What is YOUR Type?

[Ulquiorra4sama]

A shy girl. She should be about a foot shorter than me, preferably dark haired. She should be easy-going, but still an intelligent person.

And if any girl ever were to live through a relationship with me she would have to have a bit of a dirty mind, but still be a real romantic, because if it was possible then i'd be living on love and air.

 

[latenightapplepie]

While I agree on not ruling someone out due to one aspect of their physical features, I don't know about personality. There are a few personality aspects I just could NOT cope with no matter what the rest of the package was.

I suppose you're right. I go by Dan Savage's Price of Admission theory (Youtube it if you want to know more) and so I guess that the five things upon which you can disqualify potential partners are ideally personality-based rather than physical appearance-based.

 

[kannibus]

Smart, relatively good looking (bod's not a big issue so long as she's not channeling Jabba the Hutt), cute face, honest, tough and not too girly.

Hmm, I think I just described my wife...

 

[Saargston]

-Not an eyesore
-Intelligent
-Has humility
-Can laugh at anything
-Laid-back
-Is trustworthy
-Preferably a Mike Patton fan

I only see a pretty small amount of people who fit 1-6 and that's not so bad. What depresses me the most is that there's Arial Black of people who fit number 7 around here.

 

[Hurray Forums]

While I agree on not ruling someone out due to one aspect of their physical features, I don't know about personality. There are a few personality aspects I just could NOT cope with no matter what the rest of the package was.

I suppose you're right. I go by Dan Savage's Price of Admission theory (Youtube it if you want to know more) and so I guess that the five things upon which you can disqualify potential partners are ideally personality-based rather than physical appearance-based.

I actually really enjoyed that video, surprising as most "love analysts" piss me off. It captures my feelings on the matter pretty well, don't worry about the "superficial bullshit", but at the same time you have to know your own limits. I wouldn't ever reject someone for some of the things in the video like chewing with your mouth open(it depresses me to know that some people really are like that) and I'm definitely in support of compromise, but at the same time I know that some things, like say bigotry, are such a hot button issue with me that any relationship with a person like that just wouldn't work. Ideally I could get over that but I can't so I shouldn't inflict myself on someone to try and force it to work.

 

[unoleian]

No real "type," I've been attracted to a surprisingly broad range of people over the years.

I guess the only "type" I really have is the "type" I can relate to on a meaningful level. Which, as it turns out, can take a variety of forms. The worst mistake you can make is assume a certain appearance is always of a certain "type" of person.

 

[Phantomess]

Geeky boys who are into sci-fi and can pick up my obscure references to Doctor Who, have a reasonable sense of humour, appreciate good english comedy and isn't broke all the damn time. Hell, I know I get paid well, but for the... shukm I have to put with at work, I deserve it. The packing is negotiable, but I won't say no to dark hair with blue eyes or a mouth/lips like Johnny Depp.

 

[Nalgas D. Lemur]

This is my type:

Spoiler

How no one beat me to that, I'll never know.

 

[pyrosaw]

must hate babies.

Actually liking sex.( You'd be surprised how many chicks treat this like a chore.)

 

[Chefodeath]

Two Arms and two legs.

Skin is a plus

 

[Always_Remain]

Well after realizing I absolutely and completely in love(like the holy hell I must have her she is the one that drives me insane love) with this girl I've known for years but knowing she won't date anyone ever and thinks sex is the most disgusting thing on the planet, I've come to the conclusion I am utterly and completely fucked when it comes to women. Every time I see a girl that I find attractive I think of her. It pains me to know I'll never have her. God I'm feeling like Frolo ala the Hunchback of Notre-Dame but with less sexual desire. I just want to have the most special place in her heart. I just a mess right now. I want to tell her but I respect her too much and knows she won't change her mind anytime soon. Sorry Escapist. Needed to get that out.

 

[shticks]

Someone who thinks that funny akward moments interrupting sex is a good thing.

Someone who takes my weird thought and runs with them with me.

Someone who is understanding.

Other than that... i have a few body types i am partial too.... but the face is the real deal breaker

 

[Sacman]

Anything that isn't family... actually I'm not that picky. anything that is outside of first cousins...

But if I had self esteem I would say a thinner girl, you know a little lengthy, who likes the same kind of music I do and enjoys the occasional video game. of course she also has to be easy to talk to... I don't like awkward pauses...

 

[SL33TBL1ND]

A reasonably good looking female version of me. It's not going to well.

 

[Caligulove]

Someone who has the same humor as me- that I know that my jokes and style of humor will make them laugh and that can make me laugh!

That and just a drive to do something in their life. Not entirely knowing EXACTLY what they were going to do in their life down to the letter- but knowing what they want to do and taking the steps to do that in their life and not letting themselves get boxed into a situation because 'there's nothing they can do about it'
I really believe that anyone can completely change their life around if they're not happy with it or they think they're going the wrong way

That and a nice ass helps (gotta be honest)

 

[FC Groningen]

Smart, attractive (slight preference for redheads lately), assertive, independent and a sense of humor.

Above all, I want a partner, not a servant.

 

[Betancore]

If she shares my love for serial killers she's a keeper.

Totally not coming onto you here, but I have to agree. If I could meet a guy who didn't think my obsession with serial killers was excessively creepy, that would be great. Although I can't blame them for backing away when I start gushing about where Ed Gein kept assorted body parts, or how I think it's awesome that Jeffrey Dahmer bleached skulls and painted them.

I swear I've posted in this kind of thread several times now. I like guys who are confident, have a sense of humour, and are willing to put up with my whining. Something like that. I'm pretty flexible with everything else.

 

[MorsePacific]

Female, human, with a pulse. I'm not picky.

 

[FC Groningen]

You show me someone who say's they want a good personality or a sense of humour and I'll show you a liar. All attraction is based on physical appearance. You may be drawn to certain aspects of their personality/intellect or whatever. But attraction is what sparks this off and is what keeps it going. Pure and simple.

Of course it starts there, but I assure you, you will get fed up with someone very fast if she turns out to be an opposite of what you seek in a woman (physical aspects not included).

 

[Booze Zombie]

Strong, physically and mentally.
If I'm attracted to them, they're probably my type, anyway...