Hate being late to these parties but... JRPGs are improving, and evolving, and becoming more varied. The trick is in finding them, they often get completely buried even within their own genres. There's people who have played every single Final Fantasy but never touched a Dragon Quest, tons of people who rant and rave about Persona without noticing other similar series. In any conversation about JRPGs you'll see the same top ten games mentioned over and over and over again, and used as the baseline for comparing the entire genre, but it's simply not that stagnant or shallow. Not saying those games are bad by any means but if those are all you played, you're missing the other 90% of the iceberg.
As an example I recently got a PS Vita, considered a dead system by many, but it's a JRPG powerhouse, Turn based, Action, Tactical, Dungeon Crawler, Visual Novel Hybrid, Dating Sim Hybrid, Hack n Slash, Beat-em-Up Hybrid, 2D Platformer Hybrid, Retro-style Pixel Graphics, Full HQ 3D, really there's no end to the types of JRPGs you can find on a system apparently infamous for lack of titles (really does depend on what genre you want). You can further apply this to many other consoles, especially ones from Sony and some from Nintendo (though Wii U is horribly lacking here)
As for anime-style? Well you're going hand in hand with that, it's the J in JRPG, they love their anime, as do many in the foreign market they cater to. While you do occasionally get the more westernized titles like Dark Souls, they are the exception and never the rule, and you're better off looking to Western developers for games that don't go towards that style or those tropes, thankfully WRPGs are just as varied in their offerings, just for different platforms.