What is "normal"

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Isaac The Grape

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My response to this quoted post about weirdness sort of went on a ramble. So I decided to make into a separate thread.

Cleril said:
My little story:

Today I was walking with my ex (I only mention this to give you insight into the situation, not whining) going to our next classes in high school. During the conversation she stated "You're very weird, there's no (I didn't hear this with the noise), it's just a statement", and she said this jokingly while we both laughed a bit but I couldn't help but reflect on it and I myself cannot determine whether it was a joke, compliment, or insult of sorts.
I don't believe in the concept of "weirdness". It's too dependant on circumstance. I had a friend who at the age of 15 couldn't understand the point of pornography. What went through your mind as you read that? "That person is weird" "That person is blessed/indoctrinated" "Why did we need to know that?". What is "normal" or "correct behaviour"? Is it what the majority practises? Or is it something else? Opinions?

 

Boneasse

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JWW said:
Nothing is "normal". Not objectively, at least.
What he said. You can't define normal or weird when observing anyone objectively. It's just impossible. It's not like there's a standard formula for people to use when judging others' behaviour and doings. It's not just as cut and dry as that.

Just look at my avatar, does that seem normal to you? Would you think I'm normal, having an avatar like that? Don't you find it weird that I'm posing all these questions?

I rest my case.
 

KarumaK

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JWW said:
Nothing is "normal". Not objectively, at least.
Stuff is normal objectively, normal is average.

It's literally just going with whatever occurs most frequently.
 

Lullabye

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Sneaky-Pie said:
It's what the majority thinks.
What this guy said^

In behavior, normal refers to a lack of significant deviation from the average. The phrase "not normal" is often applied in a negative sense (asserting that someone or some situation is improper, sick, etc.) Abnormality varies greatly in how pleasant or unpleasant this is for other people.

The Oxford English Dictionary defines "normal" as 'conforming to a standard'. Another possible definition is that "a normal" is someone who conforms to the predominant behavior in a society. This can be for any number of reasons such as simple imitative behavior, deliberate or inconsistent acceptance of society's standards, fear of humiliation or rejection etc.

The French sociologist Émile Durkheim indicated in his Rules of the Sociological Method that the most common behavior in a society is considered normal. People who do not go along are violating social norms and will invite a sanction, which may be positive or negative, from others in the society.

As normality is often hard to define, a case study was done in 2008 in which students at Woodvale Senior High School, specifically students in the music program, were exposed to a certain kind of abnormality or as it was described at the time by Dr. Summerville, "weirdness". The aim was to see what adolescents perceived as normal, or "average", and what they thought would be abstract, or as many of the participants described it, "weird". Sarah Nader and Murray Bishop, two of the test subjects were asked to have a "normal conversation" with their peers. However it soon became apparent that the discussions had between close, or even "best", friends was defined as weird by others of whom they were engaging in conversation. The conclusions of the study were that normalness is not an entirely flawed concept, rather it is simply defined as what the majority perceives as the mean, or average.
 

Callate

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Generally speaking (as, how could one not), "normal" is how you describe behaviors that most people participate in, or at least would consider doing so. Even if you never get married, you don't tend to think someone else is abnormal for doing so. If 51% of people do something, you can consider than "normal".

Of course, one should seriously consider whether the term is a statement of approval. A lot of frankly despicable things have been "normal", at one time or another.
 

Normalgamer

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Isaac The Grape said:
My response to this quoted post about weirdness sort of went on a ramble. So I decided to make into a separate thread.

Cleril said:
My little story:

Today I was walking with my ex (I only mention this to give you insight into the situation, not whining) going to our next classes in high school. During the conversation she stated "You're very weird, there's no (I didn't hear this with the noise), it's just a statement", and she said this jokingly while we both laughed a bit but I couldn't help but reflect on it and I myself cannot determine whether it was a joke, compliment, or insult of sorts.
I don't believe in the concept of "weirdness". It's too dependant on circumstance. I had a friend who at the age of 15 couldn't understand the point of pornography. What went through your mind as you read that? "That person is weird" "That person is blessed/indoctrinated" "Why did we need to know that?". What is "normal" or "correct behaviour"? Is it what the majority practises? Or is it something else? Opinions?
What is normal? Well me, ofcourse.
 

Blue Musician

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I consider what they call "normal" people who have the same generic attitude, thoughts, intelligence, etc. like most people I know.

What I consider "weird" are the people who aren't really generic in my society, the people who I haven't really met like another twenty thousand times. They are the people who I respect, and generally the people who I like to hang with.
 

2xDouble

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Everyone is individual.
Therefore all people are different.
Therefore there is no "average".
Therefore there is no such thing as "normal".
Therefore there is no such thing as "weird".

...except stupid people and psychotics. lol
 

SimuLord

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Normal is dull. Normal is boring. Normal is unimaginative and conformist and soul-deadening and mediocre. Normal is average. Normal is a town in Illinois. Norbal ees wundurful moar shox plz kthx.

Don't be normal. Be yourself.
 

NeutralDrow

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SimuLord said:
Don't be normal. Be yourself.
But...what if I am dull, boring, unimaginative, conformist, soul-deadening, mediocre, average, and a resident of Illinois?
 

Kuilui

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Normal according to my mother in an heated conversation we had today was. Having a girlfriend, having a job, having friends, not really playing video games and being for the most part unhappy because of those decisions. No seriously she said that. Oh and turns out your apparently gay if you don't have a girlfriend by the time your 21, who knew? God I cannot wait to get out of this ****hole. Perhaps on top of all that I should start drinking and watching sports despite the fact I hate both of those tthings. Does that make me more normal?
 

SimuLord

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Kuilui said:
Normal according to my mother in an heated conversation we had today was. Having a girlfriend, having a job, having friends, not really playing video games and being for the most part unhappy because of those decisions. No seriously she said that. Oh and turns out your apparently gay if you don't have a girlfriend by the time your 21, who knew? God I cannot wait to get out of this ****hole. Perhaps on top of all that I should start drinking and watching sports despite the fact I hate both of those tthings. Does that make me more normal?
Your mother is a toxic human being. Shun her. Use it as motivation to get out on your own and tell your mom to enjoy the nursing home you'll dump her in the moment she shows even the slightest sign of old age. Or if you've got siblings, tell her that "hope (name of sibling) is rich so he'll support you in your old age."

I'm not on speaking terms with my mother.