I'm into women, and I find myself quite easily turned on by lingerie and frilly dresses and that sort of thing. I generally find that my preferences lean towards the cutesy types.
Confirmation bias isn't something that you would be doing consciously of course, it is something all of us do to one degree or another. Wikipedia has a good article about it, worth reading.aba1 said:You bring up some really interesting point I could be a bit biased. I don't consider myself biased but I mean I am inherently biased towards myself so I can't really talk. I have noticed on other sites and such geared towards the BDSM community the geek related groups and such are by far and large the most popular by a long shot. I have noticed a few other things here and there too but I mean again I could be just being biased like you said.Amir Kondori said:It could be confirmation bias, it could also, and perhaps most likely, be that since gaming is so ubiquitous today if you go to a "BDSM local meet" that you are sure to find a lot of gamers. I bet you would find a lot of gamers at any social function where the average age is less than 40.aba1 said:Haha obviously it isn't everyone just a surprisingly large amount. You wouldn't really ever think to connect the two things ever but honestly anime, video games, and comic nerds just have huge amounts of BDSM practitioners in their ranks. I dunno if there is any actual reason or it is just coincidence it is just a interesting observation I made is all.Amir Kondori said:Don't go making assumptions about all of us!aba1 said:These threads pop up every once in a while and I honestly have to say there is a strong connection between the people into gaming and the people into BDSM. I myself am into femdom and I am fairly sure a ton of people in this crowd with end up saying they are the same way. I have been to BDSM local meets and honestly they are almost all gamers it is amazing the connection.
I am definitely not into BDSM myself though I have no moral stance against it. My old coworker was into it although he would have harshly judged you for being into "femdom". I didn't bother to point out the irony of his prejudice when so many others would think the same thing about his involvement in BDSM.
Thats cool if you are not into BDSM though I mean it definitely isn't for everyone and there isn't anything wrong with that. I am actually really curious about what he had against "femdom" I am not going to pick a fight or anything I am just genuinely curious cause it is a interesting subject.
Yep. Tried 'em all. Hentai on a daily basis, Furry on a daily basis...and a couple times with cat ears/tails. >.>Colour Scientist said:I'm always curious how many people in these threads have actually tried these fetishes in real life.
Especially considering the virgin threads are usually so busy.
OP: I don't think I have any actual fetishes. Or at least, not anything I would consider a serious fetish.
I have preferences and I enjoy trying new things but nothing really stands out as a fetish.
Ahem. It's ok. You'd have to have the maturity of a 14-year-old to get it.KOMega said:LostGryphon said:I giggled.I bought a hat and named it "Joke".aba1 said:lmao thats good I actually got a decent laugh out of that.
It fits neatly over my head.
I seemed to have said something funny unbeknownst to me.
As long as it's funny I suppose it's alright.
Indeed... then I would tell him all about the ones I forgot to mention and hope he hasn't left the restaurant yet. xDchiggerwood said:I'm sorry but the ridiculous length of this list made me laugh. I hope you're not offended, but I'm imagining you (or should I say your avatar which just adds to the comedy) on a date in a nice, warmly lit restaurant with a non-freaky type when your date ask you what your turn on's are and you answer, and I'm thinking of his subsequent reaction to this list.theemporer said:Ah, well...
I'm gay (not strictly a fetish, but it's relevant), I like larger men (fat men, bears, muscular men, and what have you, my favourite being slightly chubby but not to the point of complete obesity) and short men (though that's more of a vicarious thing since I fantasize about being short myself and that is part of the reason I always play as a short character in video games where possible), I'm very, very submissive, I'm a furry, I'm into master/pet relationships (as a pet), I enjoy infantilism, watersports, bondage, humiliation and transformation fantasy, I like the idea of incest, I find unhygienic people attractive, and I like underwear and socks more than anyone should, and really any male clothes, especially those normally worn by others. And I guess I have a foot fetish, if that's even worth mentioning.
TL;DR, I'm a crazy freak and I love it.
I was curious about this too but then I read your post and now I'm dizzy, I wish I didn't have such an active imagination, specially since I pictured the sheep doing it T^TBeffudled Sheep said:I'm curious about this too.
And you're boring![]()
For having a curvy body with big boobs? I love Giana BTW.KoudelkaMorgan said:The following porn stars are fetishes unto themselves:
Giana Michaels
Well that, and her attitude. She's like the avatar of lust. The other people there might just be doing a job, but with her it seems like regardless of what's going on she is there because she loves it. She has fun with it, makes it clear that she is there on her terms and that she is the one in control. Most of the time anyway. She does a lot of trash talking, which is pretty funny and just kind of dominates everyone else of either sex in the scene. She could be totally flat and homely but her sense of humor and confidence would still be attractive.Dirge Eterna said:For having a curvy body with big boobs? I love Giana BTW.KoudelkaMorgan said:The following porn stars are fetishes unto themselves:
Giana Michaels
Ah gotcha! I love women like that and yes I agree she does seem to actually have fun and enjoy it instead of it being a job. I live dominant and aggressive women.KoudelkaMorgan said:Well that, and her attitude. She's like the avatar of lust. The other people there might just be doing a job, but with her it seems like regardless of what's going on she is there because she loves it. She has fun with it, makes it clear that she is there on her terms and that she is the one in control. Most of the time anyway. She does a lot of trash talking, which is pretty funny and just kind of dominates everyone else or either sex in the scene.Dirge Eterna said:For having a curvy body with big boobs? I love Giana BTW.KoudelkaMorgan said:The following porn stars are fetishes unto themselves:
Giana Michaels
That must have been interesting... Hmmmm. It would be hard doing those things with hooves, and the wool would get all stained. No bueno.Kaleion said:I was curious about this too but then I read your post and now I'm dizzy, I wish I didn't have such an active imagination, specially since I pictured the sheep doing it T^TBeffudled Sheep said:I'm curious about this too.
And you're boring![]()
T0ad 0f Truth said:I'm remarkably vanilla... the only thing I can possibly think of are French accents.
They're incredibly hot to me
...And bush >.>