JUMBO PALACE said:
Okie dokie. The United States then.
It is interesting to hear that some Japanese people view the USA as open about sexuality. I think the assumption that Japan is so open about sex comes from the few nuggets that get latched on to by American culture. When you learn about lolis, hentai, tentacle porn, etc. I would imagine it would be hard to suspect anything other than a culture that's very open about sex and nudity.
The way you describe things, it sounds like the US is sexualized and vanilla while Japan is repressed and kinky.
Thank you for being understanding about the distinction, it's just a little odd to hear about the West as if the United States is the only country there.
As for views, it's a simplistic way of putting it, but you have hit on some of the difference.
For Japan, there's a sort of acceptable, almost humorous sort of perversion in fiction that would generally be portrayed as creepy and wrong in US entertainment. Teasing and skimpy outfits are also common in Japanese fiction but generally unacceptable outside of cosplay. On the flip side though, the American penchant for dressing skimpy even in day to day life, bikinis on the beach front, and skimpy shorts, is seen as overly sexual by a lot of Japanese society, mimicking that kind of American clothing is seen as rebellious and socially deviant a Japanese person walking down the street in short jeans and a thong is seen as obscene in a lot of areas. There's also a massive difference in what's acceptable in downtown Tokyo versus the smaller cities and rural areas.
Talking about sex is probably where you are closest with your comparison, from my experience, America is much more open in discussing the act of sex and sexual relationships, while being reluctant to discuss sexual deviancy, whereas Japan is much more reserved, you aren't going to get guys going to the bar to talk to women about casual one night stands as often or as easily, but deviancy is more open, even if not quite accepted, for example, gay relationships are more common in fiction, but outside the fetishishization Japanese society sees homosexuality as a passing phase that is acceptable as a teenager but should be discarded in favor of heterosexual marriage as an adult.
On mobile so can't type more, the subject is interesting though, in some ways Japan is open, and in others very closed, its hard to compare to Western countries on a scale of being more or less prudish than the other.