Are you pulling my leg, or are you seriously arguing that birth control and a woman's right to choose aren't central issues for the feminist movement?Owyn_Merrilin said:I'm saying that if feminists think that "slut shaming" is "the idea of shaming and/or attacking a woman or a girl for being sexual, having one or more sexual partners, acknowledging sexual feelings, and/or acting on sexual feelings," then they have nothing to worry about, because that's not how the word "slut" is used in western society. In Western society, the definition I gave is what actually happens. As for the rest of it, yes, you'll find people who get excited about the issues I listed. But they aren't currently the main thrust of the feminist movement; for some bizarre reason, slut shaming is.Kahunaburger said:Considering that feminism essentially boils down the belief that people should be treated fairly regardless of gender and is therefore pretty common in our society, you're bound to have some crazy people that espouse it. The fact that some elements in society think that the beliefs of a few crazy people reflect badly on feminism is mind-boggling to me.Owyn_Merrilin said:I think the problem is less that there's a lot of men who aren't 100% positive about women, and more that certain feminists -- sadly, the loudest ones -- have started doing some very silly things, and they see men who don't support those things as being just as misogynist as a man who would have refused her the right to vote.
Actually, that's not what it is at all. http://finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/2010/04/04/what-is-slut-shaming/Owyn_Merrilin said:This whole slut shaming thing is a good example. Both men /and/ women are slut shamed. It is entirely possible to be so indiscriminately promiscuous that you gross people out; it's not a women's rights issue.
Sorry, what? I'm pretty sure you'll find people who have strong opinions on all of those issues.Owyn_Merrilin said:Real women's issues these days are things like birth control, abortion, and the glass ceiling, but for some reason people don't get excited about defending the first two or attacking the third in the way they do slut shaming.
The term has a specific established meaning, and if you think the term in fact means something else, expect to be confused when encountering people using the term's established meaning.Owyn_Merrilin said:Because that's what slut shaming is about: it's not about "women who like sex," it never has been. It's about promiscuous idiots who nobody wants to catch STDs from.
...and that no woman is ever attacked or looked down upon for enjoying sex in the West?
...and that a term that describes a specific thing is somehow less valid than what someone who is unfamiliar with the term might guess it means?