Virginity
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CODE-D said:
big deal (or at least was, once i lost it, i sort of stopped caring in the slightest)
why would i be...?
you mean like prostitution? relatively certain it's illegal where i live.
stupid and pointless.
whatever's good. (opportunity seems to be the least demanding of someone as lazy/reclusive as i, so i guess i'll go with that)
No, you're doing it right. I lost a tooth doing it. Nothing in this life worth having comes easy my friend.Daniel Laeben-Rosen said:
OT: It's only worth something if you give it value. To someone who considers it a rite of passage it should be done properly. To someone who considers it relatively meaningless then don't worry about it, do it when you want.
To everyone, it really isn't that great but practice makes perfect.
I don't think virginity is a huge deal, but personally I'm going to wait until I can do it with someone I love and trust. When I feel ready to do the beast-with-two-backs, I'll do it. Whether that's tomorrow behind the dumpster at McDonalds or when I get married I don't know, but I'm not going to just toss it away to some random hussy or whatever because I was horny at the time.
On promise/purity rings, if it works for you, it works for you. Personally I think they're a big load, and many times they're used as a means of controlling them and are often handed out along with misinformation of other alternatives.
On promise/purity rings, if it works for you, it works for you. Personally I think they're a big load, and many times they're used as a means of controlling them and are often handed out along with misinformation of other alternatives.
It's not so much that they're calling the people wearing them stupid, but the rings themselves, which is understandable as if the person is truly committed to the cause they shouldn't need it, but if they get a big urge to willingly have sex, looking at a tiny piece of plastic/rubber/metal around their finger isn't going to sway their mind. I do however agree a bit with the above post, as those rings are usually handed out by religious control-freaks that feel the need to worm their way into everyone's personal lives with a lot of fear-mongering lies added in. Not that I'm saying I disrespect anyone who uses them, as long as they wear it for their own reasons, not anyone else's.zwoodco10 said:
OT: Kind of important to me, but just because I'm anxious to be in that kind of relationship.
Although I'm semi-religious, I don't feel it's sacred by all the convoluted bullshit religion tries to portray it as. (Side note, I'm noticing a lot of people misread this part as scared, not sacred, but if that was the OP was actually going for, I'd say I'm a bit nervous for it given how vulnerable it can make you feel.
It can be sold, and so long as both people are willingly consenting, I don't care, though I wouldn't do it myself.
As I mentioned before, if someone commits to this kind of thing of their own free will, more power to them, but they shouldn't need the ring for that anyway.
Whenever you feel ready for it, so long as it's not forced upon someone, as I don't judge people on if they want to stay committed to a relationship to have it. Personally, I'll probably wait until love, but hell no to only after marriage unless the woman is just so perfect in every other way to wait if she wants to. I wouldn't be adverse to almost any opportunity if I continue to get turned down for relationships for the next few years though...