Every once in a while I'll go to buzzfeed, because I have a few issues with anger (nothing major) and I'm trying to build an immunity to bullshit and to overcome the urge to yell profanities when I hear something mind numbingly stupid. However, today I came across this: sorry for posting a buzzfeed link. Now if you read that (once again I'm sorry for exposing you to buzzfeed) you'll see that starting at around four or five that there are people complaining that they didn't get taught about consent.
Now I always thought that it was common sense that you can't force someone to have sex with you and vice versa. Maybe it was the Church I was raised in (which was quite frank and truthful about sex), maybe it was my mother (who is extremely frank and truthful about sex), but for as long as I can remember I've known about rape and that it's wrong, and that you don't have to have sex with anyone if you don't want to and vice versa, and I didn't need to be told, I just figured it out using critical thinking. I.E. If I have to ask to play a friends SNES then I must ask for sex, If I have the right to deny use of my SNES I have the right to say no to sex. and my question is:
Am I overreacting, or am I justified in thinking these people are fucking idiots for not knowing this by use of the lump three feet above their ass, is it a societal problem, or is it something in the middle that I'm not seeing? I sincerely want to know, because I want to slap the shit out the people that are saying they didn't know they could say no and I want to know if I'm justified in feeling that way.
Now I always thought that it was common sense that you can't force someone to have sex with you and vice versa. Maybe it was the Church I was raised in (which was quite frank and truthful about sex), maybe it was my mother (who is extremely frank and truthful about sex), but for as long as I can remember I've known about rape and that it's wrong, and that you don't have to have sex with anyone if you don't want to and vice versa, and I didn't need to be told, I just figured it out using critical thinking. I.E. If I have to ask to play a friends SNES then I must ask for sex, If I have the right to deny use of my SNES I have the right to say no to sex. and my question is:
Am I overreacting, or am I justified in thinking these people are fucking idiots for not knowing this by use of the lump three feet above their ass, is it a societal problem, or is it something in the middle that I'm not seeing? I sincerely want to know, because I want to slap the shit out the people that are saying they didn't know they could say no and I want to know if I'm justified in feeling that way.