Add into this other unhealthy sexualities such as necrophillia, rape, and beastiality and I'm 100% with you. The second you act you deserve all the hate you get, but people who are sexually aroused by such things, but don't act, really need help.Yassen said:Well I have quite an unpopular opinion that probably came about due to my study of psychological disorders but here I go... I don't think someone suffering from pedophilia is automatically evil.
Don't get me wrong, anyone who rapes a child or indeed just has sex with a child can have their dick cut off and forced down their own throats for all I care. But when you think of pedophilia you need to remember it's actually a mental disorder. It's a sexual attraction to underage children, and what or who you find sexually attractive is not something you control. In my studies I've read reports of people committing suicide, not because they touched children, but because they thought about it and believed they were automatically evil because of it.
There are ways to treat it like most mental disorders, but they usually don't know it or are too terrified to seek help, especially since people will burn your house down even at the possibility you might be a pedophile. But a pedophile is not automatically someone who rapes kids, anymore than thinking about killing someone makes you a murderer.
So just to summarise: touching kids very, very bad. But being a pedophile is a mental disorder, it is not synonymous with being a child rapist.
Also, on a vaguely tangential note. What goes on in someone's bedroom is entirely up to them, married or not. So long s everyone understands the risks, takes precautions against STD's and unwanted pregnancies, and is willing, do what you want. If you want to have an S&M orgy, go for it. Nobody should ever tell anyone else how to have sex (unless they like that sort of thing). So long as everyone's mature and can accept the consequences there's no reason why a threesome, or some light bondage, or a little food play shouldn't be enjoyed.