him, how is that any different from a transgender person claiming that we must have a 3rd bathroom built for them, or that taxpayers must pay for their sex change operation?

I'm sure the immediate response would be "that's a false equivalence, because gender identity disorder is a real thing, while Vampires aren't!!". True, physiologically speaking, these people believing that they need blood to live or will burst into flames in sunlight is fake, but their belief that they are Vampires is a real diagnosed mental illness (clinical Vampirism, sometimes called 'Renfield's syndrome").

So, since those people truly believe they are Vampires, and they have a diagnosed psychological condition as to why they believe it, why should that be treated any differently than a person who is male but claims to be female (and vice versa)? And if we contend that they are the same, does that mean they are entitled to special treatment (perhaps even taxpayer funded) because of it?
Oh god there is so much wrong with this stream of the post. So lets take it bit by bit here.

First, there are plenty of Swing shift(5PM-1AM) Graveyatd shift(1AM-9AM) and other such night shift jobs available, so that's not going to be an issue.

Second, you're not allowed to take personal possessions into prison, or jail, a rule that applies to everyone.

Third, there really aren't people who truly believe they're vampires in the mythological sense, it's an otherkin thing, which is more spiritual and metaphysical in nature. That means they don't take being vampires, dragons, elves, or animals as biological truth, anyone who does is delusional, even as otherkin will generally support that. But the idea is the identity on a spiritual metaphysical level. So you're whole mental illness assertion is moot, except in very rare cases which more often than not are people who already are mentally ill in other ways, like people who have severe schizophrenia prior.

Drawing the similarity with transgender people is categorically wrong, because "gender identity disorder" has been proven bunk, even the fifth edition of the DSM acknowledges this. Gender dysphoria is a real thing, but it's been found that not all transgender individuals actually have gender dysphoria. Gender dysphoria is also not a mental disorder, it can cause mental disorders, but by it self it is not a mental disorder, or mental illness. However for the majority of transgender individuals gender dysphoria is present. The only way to fix it is to transition, for most transgender people that means some level of medical gender reassignment, even if it's only hormone replacement therapy. That means that medical transition is most often a necessary procedure. Basically no medical insurance anywhere covers transgender transition.

Keeping on that line of thought, it is legal to discriminate against transgender people in employment, including denying jobs, and firing people for being transgender, at least in most of the US it is. It's also legal to discriminate against transgender people in housing in the vast majority of the US, leading to a high instance of transgender people being homeless. This generally means that transgender people can't afford proven medically necessary transition medications and surgeries. So if you don't want the tax payer paying for those medical necessities then you should be shouting with transgender community for legal protections in housing, medical care, and employment. Homosexual people get all of those protections, and they're a lot more comparable to trans folk than otherkin and vampires are. So get your priorities in line. Trans folk would much rather pay for their own transition out of pocket, or ideally have medical care providers actually cover it.

Finally to the bathroom thing. Trans folk don't want a separate third bathroom, we're perfectly happy with ones that match our gender identity, it's transphobic jerks who demand the third bathroom, because they're transphobic. Really, they even demand a third bathroom as an "olive branch" to the transgender community, to cover for their discriminatory, transphobic, and dehumanizing behavior. Tran folk are perfectly happy with the existing binary of public restrooms, and unisex restrooms, we just want the legal protection to use the correct bathroom.

This is the problem with armchair psychology, people sit there and make assumptions about one group, then use it to further marginalize and discriminate against another group who isn't the same.
 

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Sounds fucking stupid. Like really, people think they're vampires? I mean it's just as much nonsense as otherkin but ugh.

I only tolerate it insofar as its their personal delusion that is unlikely to affect me. I think less of them for it, but it just doesn't matter for the most part.
 

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Quazimofo said:
inu-kun said:
Mazinger-Z said:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clinical_vampirism

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clinical_lycanthropy

We used to treat these as mental illnesses...
Agreed, what the fuck is wrong with people today.
Not that I necessarily disagree that this whole "real vampire" thing is pretty ridiculous, but we shouldn't forget we also used to classify homosexuality as a mental illness. I'm not saying this particular case isn't (I'm hardly qualified to pass judgement on the matter), but it wouldn't be the first time we incorrectly labelled something as an illness.
That just seems like saying "You could be wrong!" It doesn't seem useful. Yes, we could be wrong. But that doesn't give us any actual reason to think it's the case, just that it is a possibility.
 

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I tolerate people believing they're vampires up to the point where they're upset that I don't believe they're a vampire.

They have the right to believe they're vampires, they do not have the right to other people believing they're vampires.
 

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I find the hypothetical link between old vampire tradition and the fact that you can get younger by getting transfusions quite interesting

Of course you can not by drinking blood, which is funny and unfortunate
 

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KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:
First, there are plenty of Swing shift(5PM-1AM) Graveyatd shift(1AM-9AM) and other such night shift jobs available, so that's not going to be an issue.

Second, you're not allowed to take personal possessions into prison, or jail, a rule that applies to everyone.
I was just using those as theoretical examples of demanding special treatment, same as the bathroom example.

KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:
Third, there really aren't people who truly believe they're vampires in the mythological sense, it's an otherkin thing,
Many, many disagree with you on this one:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clinical_vampirism
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/shadow-boxing/201211/vampire-personality-disorder
http://www.realclearscience.com/blog/2012/10/renfields-syndrome-when-you-think-youre-a-vampire.html
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/6823646

"But it's not recognized by DSM!"
And? Psychology and Psychiatry, like all sciences, is predicated on the idea that it is constantly evolving and we never have all the answers, thus we constantly learn. There's a reason we're on the 5th edition of the DSM. Likewise, whether their belief that they are Vampires stems from schizophrenia or whatever else is largely irrelevant, they still believe in their core that they are Vampires.

KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:
The only way to fix it is to transition, for most transgender people that means some level of medical gender reassignment, even if it's only hormone replacement therapy. That means that medical transition is most often a necessary procedure. Basically no medical insurance anywhere covers transgender transition.
Well, this sort of depends on what you consider 'necessary'. If you took someone suffering from gender dysphoria, and locked them in a prison cell for their entire lives, they would not die from gender dysphoria. You could repeat it 100 times and you'd get the same result. So, while one can certainly argue that it is necessary for their mental and emotional well-being, it is not necessary for well-being from a purely medical point of view. This is not a cancer removal or a triple bypass surgery.

KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:
Homosexual people get all of those protections, and they're a lot more comparable to trans folk than otherkin and vampires are.
Apples to oranges. Being homosexual does not generally include an expensive surgery and/or a lifetime of hormone therapy.

KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:
This is the problem with armchair psychology, people sit there and make assumptions about one group, then use it to further marginalize and discriminate against another group who isn't the same.
Agreed (about armchair psychology).
 

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Ihateregistering1 said:
I was just using those as theoretical examples of demanding special treatment, same as the bathroom example.
The issue with the bathroom example is rather a straw argument, no trans people are demanding a special third public bathroom. That idea is the invention of politicians who want to ban trans people from appropriate bathrooms, it's used to basically make us look like we're making unreasonable demands.

Ihateregistering1 said:
Many, many disagree with you on this one:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clinical_vampirism
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/shadow-boxing/201211/vampire-personality-disorder
http://www.realclearscience.com/blog/2012/10/renfields-syndrome-when-you-think-youre-a-vampire.html
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/6823646

"But it's not recognized by DSM!"
And? Psychology and Psychiatry, like all sciences, is predicated on the idea that it is constantly evolving and we never have all the answers, thus we constantly learn. There's a reason we're on the 5th edition of the DSM. Likewise, whether their belief that they are Vampires stems from schizophrenia or whatever else is largely irrelevant, they still believe in their core that they are Vampires.
Every source you gave basically states that recorded instances generally stand as them having the mental illness first, usually mental illnesses that lead to delusional stances. It's not irrelevant if you're comparing clinical vampirism to transgenderism and gender dysphoria. Because two of those things are clearly proven to not be linked to delusional states, neither of them are clinical vampirism. Trans individuals know full well what biological sex we are based what we're assigned at birth, or what is discovered later in the case of intersex individuals who had their sex "corrected" as infants by doctors. The reason I use corrected is treating intersex in infants usually leads to gender identity and dysphoria issues later, along with a slew of other medical issues. On the other hand clinical vampires seem to be largely in a state of delusion brought on by psychosis, something vastly different from transgenderism. This based on the fact that transgender identities and gender dysphoria are not classed as mental illnesses, or mental disorders. So apples to oranges there.


Ihateregistering1 said:
Well, this sort of depends on what you consider 'necessary'. If you took someone suffering from gender dysphoria, and locked them in a prison cell for their entire lives, they would not die from gender dysphoria. You could repeat it 100 times and you'd get the same result. So, while one can certainly argue that it is necessary for their mental and emotional well-being, it is not necessary for well-being from a purely medical point of view. This is not a cancer removal or a triple bypass surgery.
Gender dysphoria can actually lead to mental conditions that cause depression, very severe depression, suicidal depression. Which means that if a trans person commits suicide due to depression brought on by gender dysphoria that is left untreated, that's a death linked to gender dysphoria. But putting all hypothetical situations aside, mental health is a purely medical point of view just as much as physical health. So doing something that helps mental and emotional well being is clinically important. I'm not arguing for prisons to be forced to comply, that doesn't draw a parallel to it's inclusion in medical insurance, even if that makes medical insurance for trans people more expensive. Because psychological care is generally included in medical insurance, some times so is cosmetic surgery if the case of body dysphoria in a cisgender person is considered clinically significant. So there is no good reason trans people shouldn't be afforded coverage, even if it costs more.

Ihateregistering1 said:
Apples to oranges. Being homosexual does not generally include an expensive surgery and/or a lifetime of hormone therapy.
Hormone replacement therapy is more common than the array of gender reassingment surgeries that a single trans person may, or may not under go. But my analogy was more apples to apples because homosexuality is not considered a mental illness, transgenderism and gender dysphoria are not considered mental illnesses, but clinical vampirism is considered a mental illness. So clinical vampires are the odd ones out on this front, especially because they generally have prior psychological issues contributing to the vampirism belief.

Ihateregistering1 said:
Agreed (about armchair psychology).
Well that's the thing comparing transgenderism to clinical vampirism is armchair psychology. Because the psychological and psychiatric professional community agree that the former is not a mental illness, while the latter is and the latter is generally linked to other significant mental disorders that involve delusional states.

Also jeez, what prompted you to dig this up after two weeks?