What is your deal breaker?

[Ickorus]

Commitment issues probably, i've already dated a girl who couldn't commit to a relationship before, sure she was great in a lot of other respects but she just couldn't stick with anybody for an extended period of time.

 

[game-lover]

My first response was infidelity. But assuming he's the man of my dreams, he'd never do that. And I bet it's too obvious an answer...

So... I think I'll go with kids. I don't want kids. I'm not gonna change my mind or be forced to. Either if he wants kids or he already has one. That's just not going to work out. I'm terribly sorry.

I can't think of anymore off the top of my head but I'm sure they'll come if I think about it some more.

 

[BGH122]

I too cannot stand crassness. Manners and polite language are easy.

Just do it and life becomes much better for all of us.

A-fuckin'-men.

For me it'd be stupidity. I can't abide cretins for too long. I seriously dislike having to endlessly dumb down my arguments to the point where they've become so diluted from their original form that they no longer argue for the same point.

 

[Sir Boss]

If she weren't nerdy or If she talked more than i do. These are my two major deal-breakers.

 

[EonEire]

Being too into "family", nothing annoys me more then people who just cant accept the fact that no matter what your beliefs the relationship is between two people (or more depending on where you are from I guess) not Us + Mom + Dad + Brothers and Sisters.

It really irritates the shit out of me.

 

[Folksoul]

Drinking and Smoking.
Cannot take anything seriously.

 

[Belated]

I have a lot of deal-breakers, and I don't think that's unreasonable. But if I had to pick my top one, it would be that she absolutely must be willing to entertain my fetish. There's a certain something that turns me on, and if she's unwilling to do it, that's a deal-breaker for me. You may call this shallow, but I have needs. And I can't go my entire life without fulfilling those needs. "One time" isn't good enough either. (Ladies, if you introduce something new in the bedroom, and your man likes it, it's on the menu. When it comes to men and sex, there is no such thing as "one time.") She's gotta be willing to do this certain thing for me, and she's gotta be willing to do it frequently.