Exactly, but I woudln't say because of facebook, instagram, twitter, tiktok. I would say more because of motivated reasoning. No one cares what a 40-60 year old does, but if our teenagers are doing something we don't approve of then stop the presses and freak the fuck out. And, the person he was linking is certainly motivated if for no other reason then to sell books.
In agreement with this notion.
Add onto this notion simply the fact of Built History and/or Human Variability.
How many people are in relationships they no longer have feelings for their partner, but have a long history?
How many families were built on these 40-60 year old's self-denial?
Some people have the strength to disturb all of that to be true to themselves. Godspeed. Some don't.
Same way that a guy can go up and chat up a woman he thinks is gorgeous, and he was only able to do so because at that same moment, some other guy who also thought she was gorgeous but failed to work up the courage to actually go over to talk to her.
It takes all kinds in this world. You have that into account instead of going "By this logic, we should see Trans people in droves!!"
When have humans ever been logical?