Ridergurl10 said:
I think it depends on the person. For me I completely agree that the family bond is very important, but I have friends who have awful families and for them I would say either love or friendship.
I agree, some people I know family means everything. Others cannot stand their families and so it's their friends or lovers. Then you get those "Bro's before Hoes" twats, who seem to treat women as disposable objects.
I'd say Lovers/Friends before Family, unless you have an especially strong bond with them. You choose them, so your bond is stronger I think.
I care about my family because of
what they are not
who they are. If I wasn't related to them then I know that from their personalities I would not have any affection for them at all.