What do women find attractive? (Women only)

Padwolf

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I like a few things in guys. Nice strong arms, but not too full of muscle. I love dark eyes, dark thick hair, tallness, a nice chest. I don't like too much muscle.

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I love his voice!
 

Lilani

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theonewhois3 said:
Seriously though, that's not an Australian accent. That's an English accent. Here's a podcast with typical Australian accents. http://www.cnet.com.au/on-the-surface-339340153.htm
I know, I know. The Sniper is played by John Patrick Lowrie, voice actor for the male citizens in HL2 and Episodes 1 and 2, and husband of the voice actress for GLaDOS, Ellen McLain :p I know what real Australians sound like. The "i"s just don't hit my ear very well. Like "loif" instead of life, that sort of thing.
 

IndomitableSam

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Chris Hemsworth. All he has to do is stand here and say anything with that voice and it's all good. Very good.

... On the real world side of things, taller than me and not thin. I don't like thinking they'll break. Otherwise, good sense of humor, must be smart, and has to have a good job and is good with their money. And accepting of the fact that my twin sister will always come before them. And that they don't get creepy or weird with the fact that I do have a twin sister.

Amazing how hard that is to find.

Also - they have to look like they have a strong back/shoulders... dunno why, but nice and broad. Might have to do with growing up and always thinking your dad is so big and strong. Yay Freud.
 

theonewhois3

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Lilani said:
theonewhois3 said:
Seriously though, that's not an Australian accent. That's an English accent. Here's a podcast with typical Australian accents. http://www.cnet.com.au/on-the-surface-339340153.htm
I know, I know. The Sniper is played by John Patrick Lowrie, voice actor for the male citizens in HL2 and Episodes 1 and 2, and husband of the voice actress for GLaDOS, Ellen McLain :p I know what real Australians sound like. The "i"s just don't hit my ear very well. Like "loif" instead of life, that sort of thing.
You mean like "caaah" instead of car? But yeah, I get you. Not arguing about the merits of the Australian accent, just pointing out that the sniper is not Australian. You would be surprised how many Americans and Canadians can't tell the difference between Australian and 'British' accents. To be fair though, I can't tell the difference between Canadian and many American accents. You guys and your sharp vowels.
 

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Eh, what I find attractive it's either varies from person to person (what I find attractive in one person, I may not find attractive in another), or (as it usually is) I'm an overall package gal. I mean, Mr. Boyfriend isn't James McAvoy, but I love him greatly and find him hot (the boyfriend, but McAvoy is still sooooooooooo hot).

For example; usually, I don't like hair on a man's chest, but I do love Mr. Boyfriend's man chest hair (that may be due to the fact that it isn't all over the place).

I think I'm rambling now.
 

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Those hairless, muscled, polished male models do nothing for me. I know they do for a lot of other women, but not for me. I prefer hairier, larger men. Facial hair is a must, and so is having strong arms to hold me with. I don't like guys with light-coloured hair, either; it has to be dark. Eyes can be whatever colour, but I think lighter eyes with darker hair looks good. And he has to be taller.

The size of the trouser snake matters too, somewhat. Ladies don't lie.

Personality matters a lot too, obviously, but I'm just listing some physical traits I think are sessy. We'll never wholly agree on what we think makes a man attractive, though.
 

Jonluw

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There is a surprising amount of love for body hair here. Most of the girls I surround myself with tend to be put off by hair.

I think the conclusion we're nearing, if any, is that Viggo Mortensen as Aragorn has almost perfect all-round appeal.
Gods, I wish I could grow a proper beard.
 

Eclipse Dragon

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Medium build is preferably, a little bit of muscle but not built like a pro wrestler.

Clean is an absolute must
I will elaborate, The guy must bathe everyday and wash his darn hair, and not smell.

Everything else varies, I don't mind mind any hair/eye combination or length of hair, I guess preferably not bald.

As for body hair, a little is fine no full beards, if he has a goatee, it should be neat and trimmed, some guys pull off a little facial hair well, some just... don't.

Edit: As for your Aragorn example... yeah that works for facial hair, he has longer beard than a goatee, but I'm just saying no santa beards, short beards are OK.
 

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I agree with a lot with what the other girls have to say, clean and nice and what not. But i have a friend, and we've spent a ridiculous amount of time with each other because we had the same classes and stuff. But when you start to like a guy, the way he looks seems to be like background noise sort of. When ever i see him, my mother comments how large he is. Sure hes a bit portly but like, hes a fantastic person to be around.

I have thought about dating him and how fun it would be, but i don't want thing to get awkward ,so i don't really go on that tangent.

What i find attractive about him is that we have the same likes, dislikes. Ill say something and he'll reply back, rudely sometimes. We'll scream at each other for no reason, Slap and what not but in the end were on great terms.

That's what i find attractive. Someone who will argue with me goodnatureed-ly (sp?) watch mostly the same movies. play similar games, tell be about tv shows hes been watching that i might like because he knows what i like. Someone who tolerates me just as I tolerate him.
 

Moonlight Butterfly

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I like a guy to be intelligent and funny, a sense of humor is a must for me. I don't like muscles on a guy really I'm not really fussed about body shape. I like dark hair and brown eyes. I don't like long beards but stubble is okay. I like long hair but as long as he looks after it.

I'm really attracted to grumpy guys too for some reason I have no idea why it's very self destructive...

If you want an example then Jack Black and I like Esposito from 'Castle' and Eric Palladino and Jaoquin Phoenix. I also love Bolin from Legend of Korra.

I definitely have a weakness for big brown eyes...

LadyDeadly said:
But when you start to like a guy, the way he looks seems to be like background noise sort of.
I'd agree with that, its very odd.

(Sorry for posting in the other thread I couldn't resist... I promise I didn't read anything :3)
 

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Nice smile so that like when they really smile their whole face lights up, taller than me which is not hard seeing as I'm only 5 foot tall
Shrug I do like a nice bum
Beards don't really like em, like the boyfriend's though
Dunno I'm more whole package see how that works together I guess.
 

burningdragoon

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Wait a minute... I'm not seeing many (if any) ladies saying money. That can't be right. Could the (quite a few) guys saying that on the other thread possibly be wrong? I find that hard to believe.

Just to be clear, I'm joking around.

Edit: And please forgive my terrible behavior by intruding into the women version of the thread!!
 

Mylinkay Asdara

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It's all about personality for me, first and really almost only. Physical attributes factor afterwards - and I am being honest, I've dated guys I didn't realize had appearance issues until others pointed them out to me. Once I'm paying attention to that though, and any of these can be mitigated by enough personality points, clean enough to be not dirty (doesn't have to squeak at all times, just not grossing me out at any point), little bit of facial hair but not a full on beard, good eyes, and - oddly enough - sexually attracted to me. That's important to me, I want to be wanted by the one I'm wanting, I don't want to have to bend over backwards all the time for it either with makeup and hair and junk. It makes me feel secure when I know my fiancé is always up for an opportunity to get into my pants, I don't worry about his wandering off when he's still chasing me.
 

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theonewhois3 said:
Lilani said:
You call that an Australian accent...
is an Australian accent! (You saw that coming)
I see you've played speaky spoony before!


OT: I'm a man, so I guess I shouldn't be here, but that won't stop me... internet man awwaaaay!
Now then to actually contribute to a conversation that's none of my business, I bet women love my rapier wit, awesome hair, and ironic narcissism.
 

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bluepilot said:
I like them big, whether that be muscles or fat (or a combination of both) I like them big and manly note:by this I do not mean clinically obese). I also like hairy guys, especially chest hair. Personality wise, I want someone funny and sweet who will treat me like a lady.

So hey, line right up. Don't forget the chocolate and flowers.
Oh yeah, big hairy beasts. I like a manly man with a bit of fur on him too.
 

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http://www.cracked.com/article_18866_5-reasons-women-are-as-shallow-as-men-according-to-science.html

Technically, I'm not a female, but this article involves scientific studies done with women and surveys taken by women.

From that website, I have also learned other pieces of information. Science proves that how lustful men and women are in comparison may be impossible to measure because women are more likely to hide it (there were two surveys about the person's sex life or something, one of which said the results were anonymous. The females had noticeable more different responses than the men did). If you're going to say that you, a women, like personality, then so what? So do all men. The question is what do you sexually prefer.
 

Screamarie

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Ooo this is....wow...I am SOOO all over the place with what I like. Growing up a nerdy girl and an anime girl I've found that I like "manly" men type guys like Sten from Dragon Age (or the Arishok from DA2....yes he has horns and white/gray skin, I don't give a fuck) and then at the same time I'm all for a good bishonen like Squall Leonhart and...just about every anime male ever (for those uber literal people, this is a joke. I know some anime men are not made to be feminine or even attractive. I do not need examples.)

But in a general, if I could have anything I wanted kind of sense I'm a chest girl. I like a fit chest ands abs with maybe a little hair depending on the guy. Something about pecs...I just want to trace the lines a fit torso makes.

I know lots of girls like a fit ass and while I can appreciate that, just doesn't do it for me.

Also, voice. I love a deep, strong voice. I have also found recently that a Dutch accent is one of the sexiest things on the planet.