No, it shouldn't but it's not going to stop just because people don't like it.Paradox SuXcess said:THAT SHOULD NOT HAPPEN.
No, it shouldn't but it's not going to stop just because people don't like it.Paradox SuXcess said:THAT SHOULD NOT HAPPEN.
This comparative and others involving the words breakin to your house and steal your stuff ergo is it my fault for owning stuff.If someone steals something from you, you wouldn't go `Oh well I guess I shouldn't own shit, do you?
Partial meaning a tiny part of it or meaning most of it with the burglar being a "reflexive" response?Sea Sponge said:Yes, yes it would.xaszatm said:So if I were to steal your credit card information, the it'd be your fault then?
If I don't secure my information and it gets stolen then I am at fault.
When I got my first car many moons ago I left the door unlocked. It got stolen.
It was my fault.
Look, everyone has their own views on this, mine won't change regardless of what anyone says. They left their photos where someone could access them. They have a responsibility to secure their property, if they don't do that then they share partial blame.
You are. Famous or not, there is a boundary between private and public life. This was one of them. It's not her fault that something she intended to share with someone else personally was then stolen and distributed publicly.otakon17 said:I am not victim blaming here.
That seems rather naive to be honest, what both people in that cartoon are saying (at least in the first panel, they're both wrong in the second and third panels) doesn't conflict with eachother. The hackers are definitely, definitely in the wrong, but that doesn't mean that the celebrities haven't been pretty foolish. Not everyone is nice, if you act like everyone is then you're open to getting fucked over, it's not a question of whether or not you deserve it.xaszatm said:Here, let me tell you my response in image form:
[img=https://38.media.tumblr.com/23bada4f7d151707df3ad8e889940159/tumblr_nbaxr1Gvcg1qel5vuo1_500.png]https://38.media.tumblr.com/23bada4f7d151707df3ad8e889940159/tumblr_nbaxr1Gvcg1qel5vuo1_500.png[/img]
Now stop.
No, that would be a suitable analogy to her posting them on a public facebook profile with along with download links.Laughing Man said:The comparative would be owning very valuable stuff, very desirable stuff to a very large group of people (i.e naked or compromising pics of yourself) and then keeping your very valuable stuff stored in a glass box with the words smash here for access printed on the side (i.e storing those pics on a source that can be accessed by ANYONE through the internet.
I'm not saying it ISN'T WRONG TO DO WHAT THE PERPETRATORS DID. It's VERY wrong and horrid. I am only saying she should have taken more precautions to prevent this and the chiefest of them would be that she had not taken the photos in the first place. How do you avoid having a kid? Many ways but the most foolproof is don't have sexual relations with the opposite sex at all. How do you avoid having naked pictures of you put on the internet? Don't have any taken at all in the first place. That's my point in this discussion,Hap2 said:My point was: saying you're not victim blaming and then doing it in the same post is confusingly contradictory. There are no mitigations here: taking private photos and posting them publicly is wrong, full stop. Nothing else needs to be said.otakon17 said:To the last point, yeah it is wrong. I said as much in my first post so why are you reiterating? If it was something concerning an illegal matter or lives were on the line or some other kind of extenuating circumstance then it's different. This is not any of those things. I thought I made that clear.Hap2 said:Except you're going to do just that:otakon17 said:I am not victim blaming here.
You're sending a lot of mixed messages here, at one point you're condemning those people for saying the exact same thing you said at the end of your post:I simply feel that if she should not have taken compromising pictures of herself in the first place.
What a person does on their phone is their own business, whether it's sending messages, sending nude photos to someone else, or something else not illegal or dangerous to the public, full stop. Breaching that privacy is wrong, regardless of whether the person is a public figure or not.And to all those that downloaded said pictures and use "Well she shouldn't have taken them in the first place.", fuck off that's not the point of the argument to justify your invasion of a woman's privacy.
As for my condemning, it's people using this statement to condone their actions. This is not a statement that condones this kind of thing and I am NOT condoning the actions of the thief or the downloaders of the photographs. But I still feel that if you don't take nude pictures of yourself, period, there is little chance of the possibly incriminating material getting out into the world.
I am not saying she does not deserve sympathy and I am not okay with this whole series of events. I am only saying that she did not think through of possibility of this happening. She's an actress, a public figure. She is more or less scrutinized and watched 24/7 by the zealous and obsessed. You have to be extra careful when you're in that kind of spotlight.
I can hear the counter argument now of "Well then no one should do anything for the possibility of being struck by lightning/mugged/have an airplane toilet fall on them." That doesn't really apply in the case where you perform actions that can potentially embarrass you.
If a person went out for a walk and a car struck them down, would you say they should've known some cars might drive on the sidewalk and shouldn't have gone out? It's ridiculous.
No it's not and I said that as much, it isn't her fault it got stolen and put out on the web for all to see but that is an inherent risk nowadays putting ANYTHING out digitally, famous or not. The key issue I bring up is why she wanted to take the pictures in the first place. She couldn't have sent him a sext? Called him? Maybe shown up in person and gave him her affection? She chose to put pictures of herself out there(there in the sense of over the cell phone network and outside her personal possession to her significant other) with the possibility that they'd be found by a third party, REGARDLESS of her social status as a celebrity.TransGamer said:You are. Famous or not, there is a boundary between private and public life. This was one of them. It's not her fault that something she intended to share with someone else personally was then stolen and distributed publicly.otakon17 said:I am not victim blaming here.
I am not saying this. The point of the matter I've been saying is be more careful, regardless of your social standing.xaszatm said:Here, let me tell you my response in image form:
[img=https://38.media.tumblr.com/23bada4f7d151707df3ad8e889940159/tumblr_nbaxr1Gvcg1qel5vuo1_500.png]https://38.media.tumblr.com/23bada4f7d151707df3ad8e889940159/tumblr_nbaxr1Gvcg1qel5vuo1_500.png[/img]
Now stop.
I'm not being apathetic, it sucks. It's fucked up and wrong what has happened here and that there are people cheering it on. The only point I am making is that if she hadn't taken pictures of herself nude there would have been nothing to leak. She is STILL a victim, this is STILL an invasion of privacy and the people who did this and are downloading them ARE scum. But she could have taken steps to prevent something like this happening is the only point I'm saying and the one that would work best is: don't do it in the first place.Phasmal said:No, I don't agree.
Once again internet's disturbing lack of empathy is disturbing.
If someone steals something from you, you wouldn't go `Oh well I guess I shouldn't own shit, do you?
BUT the people who do feel she is some way responsible for this aren't going to change their minds about it, I am pretty certain.
Yeah.Colour Scientist said:This was a serious invasion of privacy, this shouldn't be a question of what Lawrence should or shouldn't have done.
This kinda reminds me of you know how if women are too cautious around men then they're being horrible generalising bitches but then if something does happen to them it's cause they weren't cautious enough.
You can never be a perfect victim.
What she does is her own business and no one else unless she wants it to be, this is a concrete fact. But that wasn't the point of the topic: the point was, was it prudent to upload photographs of oneself nude onto the "network" as it were to another party, knowing said parties phone could be stolen/hacked or your own stolen/hacked? I don't think it was prudent of her to do so is the only point I am making.Padwolf said:My god, of course I disagree, she's a grown woman and it's her body and she can do whatever the hell she wants to with it. She's a person still, you know. In fact the same with all the women who got their photos stolen from them. They can take pictures of themselves all they like. It's their choice and not one anyone should make for them.
Phasmal said:No, I don't agree.
Once again internet's disturbing lack of empathy is disturbing.
If someone steals something from you, you wouldn't go `Oh well I guess I shouldn't own shit, do you?
BUT the people who do feel she is some way responsible for this aren't going to change their minds about it, I am pretty certain.Hell should she or shouldn't she shouldn't even be a question!Colour Scientist said:This was a serious invasion of privacy, this shouldn't be a question of what Lawrence should or shouldn't have done.
This is only as useful as saying you will not get your bike stolen if you do not own a bike.otakon17 said:I'm not being apathetic, it sucks. It's fucked up and wrong what has happened here and that there are people cheering it on. The only point I am making is that if she hadn't taken pictures of herself nude there would have been nothing to leak. She is STILL a victim, this is STILL an invasion of privacy and the people who did this and are downloading them ARE scum. But she could have taken steps to prevent something like this happening is the only point I'm saying and the one that would work best is: don't do it in the first place.
Invoking a bit of a fallacy here but I'm doing it for rhetorical effect. All things involve risk. Shall I avoid doing all things?otakon17 said:Every time ANYONE does something like that, they open themselves to risk which is why I say: don't do it.
Owning a bike is not a societal taboo and is NOT inviting anyone to steal it. You don't INVITE anyone to take something from you unless you actually do so or are foolish to the extreme with it. Nakedness and sexuality however is and even the act of just putting it out "there" is a massive risk. This is more along the lines of throwing out your personalized porn stash improperly and someone taking it for themselves afterwards and sharing it with their scum buddies. It's dirty laundry that wasn't properly handled. Doesn't mean they deserved it to happen however.Phasmal said:This is only as useful as saying you will not get your bike stolen if you do not own a bike.otakon17 said:I'm not being apathetic, it sucks. It's fucked up and wrong what has happened here and that there are people cheering it on. The only point I am making is that if she hadn't taken pictures of herself nude there would have been nothing to leak. She is STILL a victim, this is STILL an invasion of privacy and the people who did this and are downloading them ARE scum. But she could have taken steps to prevent something like this happening is the only point I'm saying and the one that would work best is: don't do it in the first place.
In that... it's not useful at all.
And you say you're empathetic, and cool, fine, you are.
But why is there ALWAYS a topic like this whenever something like this happens?
Why do people feel the need to put partial blame (or `responsibility`) on the person who had their privacy invaded?
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There were other ways. Like sending them a sext. Or calling them on the phone. Or meeting with them in person for naughty times with the shades lowered and the curtains closed. All things involve risk and some things are more risky than others. The risk of exposure in this case outweighs the satisfaction of a successful flirt, to me anyway. Hindsight is 20/20 and all and it most definitely was not worth it at this point.TransGamer said:Invoking a bit of a fallacy here but I'm doing it for rhetorical effect. All things involve risk. Shall I avoid doing all things?otakon17 said:Every time ANYONE does something like that, they open themselves to risk which is why I say: don't do it.
Saying that because there is a risk, someone shouldn't dare to be intimate or flirty with someone is silly. You're saying that because someone might commit a crime against them, they shouldn't engage in a very real, human behavior.
So apparently an image of someone naked is `inviting` people to hack it and you pretty much threw it out to people?otakon17 said:Owning a bike is not a societal taboo and is NOT inviting anyone to steal it. You don't INVITE anyone to take something from you unless you actually do so or are foolish to the extreme with it. Nakedness and sexuality however is and even the act of just putting it out "there" is a massive risk. This is more along the lines of throwing out your personalized porn stash improperly and someone taking it for themselves afterwards and sharing it with their scum buddies. It's dirty laundry that wasn't properly handled. Doesn't mean they deserved it to happen however.