yea, cuz were not like really good friends, we only really talk in school and when she's bored enough she texts me. and i have terrible self confidence and esteem. also i look like a shaved monkey with my new hair cut. so yea...CuddlyCombine said:Wait, so why not ask her? Firstly, only egomaniacal bastards with nothing else to do will find themselves 'attractive' or hot. I, for example, think I'm an ugly fuck, but my girlfriend disagrees, as do the other girls I've been with in the past. You always put yourself under a higher magnification than you do others. This is completely natural; since you're nervous about asking someone, your mind will automatically jump to your perceived faults, and you'll worry about fixing those, even if they're core personality traits.imacharginmehlaz0r said:Ok so today was a pretty good day for me. in gym i got like 10 people out in dodgeball, i got a 95 on a science test, i found a test that i need to get signed, and i showed off my new haircut and people didn't laugh. (for the record my hair was like a bush and now i got it cut really short so i was expecting heavy laughter.) But then at last period, my friends were all just hanging out,(because my last period is like a free period), so we all started talking. we were discussing what girls we were gunna ask to a formal dance we have at my school. Now at the moment i knew i should of just took my phone went to the bathroom and camped out till the period was over, but i was dumb and stuck around. when we all went around it was my turn. Now, i like this girl that isn't hot but she has an amazing personality, shes smart,funny,and strong. so when i refused to answer they all said her because i talk to her every chance i get because she's the only one i can have a fun conversation with thats in my class. so they were all saying i should ask her to the dance. now i have terrible self confidence and thats evident. So i was like, "i dont like her guys!". But they now think i do but i have to keep denying it so they don't make me look like a fool. and the worst part is that i have a friend i vent on all the time and i realized that nothing about me is attractive while i was talking to her. so now im in a terrible mood and if one of those assholes come up to me tomorrow i swear to alla i will break their knee caps.
I'm sure you look fine. You did say everyone liked it, didn't you?imacharginmehlaz0r said:yea, cuz were not like really good friends, we only really talk in school and when she's bored enough she texts me. and i have terrible self confidence and esteem. also i look like a shaved monkey with my new hair cut. so yea...
i said they didn't laugh. and even if they like it i look like a monkey. and thanks for the help but today my asshole friend told her that i was gunna do it, so she said prepare for a no. so im not even gunna bother. but yea thanks man.CuddlyCombine said:I'm sure you look fine. You did say everyone liked it, didn't you?imacharginmehlaz0r said:yea, cuz were not like really good friends, we only really talk in school and when she's bored enough she texts me. and i have terrible self confidence and esteem. also i look like a shaved monkey with my new hair cut. so yea...
I say just work up the courage and ask her. Otherwise, you'll be left wondering what could have happened, and again, if you don't come on too strong, I'm sure she won't be offended. Why don't you try bringing it up casually in a conversation and see what happens? If you feel like it'll turn out badly, just withdraw from it.
Then again, I'm not forcing you to do anything, but remember that you're going to miss every shot you don't take.