Virginity
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I lost my virginity when I was 15. It wasn't with anyone special and it was just a one night stand. I don't regret how it happened or that it wasn't something more deep. I think the cliche of "wait untill you are ready" really is the best advice because if you do that, whether it be with the one you love or just someone you fancy then chances are you won't wish you had done things differently when you look back at it.
It's both a big deal, and it's not. It's certainly a landmark in the rest of your life, but it's not something you should have to stress about.CODE-D said:
Not scared at all. Looking forward to it. I'll probably be having a nervous breakdown about all the things that could possibly go wrong, but honestly, I do that about everything.
No. Why would I sell it, when I can get it for free?
Promise rings are stupid. (Atheist here)
I'd say you should definitely be in love, but then again love is just a chemical reaction in your brain. You should at least be dating someone long enough to tell them you love them, and be comfortable doing so. Don't just find the sluttiest person around. And do you REALLY want to wait until you're married? A: Why the hell would you? (Again, biased Atheist here) B: If you did, your honeymoon is going to be terrible. Everyone knows the first time is gonna suck.
Just my opinions.
Not really a big deal. Just shouldn't rush into it. I only lost it a few months ago to my boyfriend and don't regret a thing. Just make sure you're ready. That's pretty much all there is too say.
No
No
I don't respect whores (receiving payment for sex even once makes you one) and people wanting to purchase someone's virginity are creepy.
Ugh.
Enjoy life, just don't be stupid and wind up with a burning itch down thar for the rest o'your days.
No
I don't respect whores (receiving payment for sex even once makes you one) and people wanting to purchase someone's virginity are creepy.
Ugh.
Enjoy life, just don't be stupid and wind up with a burning itch down thar for the rest o'your days.
Losing your virginity is not the huge, life-changing right of passage that society makes it out to be. It is a rather dull experience, because sex is over-hyped, and both parties come away from the experience mutually dissatisfied. I wish I had never bothered to even try it.
Likewise, there is nothing sacred about being a virgin. It's just one state of being. It doesn't change anything.
Go ahead and sell it if you want. You might at least gain a small something by selling it rather than just giving it away.
Promise rings are pointless and stupid.
Wait to lose your virginity until you are ready to reproduce. That's the only real function sex serves anyway.
Likewise, there is nothing sacred about being a virgin. It's just one state of being. It doesn't change anything.
Go ahead and sell it if you want. You might at least gain a small something by selling it rather than just giving it away.
Promise rings are pointless and stupid.
Wait to lose your virginity until you are ready to reproduce. That's the only real function sex serves anyway.
Not a big deal...
Umm... kinda sacred? Is there a halfway option here?
Can't be sold,(for anything your packin')
Promise rings are pointless...
Love/opportunity (depending on who it is)...
I know, I know... I'm a terrible person...
Umm... kinda sacred? Is there a halfway option here?
Can't be sold,(for anything your packin')
Promise rings are pointless...
Love/opportunity (depending on who it is)...
I know, I know... I'm a terrible person...
Not really, getting a good relationship is a pretty big deal. Things like first time, first kiss, first relationship are all nice landmarks, but no big deal, so no not sacred either.CODE-D said:
How can it be sold?
Are promise rings something that people give to each other so they'll wait till they're 16 or something? I'm not sure about them, answer will be 'pointless' though.
It'd have to be somewhere between love and opportunity.
I sorta do. I mean, I'm not about to just go losing it to anybody...
Nah... never once considered it a sacred thing. That's a bit extreme for my tastes.
Well, I recall this chick putting up an ad on the net offering her virginity to men if they paid her a certain amount. So... I think it can... Unless you mean a more symbolic way, I guess.
Meh... they seem kinda lame to me. It's like promising to save themselves for marriage? If a couple gives them to each other, why not just go straight to the engagement ring?
All 3 are fine for me. I mean, the big preference is for love. Marriage being second. But you can't guarantee either will happen. So that's where opportunity comes in.
Nah... never once considered it a sacred thing. That's a bit extreme for my tastes.
Well, I recall this chick putting up an ad on the net offering her virginity to men if they paid her a certain amount. So... I think it can... Unless you mean a more symbolic way, I guess.
Meh... they seem kinda lame to me. It's like promising to save themselves for marriage? If a couple gives them to each other, why not just go straight to the engagement ring?
All 3 are fine for me. I mean, the big preference is for love. Marriage being second. But you can't guarantee either will happen. So that's where opportunity comes in.
Its not that big of a deal.
and its hardly sacred. you get tight again, and really the only defining thing about your virginity is that you bleed the first time. For guys... hell, those wet dreams they have are them losing their virginity, so you may as well lose it to someone REAL.
You could sell it. Why you would I have no idea, cause either you dont wantto meet the guy that wants to pay top dollar for your virginity or its not worth nearly as much as you seem to think it is.
Promise rings are a waste of the material used to make them, and should all be gathered together so you can strangle the guy that thought of them.
I think you should wait, just cause it is your virginity and its been hyped up, but really it should be with someone you have a mutual repsect for. If for nothing else just so you both enjoy it to the fullest potential. I mean, if you only have sex once, or you have GOOD sex once, might as well be the first time.
and its hardly sacred. you get tight again, and really the only defining thing about your virginity is that you bleed the first time. For guys... hell, those wet dreams they have are them losing their virginity, so you may as well lose it to someone REAL.
You could sell it. Why you would I have no idea, cause either you dont wantto meet the guy that wants to pay top dollar for your virginity or its not worth nearly as much as you seem to think it is.
Promise rings are a waste of the material used to make them, and should all be gathered together so you can strangle the guy that thought of them.
I think you should wait, just cause it is your virginity and its been hyped up, but really it should be with someone you have a mutual repsect for. If for nothing else just so you both enjoy it to the fullest potential. I mean, if you only have sex once, or you have GOOD sex once, might as well be the first time.
Not a big deal.
Not particularly.
Can be, probably shouldn't be.
One of the most retarded ideas I've ever heard.
I waited for love, which was nice. That's down to the individual although I find waiting until marriage a little weird.
Not particularly.
Can be, probably shouldn't be.
One of the most retarded ideas I've ever heard.
I waited for love, which was nice. That's down to the individual although I find waiting until marriage a little weird.
I believe it is a big deal, something sacred, and shouldn't be thrown away lightly.CODE-D said:
If you wish to sell it, just make sure you get your money's worth cause it's something that can only be sold once.
Promise rings aren't for everyone, but between the right two people can be something very special.
I think you should wait for love, if not marriage. The thing about throwing it away too soon is that makes sex (love-making) something not as special between you and your partner. And if you wait for your loved one to come along, you won't ever be comparing them with anyone else. Say sex is only "good" between you two. You don't want to spend the rest of your life remembering the person it was "great" with. And especially not having that come between you and the one you truly love.
I lucked out; though I've had other partners, the best by far has been with the one I love. I would never have issue only having sex with her from here on out. Look forward to it.
Not a big deal in that you shouldn't do the whole 'Oh noes I'm a virgin waa!' thing, but perhaps slightly sacred in a 'wait for the right person/time' kind of way. Someone you're at least going to be with for a little while afterwards, not just a one night stand.
Anything can be sold, though that has no bearing on whether or not it should be. I'm against the selling of people in any way, shape or form.
Promise rings, as many other people here have suggested, are bullshit. If you're agreeing to have sex with someone in the future, and not to have sex with anyone else in the meantime, just get on with it. Less pressure for everyone.
Anything can be sold, though that has no bearing on whether or not it should be. I'm against the selling of people in any way, shape or form.
Promise rings, as many other people here have suggested, are bullshit. If you're agreeing to have sex with someone in the future, and not to have sex with anyone else in the meantime, just get on with it. Less pressure for everyone.